Why can't SCORPIOS be happy in relationships?

I don't know about most of you scorpios out there. But as far as my experience in relationships? They have all sucked. I've never been in a relationship with anyone and actually been happy. I have been with a couple virgos and they both cheated on me; one of them used to steal from me. I've been with an aquarius; that was a total drag. He never wanted to show affection and he had alot of female sex partners and for me that turned out to be a disater. I've also been with a cancer. Cancers are okay, but sometimes they can get on my nerves, too. Now I'm with a pisces and its very confusing. He doesn't express his feelings, either. The relationship is okay----most of the time. I just can't deal with the mood swings. I want to be with this pisces and he says that he likes me. But after 3 years, you would think we would of been girlfriend and boyfriend right now. He doesn't know what he wants or maybe he just doesn't wanna hurt my feelings; I don't know. But you guys see what I mean? Every relationship I've been in have been short-lived and miserable. WHy can't us Scorpios be happy for once? HEY GUYS. I DIDN'T MEAN TO KEEP GOING ON AND ON ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIPS, I'M JUST A LITTLE DISGUSTED RIGHT NOW.

I don't blame you - many people feel like "giving up", convinced that all the best people are either taken or they just don't exist. Sometimes people can be attracted to the wrong people because of childhood difficulties. I'm especially appalled that VIRGOS let you down - I'm a female Virgo who rarely has problems relating to Scorpios. Also, male Virgos are more immature and insecure and have REAL dysfunctional issues, like the cheater and thief you described. It's very sad that you make a sincere effort to make a relationship work, and the other person lets you down. Would you consider taking a break from dating to reevaluate your experiences and try to find ways to get to know people better before getting involved with them?

I do take out time to get to know the person before I get involved with a person. Its just when we get involved, the relationship always
backfire. I am a very nice and sweet person and I don't know why I always get dogged. My heart is in the right place; I don't know what's wrong...

I think scorpios don't really get dogged I think that we dog are selves because we are nice caring people and the more we care the more people take advange of us, I find that if you act like you don't care for once which is hard for us scorpios to do because it is not in our nature to act like that we will get a whole lot more respect, I have been in more messed up relationships that I fill I just want to give up but you can't you just have to act like you don't care and things will start to turn around for you. All ways remember in return the all return. Scop's have something a whole lot of other signs don't have we are strong and plus we have class to go with it. Just hang in there and act like you don't care even if you do and sit back and watch the change.

I to am a scorpio. I spend a considerable amount of time in a marriage where I did'nt get many if any of my needs met. However I remain hopeful based on my own inner light. I feel that if I keep it brightly burning that another light bear will see it and I can make a meaningful connection to someone with my similiar qualities. Keep in mind that the masters of darkness need a little light to proceed through their darkness. I advise that while lending them your light make sure it's that bulb that's growing dim, in this way it will fade quickly and they won't be able to see how to get to the brightest side of you. And since they are masters of darkness they will have to move on to some esle's light.