I like that Im loyal. I stick by you forever, no matter what. Also I am very observant, but sometimes i don't like that so much, cuz it makes me paranoid about people. Im always guessing what people are thinking.
Actually in some ways the intuition does have it's downside...the ability to sift through bullshit and see right through the person instantly is disheartening as most are bastards...sigh...you can't give anyone the benefit of doubt as you know what they are like already...
And they wonder why we are so cynical...it's not cynicism...it's brutal reality..
Waaaaaaaaaah why oh why..the curse of being superior...
Scorp in law - I really can't pretend to like someone. I can't overlook the fakin shakin..lol..as you put it..I would rather not have them in my life..It's all about REALness for me..I have yet to overcome that part..I have tried and tried but I end up killing them with my harsh words. So in a way I gave them a chance and make them hate me..LOL..how screwed up does that sound.
Eden..It really is great to be able to have your internal system tell you whats good and not..man we rock!
Satori - I think you WANT to believe everyone is sound..and you like to give them the benefit of doubt despite knowing. Which is a great thing. I have tried to be like this but I just can't..pretending is definitely not one of my fortes..I am a shoot straight from the mouth type of person. I have burnt soooooooo many bridges along the way. So much so that I can't find my way back at all..but I like moving forward in life..why do I need to cross a bridge I already burnt..it was burnt for a reason..Forward motion is me..I also can't relate to the whole "holding grudges" or holding onto the past..I love that about my scorpionic side..
And your right, we are great at the workplace..I instantly know all the coworkers and their inner workings. It's brilliant..I can safely say there are only a handful of geniune people in my department. Most are wankers..especially the Cappy guy!..go figure..The cancer head of the department is just a manipulative little shit that I have endlessely put in his place..I can't believe I haven't been fired yet the way I have spoken to him!! hahah..love it..I don't have respect for authority..I AM AUTHORITY!..
Yeah I hear ya..never really liked Olives anyway..LOL...well apart from the green ones with sundried tomatoes...Come on..they have to go all out there..can't make a half-arsed attempt..lol..
But even if they did...I would simply say feck off...
Double, I think you and are going to be best chums..you are the male version of me..woohoo..to not be alone..lol..
"There have been times my choice of words were too harsh but most of the time they're all just too damn sensitive. They don't want the truth and would prefer to live a lie"
YES!!!..My words are never smooth..harsh..yep they are too darn sensitive..not my problem.
I choose not to be deep with people..what's the point..they don't get it..Deep is only for me..and those who understand it..and I usually connect with those people from the word go..But deep can be defined in some many ways..I don't like philosophical nonsense..I have absolutely no patience for that..get to the point already!
LOL..Philosophy is fine if you enjoy it..but I go slightly cuckoo if I pay too much attention to it. The if's and what's and blah blah just does my head in seriously. I like certainty, factual, logical explanataions to things. Philosophy to me is going around the houses to get to the point. I just don't have a beating round the bush nature..
The best deep conversations I have had are with Virgo/Cappy men in all honesty. They just know to ask the right questions at the right time. They are on par with everything you say. The ability to answer your question having not even asked it is awesome. Sense of humour fantastic!
As for Education..I have just enrolled on 2 courses..I absolutely love English language and literature so am doing a language with applied linguistics course and also am learning another language. Both start in February. Both will come in extremely handy (I always learn something that will have a use in the near future), especially the latter as I do have intentions of living and working abroad for a while in the very near future. The first cos reading is the biggest passion of mine. Along with sport. Oh did I mention I love being a student 😛
And finally, one should always have morals..as you quite rightly said, there should always be a line that you draw for yourself..there are limits to everything in life..that's not to say you can't be free..who says you can't be free with limits. Freedom is a mindset as are limits.
"There have been times my choice of words were too harsh but most of the time they're all just too damn sensitive."
I can sort of relate to that. See all I care about is the end result which is them getting the message. My speech is very diverse and I always end up finding the right way to let them know, what they need to understand. So I'll speak the language that you understand at level where my message will hit best and at the end, I'm always heard.
"I forgot to mention that when it comes to explaining simple logic to someone my patience seriously lacks when they'd rather joke and waste time. My thirst for knowledge outweighs my pride so I appreciate someone teaching me something I'm interested in and I give them my full attention. I expect others to do the same. Unfortunately, in my current line of work most are just counting the minutes till it's time to go home. No passion for anything, whatsoever."
