
How do you picture this person??





Posted by ShadowcatWhy sensitive
Sensitive

Posted by SsupermanLol why do you think that
You go hide in a closet with your security blanket

Posted by Stensco21Too much ScorpPosted by SsupermanLol why do you think that
You go hide in a closet with your security blanketclick to expand

Posted by SsupermanPosted by Stensco21Too much ScorpPosted by SsupermanLol why do you think that
You go hide in a closet with your security blanketclick to expand

Posted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21I picture myself?exclude moon add mars and pluto?
How do you picture this person??
What are the other placements?click to expand

Posted by Neno2Wow. What is he like? I've never met anyone w the same placements as me.Posted by Stensco21I have a brother?almost same placement s as you,we both are scorp steliumsPosted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21I picture myself?exclude moon add mars and pluto?
How do you picture this person??
What are the other placements?
Venus sag
Mars libra
Pluto Scorpio
Neptune Capricorn
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
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Posted by Stensco21Like me hiding from themPosted by SsupermanPosted by Stensco21Too much ScorpPosted by SsupermanLol why do you think that
You go hide in a closet with your security blanket
Like hiding in a closet from paranoia?
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Posted by Neno2What does his aura feel like?Posted by Stensco21Intense?u can feel his aura,many people cant stand it thoPosted by Neno2Wow. What is he like? I've never met anyone w the same placements as me.Posted by Stensco21I have a brother?almost same placement s as you,we both are scorp steliumsPosted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21I picture myself?exclude moon add mars and pluto?
How do you picture this person??
What are the other placements?
Venus sag
Mars libra
Pluto Scorpio
Neptune Capricorn
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
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Posted by ShadowcatYes.Posted by Stensco21Posted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21I picture myself?exclude moon add mars and pluto?
How do you picture this person??
What are the other placements?
Venus sag
Mars libra
Pluto Scorpio
Neptune Capricorn
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Does your venus conjunct saturn and uranus?
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Posted by SentimentalCrabbyI am lol
All Scorpio? Sarcastic as hell!

Posted by ShadowcatTrue I am very very sensitivePosted by Stensco21Scorpio moon. Plus the sun conjunct moon, moon conjunct mercury, sun conjunct mercury implications. Scorpio moon(many grow out of this though) already has a very clouded perception, and these aspects don't really help. It's an intrinsically sensitive placements that often confuses mistakes with misile guided attacks.Posted by ShadowcatWhy sensitive
Sensitiveclick to expand

Posted by Neno2I noticed with Scorpios their aura and stare is so strong I don't like looking them in the eye and I'm a damn Scorpio. Always makes me wonder if that's how I make ppl feel. Which would be weird because Iran not my intention lolPosted by Stensco21Uncompromising?its strong,but if u a cool person u can stand it?unfortunatelly i scare people morePosted by Neno2What does his aura feel like?Posted by Stensco21Intense?u can feel his aura,many people cant stand it thoPosted by Neno2Wow. What is he like? I've never met anyone w the same placements as me.Posted by Stensco21I have a brother?almost same placement s as you,we both are scorp steliumsPosted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21I picture myself?exclude moon add mars and pluto?
How do you picture this person??
What are the other placements?
Venus sag
Mars libra
Pluto Scorpio
Neptune Capricorn
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
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Posted by ShadowcatPosted by Stensco21Posted by ShadowcatYes.Posted by Stensco21Posted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21I picture myself?exclude moon add mars and pluto?
How do you picture this person??
What are the other placements?
Venus sag
Mars libra
Pluto Scorpio
Neptune Capricorn
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Does your venus conjunct saturn and uranus?
That(venus conjunct uranus) sounds frustrating for a heavy scorp. Is your scorp stellium in your 10th house?
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Posted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21Yes?scorp ladies are heavyweight categoryPosted by Neno2I noticed with Scorpios their aura and stare is so strong I don't like looking them in the eye and I'm a damn Scorpio. Always makes me wonder if that's how I make ppl feel. Which would be weird because Iran not my intention lolPosted by Stensco21Uncompromising?its strong,but if u a cool person u can stand it?unfortunatelly i scare people morePosted by Neno2What does his aura feel like?Posted by Stensco21Intense?u can feel his aura,many people cant stand it thoPosted by Neno2Wow. What is he like? I've never met anyone w the same placements as me.Posted by Stensco21I have a brother?almost same placement s as you,we both are scorp steliumsPosted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21I picture myself?exclude moon add mars and pluto?
How do you picture this person??
What are the other placements?
Venus sag
Mars libra
Pluto Scorpio
Neptune Capricorn
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
And we stare a lot,its just automaticallyclick to expand

