heliumfiasco
@heliumfiasco
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IME, they do come on strong in the beginning. I had one create a website with my name plastered all over it.
It's the inconsistency that pisses me off..
It's the inconsistency that pisses me off..
lol tell him to take it slow and see what happens.
Posted by DolluxxeLol
IME, they do come on strong in the beginning. I had one create a website with my name plastered all over it.
It's the inconsistency that pisses me off..
He took me on a date when we were 18, I moved out of the state shortly after. I never thought of it much, he swears I rejected him etc. haha. I was like "No way, it was just casual I thought"..... He then said "Not to sound creepy but I remember everything you wore and said that night..." He then in detail told me. I was shocked.
Posted by EllygantLol 100% ?
If you're not into it now save both of you the time and the trouble and let it go. Scorps like to pursue and invest. If you don't want to be pursued and invested in by him it'll only complicate things down the road. Pumping the brakes only works with scorps if it's for building a connection. If you slow things down to figure out if there is a connection things get murky and unpleasant from there typically.
Besides you're still lightly online checking up on your almost astro twin. If this dude is giving you so much but you're still curious about others and hesitant on him you two have a clear conflict of interests.
Posted by Ellygant
If you're not into it now save both of you the time and the trouble and let it go. Scorps like to pursue and invest. If you don't want to be pursued and invested in by him it'll only complicate things down the road. Pumping the brakes only works with scorps if it's for building a connection. If you slow things down to figure out if there is a connection things get murky and unpleasant from there typically.
Besides you're still lightly online checking up on your almost astro twin. If this dude is giving you so much but you're still curious about others and hesitant on him you two have a clear conflict of interests.
Oh, I am NOT into the astro twin dude AT ALL. I'd tell you all in detail if I was hahaha. We have mutual friends and still follow each other on social media. I am very intrigued with the girl he's dating life style though!
Posted by CrimsonGirlI have a very good intuition. And my gut feeling is that he would NOT handle an even slight rejection from me well. I get the sense in the future he would also probably be a bit sensitive and slightly jealous.
Generally speaking I'm not a fan of Scorpio guys for this reason. As you said, they're usually very nice, but just come on way too strong from my experience. And they can be total bitch ass babies when rejected. They're super gentlemanly until you're like "no sorry I've been dating someone for a long time and I'm not interested. But thanks!" and then they get super ugly and rude out of nowhere and accuse you of things that absolutely aren't true. Have had it happen with 3 different scorps.
Posted by EnochtheWiseAwwwww! This is adorable.
yes for me, but then when I realize I've scared you I will mirror your fear and scurry away....lol
Posted by heliumfiascoLol we do have good memory that's for sure.
He took me on a date when we were 18, I moved out of the state shortly after. I never thought of it much, he swears I rejected him etc. haha. I was like "No way, it was just casual I thought"..... He then said "Not to sound creepy but I remember everything you wore and said that night..." He then in detail told me. I was shocked.
I guess when someone comes on so strong my initial reaction is to think "Wow, this person doesnt want me. They just want anyone right now."...... I also am a little fucked up in that department.
I don't see the problem here op I'd say just be straightforward with him. I know it's gonna sting him but he'll eventually move forward as long as you don't lead him on.
Crimson Girl that is crazy!!!!
He's a very good person to almost everyone, at least the few years I did know him. I'm not trying to imply to anyone he is a nut or anything. But is this genuine? Its seems too nice ya know? Too much enthusiasm. It's making me wonder if I'm just a jerk to even be slightly bothered by it.
He's a very good person to almost everyone, at least the few years I did know him. I'm not trying to imply to anyone he is a nut or anything. But is this genuine? Its seems too nice ya know? Too much enthusiasm. It's making me wonder if I'm just a jerk to even be slightly bothered by it.
Posted by EllygantGood points. I am for sure not at his level. I am still very uncertain.Posted by heliumfiascoIs this how you feel when you come on strong? Do you only do so when you just want anything?