Dou2ble ... I'm the same way. I play the extremes a lot, so I can have a lot of patience with someone who wants to understand and very little with someone who doesn't. So I'm capable of great patience, just with the right person.
My deep conversations I've been with Libra, Capricorn and Scorpio.
Haha ... yes believe it or not. My brother, he's on the Virgo/Libra cusp and is very deep conversationalist. His moon is in Virgo, Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Taurus. He's by far the most influential individual I've had in my life. I don't know too many individual's like him quite frankly. I'm not just saying that because he's my sibling, as he's not the only one I have but we grew up together and he impresses me, on every word he speaks.
"Rays Heart: I'd venture to say it was virgo's influence in your brother that made him a deep conversationalist. Scorpio and Taurus probably played a lesser role."
Yes it could be. Virgos sure have inquiring minds.
Rays heart: That depth comes from the other influences..sorry, libra and depth just sound hillarious in the same sentence..I am sure your brother is an intelligent guy..as are you 🙂
Dou2ble: I am too a fan of autumn and spring/summer...love the autumn leaves and the summer blossoms..sigh....yes UK does get pretty cold around December/Jan/Feb time..it was -6 today...eeek..and the chill does hit you like a knife...
Ooh what is your distraction? mine is just the gym..thats it.. 😢
I am just referring to any kind of depth...it's just one word I do not associate with them...they are intelligent folk don't get me wrong..but theres a huge difference between intelligence and depth. I always seem to befriend the libra guy...because you can talk to them about periods, lipstick, the whole hog..lol..
I am good Zen...mourning the return to work. I am starting a language course next Monday..looking forward to it but I wonder how long the enthuisasm will last..lol..
i like the scorpion commitment to a higher standard once they find their passion. I like to think of Scorpio chef Gordon Ramsay with his perfectionistic virgoan moon. Highly passionate, observational and precise. You're only as good as your last ..
My friend loves Gordon Ramsey...but the newspapers have reported he's been having a secret affair for the last 7 years!!...I have no idea whether its true or not..but yes he is very passionate indeed...mouth like a sewer though..lol..he's actually very reserved..been to his restaurant..he popped in. It's called Foxtrot Oscar.
I agree Dou2ble..its true..we need an outlet of some kind for our passions...that's why this year I have made it a mission to get out more and do all things that I constantly think about doing but never get around to..lol..purely due to procrastination..
This year is looking great so far..I am so excited about it. Studying, sports, travel..
You play racket sport? I think you must be my twin..love racket sport..I play badminton. LOVE sport..I really do..
I can't swim...wanted to learn but in this weather I can't be bothered just yet..
So you are back to civilian life? After how long? An aries guy I dated briefly joined the army..he was in the Green Beret..
LOL..Dou2ble how did you guess it would be Chelsea..oh my god!..lool..I have supported Chelsea for 13 years now...and before you say it..no I am not a glory hunter..hehe..I am true BLUE loyal! 😉
Boo @ the red devils..all my brothers support them..my nephew is Arsenal...If I didn't support Chelsea..then it would've either been Liverpool or Arsenal..
Yep love sport and all its competitive nature..played field Hockey, Netball, Badminton and also Baseball..Got a few trophies for Hockey which is by far the best game!! 🙂
I love Taurus...some women however can be a bit sly and manipulative from this sign..but then every sign has those kind..wish I could have found a decent Taurus guy..just don't meet them!..they are all too busy eating or at home..lol..lazy buggers!
I had one ages ago..we never quite made the date..he was a doctor so constantly on the bleeper...was so handsome..serenaded me with songs over the phone..lol..he was a pretty hot doctor (usually rare)..guess the nurses were extremely happy at that hospital 😉
Gaining something by smiling is allowed..I do it myself...however most of the time I just tell them whats what..forget niceties..lol..
My cousin is taurus and we are the best of pals..another male friend of mine is taurus..we've been friends since about 3 years of age..still to this day (although he is married now with 3 kids) there is soo much chemistry..if we are in the same room together with people around, we can't actually look at each other..lol..how crazy is that..lol..beat that kind of chemistry!!....
Taurus are laid back..waaay too laid back at times..and they created the term fixed!..jeez..lol..Extremely grounded..Taurus is the coolest of the earth signs..
I like my intuition. I hate being obsessive.
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