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Why is this Scorpio man acting like this?
Posted by PhoenixStorm
And yes he will be back.
Yeah...when his balls will need to be emptied. Then he will remember that’s it was wrong. And she will be stuck believing that he came back because he missed her...and this illness will continue until she will let him...
It’s not a sin but it can screw up her life for good!
How can you say he will be back after you read all this nonsense? And I don’t mean to insult her. I mean he had been screwed up by hurt and he is doing shit...not meaning to hurt her. Just blinded by his heartache not realizing he is killing her softly...
@Silverado...please take this one for the Scorpio team. 🙏🏻
Posted by Erinelda
Please move on and don't wait for him. He called his feelings for you "worthless emotions". That is one of the sickest burns I have ever heard lol. He doesn't give one ounce of crap how you feel. I have way too much respect for myself to put up with his trash.
For the love of god woman if he wont share things about himself for "privacy", don't give up your vagina because you don't get more private than that. Even if he comes back, watch out for him "loving" you to get sex but not after.
Yeah I forgot. Privacy after he told her all about his misfortune - what privacy— Man is broken and running around like a headless chicken. Urghhh
Posted by alteregonic
So I was dating this Scorpio man for more than a month. From the very first date, he told me that he had emotional baggage about how his ex-girlfriend cheated on him, got pregnant and married another man. He also mentioned how he really wanted his career to take off. He was quite physical and will always make it a point to touch me but he was subtle about it. We bonded really fast emotionally and I know we were moving really fast emotionally because I've never experienced a Scorpio moving in so fast with their emotions too. However every time I leave his place, he will change and pull himself back as if he's afraid to commit. He keeps going back and forth and whenever I meet him, he's ok and he shows me a lot of love. Once he looked me in the eyes and slurred, "I really love you very much" to me. I know that he has severe trust issues and I can tell that he tried but till the end, he ended everything by trying telling me that he doesn't want to tell me anything about his personal life or his work life anymore. When I ask him why, he kept saying, "Nothing" or "It is just it" then eventually said, "Because of privacy." He couldn't even bear to end the call and when I texted him after that, he told me that he feels my intentions but he refuses to pull his walls down and just wants to make his career a success. He also said that he doesn't want to spend any of his spend time investing in worthless emotions. He hasn't replied to me since and I stopped texting him already.
Even though he says all those to me, I still feel that deep down he really loves me and is feeling upset too. I've never been loved so dearly by someone yet have them leave me. He's the kind of guy that will get angry at the rest of the world but never get angry at me and it hurts me that he still left in the end.
Will he ever come back? Or am I being too naive? Someone, please help. I'm a Virgo btw.
Here were your three MAJOR red flags you chose to ignore on first meeting him...
From the very first date he told me that:
1. he had emotional baggage
2. his ex-girlfriend cheated on him, got pregnant and married another man
3. he really wanted his career to take off
It's been just over a month which means about five to six weeks. That's not a very long time to date someone. You say we bonded very fast emotionally. How? How could two people possibly make an emotional relationship bond which is stable, reliable, comfortable, happy etc within this time frame? It is subjective. He made your Virgo fanny tingle and you mistook it for something it wasn't.
In my view, the way you have both gone about this, it isn't reflective or representative of any healthy kind of love.
Posted by Erinelda
Please move on and don't wait for him. He called his feelings for you "worthless emotions". That is one of the sickest burns I have ever heard lol. He doesn't give one ounce of crap how you feel. I have way too much respect for myself to put up with his trash.
For the love of god woman if he wont share things about himself for "privacy", don't give up your vagina because you don't get more private than that. Even if he comes back, watch out for him "loving" you to get sex but not after.
This...
For the love of god woman if he wont share things about himself for "privacy", don't give up your vagina because you don't get more private than that.
Sex is probably THE most intimate act two human beings can do together.
Hunny, it is not worth the migraine, the headache, the stress and the constant off and ons.
I was dealing with a Scorpio guy with a similar background story that he dated this model for 5 years basically high school sweetheart, but she left him and married her first love and got a baby.
However, not only did I got stringed along since November, I found out that he was still in love with a married woman in our work place. He didn't tell me straight up, I was basically snooping around his room to see if he was lying to me. I found a Valentines day card from her in his drawer.
Guys' who are in this stage, aren't ready to be in a relationship. I had to learn it is what it is.
You can't change them, unless they're willing to give you that chance.
The Scorpio never gave me a chance to date him. Even thou I have all the cards on deck, his whole family loves me and they all hate the other woman.
He gave me every stupid reason. Confess to me while his drunk and sober that he have feelings for me. But I know he is lying
I was dealing with a Scorpio guy with a similar background story that he dated this model for 5 years basically high school sweetheart, but she left him and married her first love and got a baby.
However, not only did I got stringed along since November, I found out that he was still in love with a married woman in our work place. He didn't tell me straight up, I was basically snooping around his room to see if he was lying to me. I found a Valentines day card from her in his drawer.
Guys' who are in this stage, aren't ready to be in a relationship. I had to learn it is what it is.
You can't change them, unless they're willing to give you that chance.
The Scorpio never gave me a chance to date him. Even thou I have all the cards on deck, his whole family loves me and they all hate the other woman.
He gave me every stupid reason. Confess to me while his drunk and sober that he have feelings for me. But I know he is lying
Posted by Echo
Hunny, it is not worth the migraine, the headache, the stress and the constant off and ons.
I was dealing with a Scorpio guy with a similar background story that he dated this model for 5 years basically high school sweetheart, but she left him and married her first love and got a baby.
However, not only did I got stringed along since November, I found out that he was still in love with a married woman in our work place. He didn't tell me straight up, I was basically snooping around his room to see if he was lying to me. I found a Valentines day card from her in his drawer.
Guys' who are in this stage, aren't ready to be in a relationship. I had to learn it is what it is.
You can't change them, unless they're willing to give you that chance.
The Scorpio never gave me a chance to date him. Even thou I have all the cards on deck, his whole family loves me and they all hate the other woman.
He gave me every stupid reason. Confess to me while his drunk and sober that he have feelings for me. But I know he is lying
As I would say always examples don’t prove anything - if there are anough - maybe OP should just take it into consideration and escape faith of women who sharing their experiences.
One thing however is sure is that month if dating and I love yous is a bullshit. No arguments about it. But she will do whatever she wants anyway. We all know it.
He's a mess. You're not his therapist. Run away fast, while you can or you'll be consumed by his issues.
You've been warned.
You've been warned.
He's a mess. You're not his therapist. Run away fast, while you can or you'll be consumed by his issues.
You've been warned.
You've been warned.
He's a mess. You're not his therapist. Run away fast, while you can or you'll be consumed by his issues.
You've been warned.
You've been warned.
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One month. He loves you? After he went trough all the headache?
And you haven’t ever felt loved THAT much?
How old are you child?
I recommend you forget about him.
He said he loved you in a heat of the emotions. Then he realized he went too far and if he is a decent man who made a mistake - he just left to heal and it won’t happen for a while...
Try to heal as well. Good luck. ❤️