I guess when someone comes on so strong my initial reaction is to think "Wow, this person doesnt want me. They just want anyone right now."...... I also am a little fucked up in that department.
That's sort of a cardinal thing. Fixed signs aren't really like that though. We don't act now and weigh options as we go. We weigh beforehand then put things into action once we've committed to a path in our minds. And since Scorpios are fixed water, we arrive at those decisions through feeling, rather than thinking like an air sign would.
From what you describe and how you post about him, it seems as if you're not that into him in comparison of him to you.click to expand
Posted by heliumfiascoIt's genuine
Crimson Girl that is crazy!!!!
He's a very good person to almost everyone, at least the few years I did know him. I'm not trying to imply to anyone he is a nut or anything. But is this genuine? Its seems too nice ya know? Too much enthusiasm. It's making me wonder if I'm just a jerk to even be slightly bothered by it.
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
Posted by EnochtheWiseI relate to all of this!Posted by heliumfiascoIts a legitimate concern.
I guess when someone comes on so strong my initial reaction is to think "Wow, this person doesnt want me. They just want anyone right now."...... I also am a little fucked up in that department.
Your OP sounds very much like me. For me, it is seldom about "wanting anyone" though. I can be alone for years and even prefer that. Its *very* rare to feel that way about someone, so when I do feel it, it is really that particular person that I'm amazed/confused by, and caught up in. I cannot help putting them on a pedestal and overlooking their flaws. The boundaries can go to shyt real fast. It always seems my feelings are in advance of the other person. I just want the person to feel as good as I feel by any means, and get so caught up in the emotion of it all, I can be prone to over-compliment, over-spend, really just focus way too much on them. But so many times it is just too fast for the other person, and a feeling of rejection is inevitable, then a long painful process ensues....hahaha....Its pretty messy but I always feel if its meant to be, it will be, and in my experience when I feel that strongly, the other person usually does too...They're more so just afraid often due to issues within their self, like you're saying, that the connection can bring to the surface. That's a part I like though because I get to see more of who they really are - their fears, insecurities, etc. - its part of knowing/accepting/loving the whole person....Honestly the whole thing is pretty creepy....
If not reciprocated, it could be very short-lived. What are his fire placements?
Also can contradict my self a lot in these matters...lolclick to expand
Placements
Scorp Sun
Aries Moon
Sag Merc
Sag Venus
Cap Mars
Lol just be careful tho cause I can tell you that all the females who rejected me in the past has fallen for me. But since I've already moved on I put them on the friend zone so just be sure you know what you really want before you pull that trigger. Lol
Posted by heliumfiascoHe will be unattainable once you start showing interest lol
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
You should tell him that you're not interested. He will pull the brakes altogether. Why does he even know where you live? You never tell a Scorpio where you live unless you are actually dating and going for the long haul. lol
Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by heliumfiascoYeah, I'm Aries Moon/Mars, two Sag placements as well, so a good deal of fire overall. The most accurate way I can describe the feelings would unfortunately sound very cliché , like a lame attempt at poetry, but that is just how my thoughts get around romance. Being 100% honest when I say that when I feel a very strong connection, I do feel I could write a book about the person, want to write poems, make music, create art with them as the sole subject. They inspire me creatively and become my muse....I'm also able to not pursue it if the danger or fear is to great from either end, and still use them as such though...lolPosted by EnochtheWiseI relate to all of this!Posted by heliumfiascoIts a legitimate concern.
I guess when someone comes on so strong my initial reaction is to think "Wow, this person doesnt want me. They just want anyone right now."...... I also am a little fucked up in that department.
