Will I get the curve? (Scorpio Man/Aries Woman)

I kinda went "huh?" when you said you found his text insulting.

It sounded like he was opening his heart a little to say he had a good time with you, sex or not. Did you miss not having him close when you woke that morning too? You made him wait hours on purpose because you didn't know what to think. You're insecurities are bringing you to this point, of wondering if you are only wanted for sex.

But really, imagine if you had intense, beautiful, meaningful games of chess..

He would text and say he missed playing chess with you.

Idk, I get where you're coming from in wondering. But are you back in your home countries now? Cause it sounds as if he is still wanting to keep up the communication, and if youre an ocean away, it isn't for the sex.

Don't play games with him. Talk to him about how you're feeling. It sounds as if you both had a nice time with each other and have a nice little thing going for you. It seems you are making a problem out of nothing, but I do understand. It sounds like he really likes you from what you've said though.

Your personality is what will determine whether he will keep you around or push you away. If you want a different kind of relationship, you will need to have that conversation with him in order to know where his head is at. Don't go into attacking him feeling that he should know, something Aries tend to love doing 😉

@ Rays Heart:

" [...] Don't go into attacking him feeling that he should know, something Aries tend to love doing. "

Posted by Aries04

Is it a normal thing with you Scorpios? If the relationship starts off sexual you don't take the other person seriously as your potential partner anymore? You guys (like us Aries too) are very sexual individuals so as far as I see it it should not be a problem or?

Scorpio thing? I don't know. Dishonest thing perhaps. Aside from some of the obvious reason this may have "gone south" may I ask, why you did not simply ask him yourself "Have I made a mistake by sleeping with you too early? Have I now become just a sex thing to you now?" See, you feel this way and want to know this question, but rather than go to the source you're here asking us who haven't a clue. I don't know because maybe because you're afraid to hear the answer? We could give you our thoughts, assumptions based on him being a "Scorpio" when really that's a lot of BS. You want a "real relationship" with this man, but start if off with a lot of crap. I am not referring to you sleeping with him, I am referring to the fact that in your gut you sensed something was henky, but rather than take ownership for how you played this and put THAT on the table you beat around the d*mn bush for 4 hours and send a smiley? Then when he doesn't respond to that (I would be confused by the smiley too), you're on here. I say this not to suggest you shouldn't come on here, but in the OP alone you have your answers. You're having sex with this man, wherever you can, every time you meet (congratulations btw ) and then you flipped the script on him because you wanted this to become more--WITHOUT communicating this to him. Now you're surprised he's backing up? I'm not gonna even get into this whole you slept with him on the first vs the 20th date--it's irrelevant. You slept with him without communicating your feelings and what it is you wanted from this encounter, hoping what? That the sex would make him fall for you? And rather than take ownership for the decision you made and have an honest convo with him, this it has now become a "Scorpio thing" GTFOH. I am hoping assuming someone has already covered this a bit nicer than I have, but there you have it...sorry luv.

^^^^ I think people are watching too many d*amn chick flick. This whole notion that everything will fall into place from sex without communicating boggles my mind and only happens in the movies.