Re: What happened to my Scorpio?? PART 2 Posted by Jenn on Wednesday, March 13, 2002
Thank you everyone for emailing me back. As you can see, it is a BIG issue in my life, and has devastated me. You are all right. My Scorpio could not face the possibility of being hurt, and I did hurt him without even realizing it. I did not want my ex to know I had been with him as long as I had. It had been such a long relationship-my first, and there were alimony issues too, so at first I kept my Scorpio a secret.When he came back from overseas, I did not let my Scorp come over for fear they would tear each others hearts out, but I did go out with him still. What he didn't understand is that I had to do it to tie up all my loose ends.I let every bit of info out of the bag. I told my ex everything-and now there is no chance I will ever have any kind of relationship with my ex, which I'm okay with. As for my Scorpio, he is the one for me-and I hope he will heal and realize I love him still-so much it hurts! I miss him so much! Despite all the anger and rejection he has thrown my way,(only someone thats been wounded acts that bitter) I occasionally leave him a sweet message, and I sent him a card and homemade CD with favorite songs on it) on Valentines day. He is in Florida now and after four months, finally called me back. Not to profess his love or anything, but I think its a start. He sounded nervous, his voice shakey when he called. To top it off, on Saturday, I bumped into one of is friends-who acted like he knew something I didn't know.He said "Don't worry about it, the man just has to take care of business,all he does is talk about you.Believe me, he asks for updates all the time." Updates? Whatever that means. So maybe this flakey Aquarius will one day be united with her true love!After how cold he has been to me though, should I take him back right away or make him work??
OHMIGOD WOMAN........ If you have to ask you dont deserve him. When I answered part one I told you that hed rather do without than risk being hurt again. By proxy he's still checking on you . Hes still in love with you. We usually stay in love once we get there, even when we get screwed over , we just do it from a distance. The balls in yur court and believe me after the thing with your ex hes watching , waiting to see what youre gonna do. Only question left is what do you want———
I was the girl who wrote about my situation (quite similar to your own). Truthfully from my point of view - if I had my scorpio within grasp I would grab him quickly and never let him go again. This guy loves you he doesnt want to play games but I'm sure he does want to be hurt again either! Take him with open arms or be prepared to lose him.
You know, personally I believe in the Universe. If its meant to happen that 2 specific people hook up, nothing can stop that. If you are having trouble hooking up with a certain person, despite your best, honest, true and authentic feelings and efforts...maybe the Universe is looking out for you. Maybe despite the feelings, there is someone else out there for you. Love will come to you again, whether its a familiar face or a new one.
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Posted by Jenn on Wednesday, March 13, 2002
Thank you everyone for emailing me back. As you can see, it is a BIG issue in my life, and has devastated me. You are all right. My Scorpio could not face the possibility of being hurt, and I did hurt him without even realizing it. I did not want my ex to know I had been with him as long as I had. It had been such a long relationship-my first, and there were alimony issues too, so at first I kept my Scorpio a secret.When he came back from overseas, I did not let my Scorp come over for fear they would tear each others hearts out, but I did go out with him still. What he didn't understand is that I had to do it to tie up all my loose ends.I let every bit of info out of the bag. I told my ex everything-and now there is no chance I will ever have any kind of relationship with my ex, which I'm okay with. As for my Scorpio, he is the one for me-and I hope he will heal and realize I love him still-so much it hurts! I miss him so much! Despite all the anger and rejection he has thrown my way,(only someone thats been wounded acts that bitter) I occasionally leave him a sweet message, and I sent him a card and homemade CD with favorite songs on it) on Valentines day. He is in Florida now and after four months, finally called me back. Not to profess his love or anything, but I think its a start. He sounded nervous, his voice shakey when he called. To top it off, on Saturday, I bumped into one of is friends-who acted like he knew something I didn't know.He said "Don't worry about it, the man just has to take care of business,all he does is talk about you.Believe me, he asks for updates all the time." Updates? Whatever that means. So maybe this flakey Aquarius will one day be united with her true love!After how cold he has been to me though, should I take him back right away or make him work??