Your OP sounds very much like me. For me, it is seldom about "wanting anyone" though. I can be alone for years and even prefer that. Its *very* rare to feel that way about someone, so when I do feel it, it is really that particular person that I'm amazed/confused by, and caught up in. I cannot help putting them on a pedestal and overlooking their flaws. The boundaries can go to shyt real fast. It always seems my feelings are in advance of the other person. I just want the person to feel as good as I feel by any means, and get so caught up in the emotion of it all, I can be prone to over-compliment, over-spend, really just focus way too much on them. But so many times it is just too fast for the other person, and a feeling of rejection is inevitable, then a long painful process ensues....hahaha....Its pretty messy but I always feel if its meant to be, it will be, and in my experience when I feel that strongly, the other person usually does too...They're more so just afraid often due to issues within their self, like you're saying, that the connection can bring to the surface. That's a part I like though because I get to see more of who they really are - their fears, insecurities, etc. - its part of knowing/accepting/loving the whole person....Honestly the whole thing is pretty creepy....
If not reciprocated, it could be very short-lived. What are his fire placements?
Also can contradict my self a lot in these matters...lol
Placements
Scorp Sun
Aries Moon
Sag Merc
Sag Venus
Cap Marsclick to expand
That is very interesting. I almost feel like he's poetic when he speaks to me. He also after two dates sent me this song by the old 60's group the Roller Coasters and said "On date 6 I want you to dance with me to this". NEVER in my life had a guy show an underbelly like that. I was simultaneously very flattered and weirded out at the same time. Granted I'm starting to realize I have intimacy issues, and am overly critical in love. I blame Virgo Mars/ Venus and my parents. hahahah
Posted by saggurl88lol unattainable as long as you don't play stupid games.Posted by heliumfiascoHe will be unattainable once you start showing interest lol
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
You should tell him that you're not interested. He will pull the brakes altogether. Why does he even know where you live? You never tell a Scorpio where you live unless you are actually dating and going for the long haul. lolclick to expand
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Yeah. A Scorpio that was interested in me was showing interest and then fell back when I started going after him. I told him that I don't chase and set him straight. lolPosted by saggurl88lol unattainable as long as you don't play stupid games.Posted by heliumfiascoHe will be unattainable once you start showing interest lol
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
You should tell him that you're not interested. He will pull the brakes altogether. Why does he even know where you live? You never tell a Scorpio where you live unless you are actually dating and going for the long haul. lolclick to expand
You either want me or you don't lol Figure out which one it will be so we can get to the sex part 😆
Posted by saggurl88Lol —Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Yeah. A Scorpio that was interested in me was showing interest and then fell back when I started going after him. I told him that I don't chase and set him straight. lolPosted by saggurl88lol unattainable as long as you don't play stupid games.Posted by heliumfiascoHe will be unattainable once you start showing interest lol
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
You should tell him that you're not interested. He will pull the brakes altogether. Why does he even know where you live? You never tell a Scorpio where you live unless you are actually dating and going for the long haul. lol
You either want me or you don't lol Figure out which one it will be so we can get to the sex part 😆
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Posted by BrosmosisHow do you know she hasn't been well trained already? ?
Once a Scorp chooses u...thas it. This dude ain't gonna stop with nothing short of a retraining order.
Posted by saggurl88Lol I would've responded with a there's always a first for everything. So today's your lucky day cause you gonna be chasing me lolPosted by Evoxxxscorpio2Yeah. A Scorpio that was interested in me was showing interest and then fell back when I started going after him. I told him that I don't chase and set him straight. lolPosted by saggurl88lol unattainable as long as you don't play stupid games.Posted by heliumfiascoHe will be unattainable once you start showing interest lol
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
You should tell him that you're not interested. He will pull the brakes altogether. Why does he even know where you live? You never tell a Scorpio where you live unless you are actually dating and going for the long haul. lol
You either want me or you don't lol Figure out which one it will be so we can get to the sex part 😆
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Posted by EnochtheWiseI feel like it has to be the worst Venus placement. UGHPosted by heliumfiascolol, he is smitten....Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by heliumfiascoYeah, I'm Aries Moon/Mars, two Sag placements as well, so a good deal of fire overall. The most accurate way I can describe the feelings would unfortunately sound very cliché , like a lame attempt at poetry, but that is just how my thoughts get around romance. Being 100% honest when I say that when I feel a very strong connection, I do feel I could write a book about the person, want to write poems, make music, create art with them as the sole subject. They inspire me creatively and become my muse....I'm also able to not pursue it if the danger or fear is to great from either end, and still use them as such though...lolPosted by EnochtheWiseI relate to all of this!Posted by heliumfiascoIts a legitimate concern.
