I'm working on getting a life, youre right. I don't have one. 10 years of following around a military asshole starting at age 16, and falling in love right after that can make you pretty dependent-so yeah, I need a life, but damn! Thats scary as shit! I'm workin on it.
I saw that posting that you're responding to. I thought that was a bit insensitive. Saying "get a life" and doing it can be difficult to say the least. It's like people who've been abused and someone on the outside who's never been there can't understand "why does she put up with that, if I were her, I'd blah, blah, blah...." When you're hung up emotionally, especially for us obsessive Scorpios, it can be an uphill challenge to move on. I know. I was once in a relationship for five years and it took me 7, yes 7, years to get over it. Soooooooo, do the best you can, pray if you're a praying person and let the detractors say what they want. Eventually, you'll be able to move on.
Yes, I agree. People always have opinions on how they would handle a situation when they are not directly affected...much like those who have no children know exactly what a parent should do!! LOL!
I feel for you. But, I sense a strength in you and I know you can do it! It will take time...loads of time...but, each step is a bench mark...
Celebrate each step and give yourself credit!
When people ask me to describe myself...I still say that I am a 'work in progress'...those who say 'get a life' must not be striving to continually better themselves.
I wish you the best, and you have a friend here! Star
Well at least you are working on it, thats what matters. You seem pretty thick-skinned and I applaud your attitude. You can't go back you can only move forward.
How did you get so unlucky. First with a Scorpio(not all of them are bad just a whole lot) and then with a military asshole. You said it, it is going to take some time to find a different way of living, but anything other than what you have had since 16 ( that is really young) will be better than what your putting up with now. You sound like you have a excellent personality and that can take you very , very far...Don't let it get you down you can use what you have learned in this relationship, down the line. I wish you the best... good luck and keep us informed if you want to.
How did you get so unlucky. First with a Scorpio(not all of them are bad just a whole lot) and then with a military asshole. You said it, it is going to take some time to find a different way of living, but anything other than what you have had since 16 ( that is really young) will be better than what your putting up with now. You sound like you have a excellent personality and that can take you very , very far...Don't let it get you down; you can use what you have learned in this relationship, down the line. I wish you the best... good luck and keep us informed if you want to.
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I'm working on getting a life, youre right. I don't have one. 10 years of following around a military asshole starting at age 16, and falling in love right after that can make you pretty dependent-so yeah, I need a life, but damn! Thats scary as shit! I'm workin on it.