What is he thinking !!?

I adored my Scorpio ! We knew eachother for a while but never really got to know one another just simple hi how are yous but I've always had alittle crush on him. We ran into each other at a bar one night and hit it off like crazy connection. That night I got a ride from a friend and he followed me stalked me tracked me down and basically kidnapped me and being the psycho that I am really found it hot . I assumed it was a one night stand and left it at that. A week later he comes into my job I felt like a little girl and he asked me out we exchanged numbers a couple days later he came over and another night of amazing sex .. He fell off the planet for about a month I never texted or called him I thought whatever. Then he comes into my job again apologizing saying he's been busy blahhhh blah and asks me out that night. Now I get it he just wants sex I mean I never gave him anything to think otherwise so I decline his offer then he asks if I want to go out to dinner sometime I tell him if he really wants to then let me know. A couple days later we go out had such a good time we hold off sex and so it began we start seeing eachother for a couple months at least 3 times a week and it's theeee best. The last time we went out it was honestly the best date I've ever been on and after we have amazing sex ,cuddling all night and go to breakfast in the morning . I thought this is as good as it gets and It seemed he felt similar. So a couple days later I haven't heard from him I just assume he's busy having his daughter that week. Then the weekend comes and still nothing. So I finally text him on Monday and ask what's going on and is everything ok ... He texts back asking who is this, i have a new phone and lost all my contacts ... I'm relieved thinking he didn't just drop me lol but I text back telling him who it is and when am I going to see him . His response " sorry me and my ex girlfriend got back together I'm really sorry " I'm heartbrokennnnn!

I tell him how unexpected that was and wish him the best , he apologizes again and wishes me the best. A month later I'm pretty much over it. One day I'm sitting outside waiting for a ride and he drives by ,now this wouldn't have been weird people are free to drive wherever but my street is a small side street and he lives about 25 mins away and where I live is pretty much out of the way for anything. Then the next night he comes into my job ...I'm shocked he says hi I keep it moving cuz I'm busy then he goes outside and my ride comes to pick me up waits in the parking lot. I text him to leave because I'm still working and won't be out for another half hour so he pulls out. So my scorp comes in and tells me my ride was here but left pretty fast like he was scared of someone, I'm confused and tell scorp I told my ride to leave . The night goes on I ignore him he's giving me the stare the whole time then I leave he's still there I don't say bye and he says goodnight I just ignore him , yes I'm being a bitch lol. So my ride comes. He goes oh I saw Scorpio , you know when my truck was in the shop last week I found out he was the one working on it and when I went to pick it up from the shop I told him I'm fucking with you now ... I go whatt!! Why would u say that —? He goes to get him mad .i didn't even ask what scorp said back to him ): I'm confused what is Scorpio thinking !!!?! I liked him
Soo much finally got over him and he pops back into my life For what!!!?

HA! One word, RUN!

This is simple cat and mouse, and once a Scorpio deems you his , you are always his. He feels someone else is after his property, and he’s not having it that’s why he’s back around. He can move on, he never said you could. Lol.

that sounds...stalkerish.

Yeah I thought maybe he was interested again at first but you're right I think it's a control/ possessive thing /: guess I should keep my distance and just be a bitch to him... Ahh I'm so attracted to himm

I mean trust me I understand the attraction. BELIEVE me they can be irresistible to even the most head strong woman no judgement this way.

But you have decide what you want for yourself and in your life. A man that's consistent and there no matter what or a man that's fun to look at and only wants you when he thinks someone is trying to get you. If a man truly wants you he will take you and claim you as his own. No one would be able to hold a candle to you.

My dad is a water sign a cancer and till this day if he had to choose between the most beautiful woman on earth and my mom I believe he'd still choose my mom. He may flirt with the other woman and enjoy the attention but to have and to hold forever he meant it when he said it to my mom. 20 years later after the divorce he still means it

Lyse,

That is very intriguing. So now I am dating a cancer man .. so adorable.

But the funny thing of your mom and dad story is that * It means nothing* to me now.. to love and hold forever - this means NO to divorce. No matter

how rocky, toughed and dark the relationship may seems they won't leave each other.. but it's not the case.

Betabanana,

Scorpio men.. gosh just like unevolved Scorpio women. I bet he is October Scorpio. lol.

Yeah I think Lyse is spot on about the territorial part.
I wasn't planning on getting back with him just trying to understand wtf is his motive
Im guessing they're together that's what he told me a month ago it's just when he has a girlfriend he distances himself from everyone I've seen it in the past but a small part of me was hoping he came to see me and something magical would happen lol yeah but I should know better

I know this post made him seem like a total douche but he's really a sweet guy deep down haha

He's November 15

So should I just be a bitch to him because for some reason that's my natural reaction lol

Haha that would be magical but more like talking about things going back to how things were

And that could've been what he wanted but I think it was more of checking up on me ,seeing my reactions idkk /:

I can't stay away from this guy what is wrong w me there's something in me that wants him so bad . We left it as it was he didn't try getting back w me and I just wrote him off We kept running into eachother everywhere at the store at the stop light at the bank behund me at the drive thru I could go on so I would see him everywhere but we would never talk . The one night I'm working ( bartender ) and one of the waitresses asks me for help on a cash register I go over there in the zone don't look up to see who's around and then I hear " hi beta !" It's Scorpio and his girlfriend ... Fml . Yeah I wrote him off but he was always in my head so it kind of hurt . I say hi and run away.couple days later I get a text it's him , he broke up w his gf. He is texting me everyday for the past week to get together . I want to and I'm going to , I'm not gunna let myself get hurt I just want to be close w him not in a desperate way but there's such a strong pull. I'm being kind of distant and letting him do the work . Scorps any words of advice