I guess when someone comes on so strong my initial reaction is to think "Wow, this person doesnt want me. They just want anyone right now."...... I also am a little fucked up in that department.
Your OP sounds very much like me. For me, it is seldom about "wanting anyone" though. I can be alone for years and even prefer that. Its *very* rare to feel that way about someone, so when I do feel it, it is really that particular person that I'm amazed/confused by, and caught up in. I cannot help putting them on a pedestal and overlooking their flaws. The boundaries can go to shyt real fast. It always seems my feelings are in advance of the other person. I just want the person to feel as good as I feel by any means, and get so caught up in the emotion of it all, I can be prone to over-compliment, over-spend, really just focus way too much on them. But so many times it is just too fast for the other person, and a feeling of rejection is inevitable, then a long painful process ensues....hahaha....Its pretty messy but I always feel if its meant to be, it will be, and in my experience when I feel that strongly, the other person usually does too...They're more so just afraid often due to issues within their self, like you're saying, that the connection can bring to the surface. That's a part I like though because I get to see more of who they really are - their fears, insecurities, etc. - its part of knowing/accepting/loving the whole person....Honestly the whole thing is pretty creepy....
If not reciprocated, it could be very short-lived. What are his fire placements?
Also can contradict my self a lot in these matters...lol
Placements
Scorp Sun
Aries Moon
Sag Merc
Sag Venus
Cap Mars
That is very interesting. I almost feel like he's poetic when he speaks to me. He also after two dates sent me this song by the old 60's group the Roller Coasters and said "On date 6 I want you to dance with me to this". NEVER in my life had a guy show an underbelly like that. I was simultaneously very flattered and weirded out at the same time. Granted I'm starting to realize I have intimacy issues, and am overly critical in love. I blame Virgo Mars/ Venus and my parents. hahahah
I get where you're coming from though....I have Virgo Venus/Asc. too and that is a whole other analytical/critical side that kicks in. I just feel like I have to overpower it and get it in line though....lol...just read a thread on here about Virgo Venus lately and I really don't care for this placement much, or understand why Venus would want to land in it.click to expand
my only advice for you is to be careful, every and I mean every scorpio I've been with and heard stories about comes on strong in the beginning, they lure you in, give you their full attention and treat you like there's nobody else like you, it lasts and then poof, you get tested, he withdraws, starts arguments to see how much you care, plays hot then plays cold, he tests your patience, loyalty and feelings, and these are not obvious in slightest, he'll test you and pick on the smallest words, it goes further and deeper than you think
obviously not generalizing but many many scorp men are like this
they make you love them and then they play games to see how genuine and deep that is
they get into their heads a lot and it can create a lot of tension in a relationship
obviously not generalizing but many many scorp men are like this
they make you love them and then they play games to see how genuine and deep that is
they get into their heads a lot and it can create a lot of tension in a relationship
Posted by tizianiLmaoPosted by DolluxxeInconsistently dedicating websites smh, amateur mistake.
IME, they do come on strong in the beginning. I had one create a website with my name plastered all over it.
It's the inconsistency that pisses me off..click to expand
Well He should know, and everyone on this board should know... The only way for him to probably get me to fall in love is to ignore me and play games. I love that shit apparently. hahaha JK!
Posted by tizianiI feel this to be true. He is only 32. But, he was that dude in high school that was excited about marriage even then. He def is looking to settle down.Posted by heliumfiascoProbably half true though, but thats a part of life IMO. As I was reading the thread I was thinking maybe his clock is just ticking. Nothing wrong with that even if it's not the most enchanting thought.
I guess when someone comes on so strong my initial reaction is to think "Wow, this person doesnt want me. They just want anyone right now."...... I also am a little fucked up in that department.click to expand
Posted by heliumfiascoHow many times he had actually showed you this over-attention?
