What happened to my Scorpio??

I fell in love with a Scorpio almost two years ago. We met while I was still married. However, I was seperated. We fell in love, spent lots of time together, I met his family. six months after, my ex went overseas for six months, and my Scorpio went to attend to buisness in another state, Where I visited him-several times. P.S. hes a professional athlete. When my husband of five years and highschool sweetheart came back, we had issues to resolve, divorce, etc. We are friends, since he was my first boyfriend, 2 months prior to this, my Scorpio started distancing himself from me. I think he thought I was going back to my ex. My ex had to stay with me a few days before finding his own apartment and this freaked my guy out, and soon after-dumped me and now will have nothing to do with me at all. He is now trying to secure a spot on a pro team in another state. What is going on with this guy? He told me I was "the one", said he wanted to marry me, etc, and now he acts like he HATES me. Is this guy waiting for my divorce to be final in June,is he guarding his heart, or does he have someone else?

HELP!

Im not a scorpio but my story is quite similar to yours. I met a scorpio when I had just separted from my ex. He was wonderful and help me loads. When my ex found out about him he tortured him constantly at work at home in the middle of the night etc. My scorpio said it didnt matter what my ex done. My scorpio's job ended here and he had to go home he asked me to meet him and I didnt really answer (it was only weeks that we were together I hadnt been told he loved me etc but I felt he did). Life at the time was complicated, he text me often and asked again to meet and because I didnt answer him just ignored the question he stopped texting and phoning. Just stopped no explanation, no lets talk about this etc. Its so weird, yes I think they get frightened etc but gee it leaves you at a loose end as to what to do. I would love to pick up the phone and phone this guy but I dont know if he would want me to. I think scorpions seem to be really easy to fall for and at the same time can cut you out of their life without a thought! Sorry cant tell you what to do but just thought I would let you know there is more than you feeling this way. Good Luck and I hope it works out!

hi i read ur message and i am a scorpio i think that ur guy was hurt that ur ex to stay with u for a couple of days and by the scorpios feelings running so deep it was like a stab in the heart and we as scorpios cant handle hurt very well we would rather just cut out loses instead of waiting to see what the person will do next. i dont have any ideas on how to win him back because once a scorpio is hurt we dont usually go back for more but i hope this helps u to understand and good luck i hope that things work themselves out

Youre right, he was hurt and was simply protecting himself from more pain. If he told you that you were the one and all of that you can be sure he meant it. Although you and your ex were friends and everything, how did your
Scorpio fit into you domestic arrangement when your husband(ex) stayed with you. Even if you and your ex kept everything platonic, your scorpio felt betrayed by the fact that another man, one with whom you had been
intimate with , had come back into your life and was occupying your Scorpios position by being in your house when he wasnt. Im assuming that nobody ever told you about Scorpios tendency towards
jealousy when it comes to the people he loves. Regardless of the circumstances he feels that you chose another, an intimate associate from your past whom you obviously loved at one time (you were married after all) over him.......
His refusal to see you now is his a knee jerk response to the choice you made. No matter how innocent you thought it was he didnt see it as so. Most men would have reacted in the same fashion but a Scorpio never forgets and would rather do without than be uncertain or waiting for the other shoe to drop

Thank you everyone for emailing me back. As you can see, it is a BIG issue in my life, and has devastated me. You are all right. My Scorpio could not face the possibility of being hurt, and I did hurt him without even realizing it. I did not want my ex to know I had been with him as long as I had. It had been such a long relationship-my first, and there were alimony issues too, so at first I kept my Scorpio a secret.When he came back from overseas, I did not let my Scorp come over for fear they would tear each others hearts out, but I did go out with him still. What he didn't understand is that I had to do it to tie up all my loose ends.I let every bit of info out of the bag. I told my ex everything-and now there is no chance I will ever have any kind of relationship with my ex, which I'm okay with. As for my Scorpio, he is the one for me-and I hope he will heal and realize I love him still-so much it hurts! I miss him so much! Despite all the anger and rejection he has thrown my way,(only someone thats been wounded acts that bitter) I occasionally leave him a sweet message, and I sent him a card and homemade CD with favorite songs on it) on Valentines day. He is in Florida now and after four months, finally called me back. Not to profess his love or anything, but I think its a start. He sounded nervous, his voice shakey when he called. To top it off, on Saturday, I bumped into one of is friends-who acted like he knew something I didn't know.He said "Don't worry about it, the man just has to take care of business,all he does is talk about you.Believe me, he asks for updates all the time." Updates? Whatever that means. So maybe this flakey Aquarius will one day be united with her true love!After how cold he has been to me though, should I take him back right away or make him work??