Ya'll come on a little strong, huh? (Page 2)

Posted by SugeredSap
Though I personally have to ask what's so wrong about coming on strong? It's def flattering and if you're into it then show him its mutual. Countless girls come on this website complaining and butt hurt that a guy is distant that he's ghosting. Its a common problem in the dating world so enjoy a guy who is showing that he cares and wants to take care of you. If you're not into and feel overwhelmed back up and let him know. I understand wanting answers and opinions, but it seems to me that you already know what you want to do. He won't do this forever and wait for a response. As a Scorpio I cool my heels incredibly fast if I feel like the object of my affection doesn't want me to the same extent and move on.

Exactly ?

Yea scorps I know come on strong , all of them .. some more aggressive than others of course .. once they see something they really like that's it , you're prey lol I kinda like it , just don't cross that line cuz if it's crossed I'll never look at u the same way

I wish I met some aggressive scorpios. Most of the ones I came across are pretty dead. I always wanna shout(n still doubt if that would work or if they'd even flinch)"Dude, the "intense" look ain't working..can we do something else? Like maybe talk?" They are booOOooring...They could kill me!?

Two were fun...kinda?

Posted by Teena
I wish I met some aggressive scorpios. Most of the ones I came across are pretty dead. I always wanna shout(n still doubt if that would work or if they'd even flinch)"Dude, the "intense" look ain't working..can we so something else? Like maybe talk?" They are booOOooring...They could kill me!?

Two were fun...kinda?

most of the scorpio men i know are taken. lol

and happily so. one with a pisces woman, the other two with aquarius.

one of them has an aquarius moon, libra mars, so that's why he is with an aquarius.

Posted by AneemA08
While it lasts, of course..

😆

Posted by Dolluxxe
IME, they do come on strong in the beginning. I had one create a website with my name plastered all over it.

It's the inconsistency that pisses me off..

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the libra/scorpio cusper guy?

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Teena
I wish I met some aggressive scorpios. Most of the ones I came across are pretty dead. I always wanna shout(n still doubt if that would work or if they'd even flinch)"Dude, the "intense" look ain't working..can we so something else? Like maybe talk?" They are booOOooring...They could kill me!?

Two were fun...kinda?

most of the scorpio men i know are taken. lol

and happily so. one with a pisces woman, the other two with aquarius.

one of them has an aquarius moon, libra mars, so that's why he is with an aquarius.

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I mostly came across the single ones or the ones in committed relationships n recently broke up.One of my very good scorpio guy friend recently got married to a Taurus woman. Before that he was in 7 year long relationship with a Leo.. broke up ..met the Taurus.. married within months after meeting her.They were in a relationship for not more than 9-10 months before they got married.

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Posted by Teena
I wish I met some aggressive scorpios. Most of the ones I came across are pretty dead. I always wanna shout(n still doubt if that would work or if they'd even flinch)"Dude, the "intense" look ain't working..can we do something else? Like maybe talk?" They are booOOooring...They could kill me!?

Two were fun...kinda?

Have you got any fire or air in your chart?

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Gemini rising, Sag Venus and Mercury ?

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Posted by Teena

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Posted by Teena
I wish I met some aggressive scorpios. Most of the ones I came across are pretty dead. I always wanna shout(n still doubt if that would work or if they'd even flinch)"Dude, the "intense" look ain't working..can we do something else? Like maybe talk?" They are booOOooring...They could kill me!?

Two were fun...kinda?

Have you got any fire or air in your chart?

Gemini rising, Sag Venus and Mercury ?

Ah, I'm assuming maybe that's why you find them boring?

Edit: the one Gemini sun girl I dated found me boring as hell, lol.

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Lol! Maybe ..I dunno. It's not like I can't stand boring people. I can. I don't need people to be interesting. It's hard to explain. But for real these guys could kill me. They are beyond boring?