Well He should know, and everyone on this board should know... The only way for him to probably get me to fall in love is to ignore me and play games. I love that shit apparently. hahaha JK!
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2You would've heard crickets then 😆 I love calling Scorpios bluffs - I know what you want 😛Posted by saggurl88Lol I would've responded with a there's always a first for everything. So today's your lucky day cause you gonna be chasing me lolPosted by Evoxxxscorpio2Yeah. A Scorpio that was interested in me was showing interest and then fell back when I started going after him. I told him that I don't chase and set him straight. lolPosted by saggurl88lol unattainable as long as you don't play stupid games.Posted by heliumfiascoHe will be unattainable once you start showing interest lol
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
You should tell him that you're not interested. He will pull the brakes altogether. Why does he even know where you live? You never tell a Scorpio where you live unless you are actually dating and going for the long haul. lol
You either want me or you don't lol Figure out which one it will be so we can get to the sex part 😆
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Posted by GemitatiIt's not even over attention. It's very concentrated, consistent attention. Very direct and fast. I'm just not familiar with it and it kind of scares me.... like I can't explain why it makes me uneasy. Very nice dude. Not hating... I'm sure most people desire the directness. Fuck when I don't get it, I'm like "these dudes suck". Then I get it and I'm all stand offish and questioning.Posted by heliumfiascoHow many times he had actually showed you this over-attention?
Well He should know, and everyone on this board should know... The only way for him to probably get me to fall in love is to ignore me and play games. I love that shit apparently. hahaha JK!click to expand
Posted by heliumfiascoLmao same for me. Something I'm working on cause at 31 I've no time for games.
Well He should know, and everyone on this board should know... The only way for him to probably get me to fall in love is to ignore me and play games. I love that shit apparently. hahaha JK!
Probably why I get so hooked with water signs. Somebody slap me
Ellygant! So true!
The love of my life, also most toxic relationship was a Libra man with 12th house and Scorpio stelliums.
He was passionate but it was all lava bubbling below the surface that only appeared in unhealthy ways.
He was passionate but it was all lava bubbling below the surface that only appeared in unhealthy ways.
Posted by heliumfiascoI found out that with Scorpio who likes you and who cares about you - there is no limitation on questions, expressing concern and total honesty.Posted by GemitatiIt's not even over attention. It's very concentrated, consistent attention. Very direct and fast. I'm just not familiar with it and it kind of scares me.... like I can't explain why it makes me uneasy. Very nice dude. Not hating... I'm sure most people desire the directness. Fuck when I don't get it, I'm like "these dudes suck". Then I get it and I'm all stand offish and questioning.Posted by heliumfiascoHow many times he had actually showed you this over-attention?
Well He should know, and everyone on this board should know... The only way for him to probably get me to fall in love is to ignore me and play games. I love that shit apparently. hahaha JK!
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If you just tell him all you wrote back to me - you could be very pleased with an outcome of your conversation with him.
He will put your worries to rest in a heartbeat!
Make it funny like 'you know you driving me crazy? Are you trying to tell me something?...'
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I dunno. I'm a hella Scorpionic dude but I've got some placements that ease it (Libra Sun and AS; Leo in MC; Moon in Virgo; Mars in Cancer trine Pluto in Scorpio...) I have a lot of synergy that creates a dominating energy. I don't play games but if I can read that you're a wily type that needs to have her head gamed - I'll do it just to prove I can but a warning: I will never give you my heart.
Your boy just sounds sprung on you though, and it looks like you're not feeling it because you prefer the guy to be aloof?
Your boy just sounds sprung on you though, and it looks like you're not feeling it because you prefer the guy to be aloof?
I only know of one case. My Gemini (female) friend was/is(?) involved with a Scorpio male. It started out great, then he became possessive and jealous to the point of insanity. He's smashed several TVs, punched holes in her walls, broke out her apartment windows, dragged her down the hallway by her hair, busted her door in, given her a couple STDs and stalks her. She's had him arrested several times, but keeps taking him back (he's good sex). I hope things work out better for YOU, good luck.