Posted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21Its a weird behavior too?lets be honest we Scorpios act like demons?we look sexy but doesn't matter cuz we scare peoplePosted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21Yes?scorp ladies are heavyweight categoryPosted by Neno2I noticed with Scorpios their aura and stare is so strong I don't like looking them in the eye and I'm a damn Scorpio. Always makes me wonder if that's how I make ppl feel. Which would be weird because Iran not my intention lolPosted by Stensco21Uncompromising?its strong,but if u a cool person u can stand it?unfortunatelly i scare people morePosted by Neno2What does his aura feel like?Posted by Stensco21Intense?u can feel his aura,many people cant stand it thoPosted by Neno2Wow. What is he like? I've never met anyone w the same placements as me.Posted by Stensco21I have a brother?almost same placement s as you,we both are scorp steliumsPosted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21I picture myself?exclude moon add mars and pluto?
How do you picture this person??
What are the other placements?
Venus sag
Mars libra
Pluto Scorpio
Neptune Capricorn
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
And we stare a lot,its just automatically
It's a weird energy lol
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Posted by Saggi212This describes me to a T
Secretive, afraid ,temperous, black and white, strong, strong will, impulsive

Posted by Eddie_VanjoviPosted by Stensco21You're almost identical to my ex.
Mars libra and sag Venus
Neptune cap
Saturn cap
Pluto Scorpio
She was insanely jealous, sensitive, and had no idea how to deal with her emotions. High IQ, but very low EQ. Difficulties in taking criticism. But very loving. Overly concerned of other's views of her. Acceptance comes from external means, not internal. Lazy, but gifted. Wasted talent. Low self-esteem. Doesn't believe in self's capabilities. Irrational despite high IQ. Severe disconnect between reality and fantasy. Poor emotional processing. Difficulty trusting others with her emotional needs. Polar emotions. Emotionally unstable. Egocentric.
Very good in social circles. Very beautiful and inviting (she had a Scorpio rising, though). Many friends but few close friends. She was very introverted regardless of social status. Antisocial-like personality issues. She was cunning, fun, good sense of humour, but very paranoid. Jealous of others. Requires others to sacrifice in order for her to succeed. Unable to rely on self to pursue her talents.
Very sensitive creature with the inability to process emotions effectively, regardless of being very intelligent. Your cap rising might make things radically different on the other hand.click to expand


Posted by Stensco21Posted by Saggi212
Secretive, afraid ,temperous, black and white, strong, strong will, impulsive
How can you tell if someone has a severe disconnect from reality into fantasy?
This describes me to a Tclick to expand


Posted by LazyKI can be. But mostly ppl say I look sweet lol but intense
Initial thought is dark & negative

Posted by Eddie_Vanjovilol I would get frustrated but I wouldn't give up
If she had the tools build a bridge, with the blueprints, there was nothing stopping her. If she had to make the tools, and had no idea how to build a bridge, she would give up.