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Posted by Teena
I wish I met some aggressive scorpios. Most of the ones I came across are pretty dead. I always wanna shout(n still doubt if that would work or if they'd even flinch)"Dude, the "intense" look ain't working..can we so something else? Like maybe talk?" They are booOOooring...They could kill me!?

Two were fun...kinda?

most of the scorpio men i know are taken. lol

and happily so. one with a pisces woman, the other two with aquarius.

one of them has an aquarius moon, libra mars, so that's why he is with an aquarius.

I mostly came across the single ones or the ones in committed relationships n recently broke up.One of my very good scorpio guy friend recently got married to a Taurus woman. Before that he was in 7 year long relationship with a Leo.. broke up ..met the Taurus.. married within months after meeting her.They were in a relationship for not more than 9-10 months before they got married.

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the leo ex wife must have been a bad woman or something bad happened. Scorpio men dont usually let go unless it's seriously big.

the ones i know in the very past, married a gemini, still together. He was airy and had gemini in his chart. She isn't what you would call beautiful or sweet, but she is loyal and clingy and he loves that.

I dont meet scorpio men who are into scorpio women though, they seem to really gravitate to the Pisces woman or Aquarius or Gemini, i think because the ones i meet are fiery/airy types. And even the one with the Pisces, she's got Sagittarius moon. He has Cancer moon, Leo mars.

and these scorpio men usually know scorpio women (from family members) but they are like cousins together. Like a bro- sis vibe. The Scorpio women i know personally are with Air suns. I know. it's a effed up world out there, outside of astrology forum. 😛 😆

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Posted by Teena

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Posted by Teena
I wish I met some aggressive scorpios. Most of the ones I came across are pretty dead. I always wanna shout(n still doubt if that would work or if they'd even flinch)"Dude, the "intense" look ain't working..can we so something else? Like maybe talk?" They are booOOooring...They could kill me!?

Two were fun...kinda?

most of the scorpio men i know are taken. lol

and happily so. one with a pisces woman, the other two with aquarius.

one of them has an aquarius moon, libra mars, so that's why he is with an aquarius.

I mostly came across the single ones or the ones in committed relationships n recently broke up.One of my very good scorpio guy friend recently got married to a Taurus woman. Before that he was in 7 year long relationship with a Leo.. broke up ..met the Taurus.. married within months after meeting her.They were in a relationship for not more than 9-10 months before they got married.

the leo ex wife must have been a bad woman or something bad happened. Scorpio men dont usually let go unless it's seriously big.

the ones i know in the very past, married a gemini, still together. He was airy and had gemini in his chart. She isn't what you would call beautiful or sweet, but she is loyal and clingy and he loves that.

I dont meet scorpio men who are into scorpio women though, they seem to really gravitate to the Pisces woman or Aquarius or Gemini, i think because the ones i meet are fiery/airy types. And even the one with the Pisces, she's got Sagittarius moon. He has Cancer moon, Leo mars.

and these scorpio men usually know scorpio women (from family members) but they are like cousins together. Like a bro- sis vibe. The Scorpio women i know personally are with Air suns. I know. it's a effed up world out there, outside of astrology forum. 😛 😆

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He didn't marry the Leo. They were in a relationship. I always had a feeling that the guy thought he deserved more. The girl isn't great looking n he gave a vibe like he just settled for her. He had a wandering eye. The girl was more into him than the other way round. The worst part is , this guy actually liked the Leo's younger sister(a Gemini. She's my friend too). He proposed her to be his gf initially..She rejected n then the Leo proposed to him. It was all awkward n messy tbh.

I have 8th house moon and Pluto in Scorpio in the 1st. I vibe well with Scorpios. Nearly all my close friends are Scorpios and Cancers. However, being an air sign my natural instinct was "woahhhhhh... this is intense. WTF is happening here." hahaha. Now I've become comfortable and am finding it flattering and actually kind of comforting.

I told him I felt like him coming on so strong immediately made me feel like he was just looking for anyone to date and it made me feel weird, he started laughing and said "I dont settle for shit. I like you and thats that". Very sexy.