Posted by GemitatiYou finally got one right lolPosted by heliumfiascoI found out that with Scorpio who likes you and who cares about you - there is no limitation on questions, expressing concern and total honesty.Posted by GemitatiIt's not even over attention. It's very concentrated, consistent attention. Very direct and fast. I'm just not familiar with it and it kind of scares me.... like I can't explain why it makes me uneasy. Very nice dude. Not hating... I'm sure most people desire the directness. Fuck when I don't get it, I'm like "these dudes suck". Then I get it and I'm all stand offish and questioning.Posted by heliumfiascoHow many times he had actually showed you this over-attention?
Well He should know, and everyone on this board should know... The only way for him to probably get me to fall in love is to ignore me and play games. I love that shit apparently. hahaha JK!
If you just tell him all you wrote back to me - you could be very pleased with an outcome of your conversation with him.
He will put your worries to rest in a heartbeat!
Make it funny like 'you know you driving me crazy? Are you trying to tell me something?...'
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Posted by saggurl88Lol and exactly what do you think I want?Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2You would've heard crickets then 😆 I love calling Scorpios bluffs - I know what you want 😛Posted by saggurl88Lol I would've responded with a there's always a first for everything. So today's your lucky day cause you gonna be chasing me lolPosted by Evoxxxscorpio2Yeah. A Scorpio that was interested in me was showing interest and then fell back when I started going after him. I told him that I don't chase and set him straight. lolPosted by saggurl88lol unattainable as long as you don't play stupid games.Posted by heliumfiascoHe will be unattainable once you start showing interest lol
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
You should tell him that you're not interested. He will pull the brakes altogether. Why does he even know where you live? You never tell a Scorpio where you live unless you are actually dating and going for the long haul. lol
You either want me or you don't lol Figure out which one it will be so we can get to the sex part 😆
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2You're a little late buddy! I've already forgot! 😆Posted by saggurl88Lol and exactly what do you think I want?Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2You would've heard crickets then 😆 I love calling Scorpios bluffs - I know what you want 😛Posted by saggurl88Lol I would've responded with a there's always a first for everything. So today's your lucky day cause you gonna be chasing me lolPosted by Evoxxxscorpio2Yeah. A Scorpio that was interested in me was showing interest and then fell back when I started going after him. I told him that I don't chase and set him straight. lolPosted by saggurl88lol unattainable as long as you don't play stupid games.Posted by heliumfiascoHe will be unattainable once you start showing interest lol
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
You should tell him that you're not interested. He will pull the brakes altogether. Why does he even know where you live? You never tell a Scorpio where you live unless you are actually dating and going for the long haul. lol
You either want me or you don't lol Figure out which one it will be so we can get to the sex part 😆
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Posted by saggurl88Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2You're a little late buddy! I've already forgot! 😆Posted by saggurl88Lol and exactly what do you think I want?Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2You would've heard crickets then 😆 I love calling Scorpios bluffs - I know what you want 😛Posted by saggurl88Lol I would've responded with a there's always a first for everything. So today's your lucky day cause you gonna be chasing me lolPosted by Evoxxxscorpio2Yeah. A Scorpio that was interested in me was showing interest and then fell back when I started going after him. I told him that I don't chase and set him straight. lolPosted by saggurl88lol unattainable as long as you don't play stupid games.Posted by heliumfiascoHe will be unattainable once you start showing interest lol
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
You should tell him that you're not interested. He will pull the brakes altogether. Why does he even know where you live? You never tell a Scorpio where you live unless you are actually dating and going for the long haul. lol
You either want me or you don't lol Figure out which one it will be so we can get to the sex part 😆
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2What? Finally? I can teach YOU how to deal with a Scorpio! I?Posted by GemitatiYou finally got one right lolPosted by heliumfiascoI found out that with Scorpio who likes you and who cares about you - there is no limitation on questions, expressing concern and total honesty.Posted by GemitatiIt's not even over attention. It's very concentrated, consistent attention. Very direct and fast. I'm just not familiar with it and it kind of scares me.... like I can't explain why it makes me uneasy. Very nice dude. Not hating... I'm sure most people desire the directness. Fuck when I don't get it, I'm like "these dudes suck". Then I get it and I'm all stand offish and questioning.Posted by heliumfiascoHow many times he had actually showed you this over-attention?
