Will scorpio attempt a break up as a test?

Hello all, I am new to this site. I have been familiar with the site nonetheless. I was hoping to get some insight from you all. My scorpio has had me on an emotional rampage for some time. One minute he loves me & wants me to have a baby, the next he is playing mind games. We have been on/off for almost 4 yrs. We most recently we to his family's for thanksgiving and he also brought his 3 kids. Its weird bcuz he wanted me to bond with them but apart felt like he was jealous when I did. Weird. I love him alot but hes been acting really strange. Like wanting to go through my phone all the time. He even got mad and texted me "forget u then delete me from your life plz, 4 real" today earlier bcuz I missed a text while showering n getting dressed for work. I dont get it. When I asked is he for real, cuz im sick of it, he acts like everythings cool. Wtf is going on? I love him so deeply that it hurts when we go through this trivial bs all to prove what? Thanks in advance. Me cancer

Posted by Impulsv
I've been in the past so overwhelmed emotionally that I'd end it because it was too much to handle. When we love too much we become possessive and I hate when I do it. We feel we love so much it gets out of control and all the fears resurface. I hate that aspect of me when I'm really and love n fear losing them. In essence my behavior sabotages.. But I think I've been working on it.and hope next time I can harness it. I've had a tendency to pick men who love me more because when I do this emotional roller coaster awakens. He may be going through that. Have patience he may need reassurance from you . Tell sorry honey was in shower.

^ this exactly. Not much I can add. You just need to figure out how if the ends justify the means.

No. We dont break up for test.

I think.. YOU have been putting him on a rollercoaster forever. That is why he is testing you back.

weird. Sorry.. this is just not healthy. I don't think you are good for him.

Posted by FUM
No. We dont break up for test.

+1

Thank you all for your feedback. Yes I do believe he is going through some issues with insecurity. Even just now he accused me of cheating with my ex that I let go of but he cant get over. He has done alot to me. He will bring me up just to bring me down.

Like even when we went out of town for the holiday, he acted wishy washy. One minute he was showing me off and all affection, the next he was ignoring me and trying to make me jealous, getting mad when I would ignore him back, went to the point of almost breaking my phone because I wouldnt tell him the code. I dont have anything to hide but I dont go through his I give him the benefit of the doubt. Like it drives me insane how crazy extremes we go through in just a day.

This am (10:00), us arguing and him claimimg to be done with me
10:30, he didnt mean it. Texted me wyd like 4 times while at work & asked me to call him off my work phone bcuz he didnt I was at work. Smh what am I doing wrong? Its all about him, would never step out.

@ FUM, I have not put him on an emotional rollercoaster, he has. He had me on a string in the beginning. First 2 years. He was my 2nd, much more experienced than I & he completely took me over. He has always been my soulmate the love of my life, its just the really mean cruel things he does to me. He told me before he was jealous of my life and the path I chose. I love him with all my heart, I dont play love games.

@OP... from my experience(s) i would answer 'yes'

Impulsv and PP are very candid Scorpios...

this might not be that the scorpio is not good for you... i just think this individual isnt good. this sounds exhausting and unhealthy. i think maybe its run its course.

Posted by BeautifulPassion69
He even got mad and texted me "forget u then delete me from your life plz, 4 real" today earlier bcuz I missed a text while showering n getting dressed for work. I dont get it. When I asked is he for real, cuz im sick of it, he acts like everythings cool. Wtf is going on? I love him so deeply that it hurts when we go through this trivial bs all to prove what? Thanks in advance. Me cancer

Are you sure you're Cancer? I don't know nor have I met any Cancer woman who puts up with this kind of insecure bullshit. How do you even have the patience for this? If a woman did this to me, I will tell her not to call me again. I can't imagine what you can possibly see in a weak man like this. And you want to have a child with him (you said he has 3 kids, how many different mothers is that?)....lol. This is laughable, get your head straightened.

Yes. I would (send signals/ warnings) of break up to the partner to test him. I have tried it before and it worked like charm. It is a scorpio thing🙂