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Posted by CrimsonGirl
Generally speaking I'm not a fan of Scorpio guys for this reason. As you said, they're usually very nice, but just come on way too strong from my experience. And they can be total bitch ass babies when rejected. They're super gentlemanly until you're like "no sorry I've been dating someone for a long time and I'm not interested. But thanks!" and then they get super ugly and rude out of nowhere and accuse you of things that absolutely aren't true. Have had it happen with 3 different scorps.

I have a very good intuition. And my gut feeling is that he would NOT handle an even slight rejection from me well. I get the sense in the future he would also probably be a bit sensitive and slightly jealous.

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I would suggest that you become your most honest and upfront self. Be ? real in every dealing with him. For instance tell him exactly what you are saying here. Better to do this right from the start and maintain this throughout the relationship--even if you think you are keeping something back due to not being sure or being diplomatic or whatever. If you can establish very clear communication and full disclosure right from the start, you really will lessen the chance of the negative aspects of dating a Scorpio. Generally scorps would rather know everything(good bad ugly) than be stuck in the intuitive stage. Scorpios learn very early on to go with their intuition. So if you are holding anything back, a Scorpio will sense that and then try to figure it out--which you don't want because this is exactly where obsessive thinking and jealousy rears its head. Yep, all on the table all the time and things with a Scorpio go smoother.

Anything else starts to feel like game.

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Posted by heliumfiasco
Update: I like him! A lot actually.

I Will say he asks me where I am a lot. And is always looking over my shoulder when I'm texting. Blantantly. I'm aware and prepared that some jealousy is on its way. Haha. I posted a photo of myself that a friend took and he immediately called to ask who took it. Hahaha it's not in an aggressive manner, it's kind of funny.

I like this guy. Whorpio approved ??

You just gave them the kiss of death.

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Aww don't say thaaaat!

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Posted by Teena

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Posted by Teena
I wish I met some aggressive scorpios. Most of the ones I came across are pretty dead. I always wanna shout(n still doubt if that would work or if they'd even flinch)"Dude, the "intense" look ain't working..can we so something else? Like maybe talk?" They are booOOooring...They could kill me!?

Two were fun...kinda?

most of the scorpio men i know are taken. lol

and happily so. one with a pisces woman, the other two with aquarius.

one of them has an aquarius moon, libra mars, so that's why he is with an aquarius.

I mostly came across the single ones or the ones in committed relationships n recently broke up.One of my very good scorpio guy friend recently got married to a Taurus woman. Before that he was in 7 year long relationship with a Leo.. broke up ..met the Taurus.. married within months after meeting her.They were in a relationship for not more than 9-10 months before they got married.

the leo ex wife must have been a bad woman or something bad happened. Scorpio men dont usually let go unless it's seriously big.

the ones i know in the very past, married a gemini, still together. He was airy and had gemini in his chart. She isn't what you would call beautiful or sweet, but she is loyal and clingy and he loves that.

I dont meet scorpio men who are into scorpio women though, they seem to really gravitate to the Pisces woman or Aquarius or Gemini, i think because the ones i meet are fiery/airy types. And even the one with the Pisces, she's got Sagittarius moon. He has Cancer moon, Leo mars.

and these scorpio men usually know scorpio women (from family members) but they are like cousins together. Like a bro- sis vibe. The Scorpio women i know personally are with Air suns. I know. it's a effed up world out there, outside of astrology forum. 😛 😆

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I thought I was the only one who's seen this pattern. But most of the Scorps I know are airy too. The airy Scorps love them some airy women! I know two male Scorp/ Aqua female couples. I know one one female Scorp/ Aqua male couple. Actually... I just met another Scorp male/ Aqua female couple but the guy is fire dominated and not airy. A lot of people say this is the worst pairing, but I see it quite often and it lasts the longest. Like these couples have been together over 10 years type thing!