Well He should know, and everyone on this board should know... The only way for him to probably get me to fall in love is to ignore me and play games. I love that shit apparently. hahaha JK!
If you just tell him all you wrote back to me - you could be very pleased with an outcome of your conversation with him.
He will put your worries to rest in a heartbeat!
Make it funny like 'you know you driving me crazy? Are you trying to tell me something?...'
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Update: I like him! A lot actually.
I Will say he asks me where I am a lot. And is always looking over my shoulder when I'm texting. Blantantly. I'm aware and prepared that some jealousy is on its way. Haha. I posted a photo of myself that a friend took and he immediately called to ask who took it. Hahaha it's not in an aggressive manner, it's kind of funny.
I Will say he asks me where I am a lot. And is always looking over my shoulder when I'm texting. Blantantly. I'm aware and prepared that some jealousy is on its way. Haha. I posted a photo of myself that a friend took and he immediately called to ask who took it. Hahaha it's not in an aggressive manner, it's kind of funny.
Posted by heliumfiascoRemember to be careful with enjoying the chase, otherwise, have at it!
Update: I like him! A lot actually.
I Will say he asks me where I am a lot. And is always looking over my shoulder when I'm texting. Blantantly. I'm aware and prepared that some jealousy is on its way. Haha. I posted a photo of myself that a friend took and he immediately called to ask who took it. Hahaha it's not in an aggressive manner, it's kind of funny.
Posted by DistilledIt proves what it does.Posted by Havoc077Please explain. Especially not playing games but playing one with wily type. What does this prove?
I dunno. I'm a hella Scorpionic dude but I've got some placements that ease it (Libra Sun and AS; Leo in MC; Moon in Virgo; Mars in Cancer trine Pluto in Scorpio...) I have a lot of synergy that creates a dominating energy. I don't play games but if I can read that you're a wily type that needs to have her head gamed - I'll do it just to prove I can but a warning: I will never give you my heart.
Your boy just sounds sprung on you though, and it looks like you're not feeling it because you prefer the guy to be aloof?
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Update: I like him! A lot actually.
I Will say he asks me where I am a lot. And is always looking over my shoulder when I'm texting. Blantantly. I'm aware and prepared that some jealousy is on its way. Haha. I posted a photo of myself that a friend took and he immediately called to ask who took it. Hahaha it's not in an aggressive manner, it's kind of funny.
I like this guy. Whorpio approved ??
Posted by saggurl88That last bit about him knowing where she lives and how that's a no no cracks me up. I mean Scorpio filing that away is just a given but I can't stop laughing at that, and its not even that funnyPosted by heliumfiascoHe will be unattainable once you start showing interest lol
I don't want to NOT date him, I just would like to gasp for air a bit.
I've also been very concerned that I like unattainable people on purpose. Questioning if im weirded out by the aggressiveness for that reason.
But mostly wanted to see if this is all on par with Scorp Suns. 🙂
You should tell him that you're not interested. He will pull the brakes altogether. Why does he even know where you live? You never tell a Scorpio where you live unless you are actually dating and going for the long haul. lolclick to expand
Though I personally have to ask what's so wrong about coming on strong? It's def flattering and if you're into it then show him its mutual. Countless girls come on this website complaining and butt hurt that a guy is distant that he's ghosting. Its a common problem in the dating world so enjoy a guy who is showing that he cares and wants to take care of you. If you're not into and feel overwhelmed back up and let him know. I understand wanting answers and opinions, but it seems to me that you already know what you want to do. He won't do this forever and wait for a response. As a Scorpio I cool my heels incredibly fast if I feel like the object of my affection doesn't want me to the same extent and move on.
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