Posted by ShadowcatSo true! I like very deep bonds but also don't like to lose my freedom. I like not being tied down or anchored but like to have one solid deep relationship at all times. In the past I would go through cycles of having a bf and then running away once I needed space but I'm trying to change because it hurts ppl. I also find it hard to stay w one person for a long time because I like variety and get bored so fastPosted by Stensco21Posted by ShadowcatPosted by Stensco21Posted by ShadowcatYes.Posted by Stensco21Posted by Neno2Posted by Stensco21I picture myself?exclude moon add mars and pluto?
How do you picture this person??
What are the other placements?
Venus sag
Mars libra
Pluto Scorpio
Neptune Capricorn
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Does your venus conjunct saturn and uranus?
That(venus conjunct uranus) sounds frustrating for a heavy scorp. Is your scorp stellium in your 10th house?
Yes it is. And why would this placement be frustrating for me?
I'm speaking from experiencehere but I could be wrong. I'm a cap sun with a gemini moon and sag venus. My venus is also conjunct pluto. So an issue that I have is thatI would like my relationships to, at least, start off as fun, detached and somewhat distant. But I also get bored with shallowness very quickly and am gradually having less tolerance for it(venus-pluto). That one placement throws a monkey wrench into my system.
Now as a scorpio sun and moon, you're going to suffer from the crawlinyoursoul disease. There's a need to rravel to the depths of someone, but with your venus conjunct uranus--->you're going to be more uncomfortable with that. There's a need for something weird, and different, but also a strong need for space. So I'd think that it qould manifest as a seesaw effect. In which you find people to either be too distant or too smothering.
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Posted by Eddie_VanjoviPosted by Stensco21I'm referring to a different kind of lazy. If the odds were set against her, she would easily give up. For example, when it came to her VISA, after rejection she essentially gave up on our relationship. She was not open minded and had the will to pursue those alternatives.
I have a high social status but I barely socialize. Ppl put me on a pedastool. And I'm not lazy though. I push myself hard until I burn out
In the work environment, or education, etc., by no means lazy, true. But when it came to herself and her own needs, she sat on her ass all day. She was an incredible worker on the other hand. Did things that were expected of her. But these were things that were conceptual. When it came to her emotions and emotional needs, she was beyond lazy to find solutions for them. Over 8 hours of her day would be spent "crying" over unable to bridge the gap between our physical distance and relied on myself to spend tens of thousands of dollars to ease that gap while she refused to explore alternative measures.
Emotionally lazy may be a better term.click to expand

Posted by Eddie_VanjoviYes. She seems very unstable.
If she was given a shovel, she could dig.
If she had to make a shovel, there would be no hole.
Does that make sense? That's what it was like for her emotional needs. Very closed minded.
One thing that tore my heart apart with her was that she refused to take a week off from work for us to get married. I wanted to give her a nice marriage and she mistook that as "I don't want to get married". It was beyond the truth. She had no idea on how to process these things, emotionally.
She had a very good reputation at work. All we needed was a few more days. No, it wouldn't secure her a spot in Canada, but it would allow her to visit, improve her relations with Canada for travel and make it easier for her to get into the country the second time. We could have also arranged married in Canada. She refused to take these alternatives because she couldn't think further down the road. She couldn't turn fantasy into reality. It's hard to explain.
Another problem. After I taught her good English language skills, I got her accepted into the university here. VISA rejected her. She decided to take the easy way out and wait 2 years for her citizenship from an EU country. By the time that came in, we broke apart. It became far too difficult with her personal issues and mine. She relied on me for all of her emotional health.
Instead of going to school and getting a 2 year degree, she made excuse after excuse. After we broke apart she found another man within weeks and went to school. I was happy for her but betrayed. She could have done this with "the man of her dreams" as opposed to some rebound.
I dunno, does that make sense?

Posted by Eddie_VanjoviShe seemed like she could only think one way. Like fixed thinking lolPosted by Stensco21But it was like, what if we don't even need a bridge? Did we actually even need to cross the river? She would get so fixated on building that bridge that she would neglect alternatives that may appear more difficult. Build a boat? Make a submarine. Catapult over? She lack creativity unless motivated. That's where I talk about wasted talent. She was beyond talented in so many ways. She was very creative. But without the motivation and support from another, nothing would ever come from it.Posted by Eddie_Vanjovilol I would get frustrated but I wouldn't give up
If she had the tools build a bridge, with the blueprints, there was nothing stopping her. If she had to make the tools, and had no idea how to build a bridge, she would give up.
Why see a therapist when I could just talk to a friend? Turns out her friend was a psycho and projected her issues onto her, making our relationship so much worse.click to expand

Posted by halalbaeDo you have an example?Posted by Stensco21those are all my scorpio ex's placements
Mars libra and sag Venus
Neptune cap
Saturn cap
Pluto Scorpio
they are easy to manipulate, lack relfection and inteospection, have no coherent thought about their irrational actionsclick to expand

Posted by Eddie_VanjoviIt's fine it's interesting
At this point I think I'm being less helpful and more venting. LOL.
Sorry.

