whining

Well..I told my scorpio friend how I felt,,,,without downplaying it.they have't said anything. I sent it through e-mail today. I am a cancer and I must say that I feel quitestupid. I don't why I find it so difficult to express my emotions.Right now I am thinking to myself how I should have never ever told them..that way I wouldn't be feeling as silly as I do. FreeBird!! Where are you. I know I know sometimes I challenge your opinion..but I do Value your opionion. I hate the way I feel right now.I feel so hurt and misunderstood/ When they say that Cancers brood in self pity....they were not lying.

Hi Softy~

First of all - PLEASE do not feel stupid for what you have done - I am "flapping my wings" that YOU had the courage and the willingness to follow your heart by expressing your innermost feelings to your Scorpio friend and sending them off. That is what is really important here. You had thoughts that you needed to share and that was very important to you and you did it!!!! So many people have been in your shoes and didn't express what they needed to and what this tends to do is...cause regrets that will eventually cause health problems later down the road.

Okay, so you got that off your chest and you can now feel good that you honored yourself and did something good for you. But, what I am sensing here is that you are possibly having regrets because of what the outcome might be...ie. he may not respond - he may respond but not in the way that you would like for him to. This is normal to be feeling these feelings if one has expectations (and we all do at times). What if you didn't have any and you just allow the experience to unfold naturally in it's own time?

He may need the time to read and digest what you wrote and also need time to respond to your heartfelt letter. Really all you can do now Softy is, "Let it Be"

I'll share with you a quick story...my neighbor is a Cancer as well and she had on her heart the need to write a past boyfriend to express words to him that she felt she needed to share to settle a past mistake. She held off doing it out of fear for quite awhile. I said, "go ahead and share..what have you to loose? only something to gain and that is your freedom of expression! Let it out there and then be patient to see what happens. She called me the other day saying she finally heard from him....he called her out of the blue and now, they have reconnected and have most importantly - healed from their past mistakes. So, ya just never know what is going to happen but as I said before....this is about YOU and your peace of mind. You did the right thing Softy...expressing your feelings is never wrong especially when they are coming from the heart.

I hope my words were able to bring some help to you...keep us posted if you don't mind. Oh, btw - I enjoy challenges...don't stop! 😉

My best to YOU!
Freebird

Thank you Freebird.

STOP WHINING!

Candlegirl It is 33 F right now raining and it will turn to snow tonight , ( what it realy turns into is slush) forcast for next few days about the same high 40's. reminds me of england . You get up in the morning, go to the shower (or what is called a shower) little luke warm water running out of a thing. you look out the window the clouds are moving the sun is peaking through. you get the shower you get dressed you run out its about 2 C and its not raining its just like mist all f-cking day long.