Posted by Eddie_VanjoviPosted by Stensco21Bud, you don't even know a fraction of it. I really loved her; I loved her beyond words. I knew her for so many years and wanted the best for her. But she was very troubled..very. I can only hope she one days gets help.Posted by Eddie_VanjoviYes. She seems very unstable.
If she was given a shovel, she could dig.
If she had to make a shovel, there would be no hole.
I think I have this issue. With going into my shell. Ive do have ptsd. So how do you get help? Go to a counselor? And do they really help?
Does that make sense? That's what it was like for her emotional needs. Very closed minded.
One thing that tore my heart apart with her was that she refused to take a week off from work for us to get married. I wanted to give her a nice marriage and she mistook that as "I don't want to get married". It was beyond the truth. She had no idea on how to process these things, emotionally.
She had a very good reputation at work. All we needed was a few more days. No, it wouldn't secure her a spot in Canada, but it would allow her to visit, improve her relations with Canada for travel and make it easier for her to get into the country the second time. We could have also arranged married in Canada. She refused to take these alternatives because she couldn't think further down the road. She couldn't turn fantasy into reality. It's hard to explain.
Another problem. After I taught her good English language skills, I got her accepted into the university here. VISA rejected her. She decided to take the easy way out and wait 2 years for her citizenship from an EU country. By the time that came in, we broke apart. It became far too difficult with her personal issues and mine. She relied on me for all of her emotional health.
Instead of going to school and getting a 2 year degree, she made excuse after excuse. After we broke apart she found another man within weeks and went to school. I was happy for her but betrayed. She could have done this with "the man of her dreams" as opposed to some rebound.
I dunno, does that make sense?
But she experienced things as a child that most people would be able to emotionally process. She never did; nor did she want to.
So, in saying that, if you ever experience something traumatizing in your life, seek help for it. Don't go into your Scorpio shell and ruin the rest of your life because of it. I don't know your house placements, but most of hers were in the 12th house. You're best bet is to deal with emotional troubles ASAP, with someone, than let it kill you on the inside over 20 years.click to expand

Posted by Lush
Thoughts on Sidereal Scorpio by Chiria @ http://users.snowcrest.net/sunrise/aachiria-libra.htm
Being Mars ruled, Scorpio is the sign of energy. This energy is attributed to Jupiter as ruler of Sagittarius by tropical astrologers, but Jupiter is expansion, not energy. Energy may seem like expansion when someone is running all over the globe, but the truth is that Scorpio is the sign that just doesnât like to sit still. Itâs the sign that loves movement and adventure.
Scorpios can be rash and impulsive. They can leap before they look, act before they think. They can be disaster prone. They can take great risks in the name of excitement and fun, in extreme cases they can be self-destructive. Itâs important to teach Scorpio children self control. Remember that this sign corresponds to the eighth house of calamitous events. This is a sign that likes to have a good time. Group activities are important and a typical Scorpio likes to hang with a crowdâmaybe belonging to a fraternity or sorority or some other organization where good times can be had.
Friendship is important to the Scorpio nativeâbut not so much tight one-on-one friendship as being part of a cadre of individuals who are supportive of each other. The energy of the group sustains Scorpio, and Scorpio wants to make a contribution of its own energy to the group. As it is with the other two signs in this trigon, Cancer and Pisces, the energy is volatile, not contained within. Scorpios are often into sports or other physical activities.
Venus in Scorpio is interesting because the planet and the sign arenât an easy fit. Venus is the one-on-one and Scorpio is not. Often people with that placement are very casual in their relationships. Theyâre the sort who will be an hour late when they say theyâll meet you in front of Macyâs. They donât intend to be inconsiderate; they just donât place so much importance on whatâs important to the other person, even though they may care deeply about that person.
Mercury in Scorpio can be blunt and tactless; theyâre not deliberately trying to be mean, they just donât think before they talk. Chances are they donât have a clue that theyâve hurt someoneâs feelings, and are wondering why that person is mad at them.
For some reason the folks Iâve known with Moon in this sign tend to be rather disorganized. Clutter and messiness donât bother them; in fact, they create it. Why this is, I donât know. Moon is in its fall in Scorpio, but Moon of and by itself doesnât have a lot to do with neatness, so it remains a mystery to me why this should be. This I can promise you: you will never be bored when associating with a native of the eighth sign of the Zodiac. Just prepare to try to keep up!


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