Shagattarius
@Shagattarius
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Yet another update.
I'm going out of town in about 5 days for 2 weeks. I was going to text him before I got back to see if we could meet up. I know he's mad I haven't texted, he's used to women pursuing him. He got all pissy when I didn't say hi to him at his work. Avoided me for like a week. Total nutcase! But I do like the crazies, make life interesting.
Posted by Pecheresse
And you just don't wanna be like the other girls right. Scorps get tired of what they can get easily it seems, well from what I've read on DXP...
That's why I've held off on reaching out to him. I only texted on his birthday because, well it's the nice thing to do. I know it's irritating him that I haven't called him, but I can't help myself. I want him to wonder...
Posted by Pecheresse
ll I got (4days after our date mind you) was "Thanku!" Not even a treetrunking space between "thank" and "u"! haha.
LMAO that made me laugh.
Anyhow, I think he just got too many txts/msgs and he didnt feel like replying something longer than thanku. lol Dont read too much into it. He'll probably get back at you soon!
Txt him if you feel like it.
i agree. it's just a text? no point in reading too much into in it 🙂
But what about all the messages to the women on his page. He took the time to write them and for me, no effort. He KNEW I would those messages. He's either trying be really mean and show me how much he's not interested, or trying to make me jealous. 😢
Posted by FireDragonScorpio
maybe they're just shallow, flirty comments anyway.
exactly. e-groupies. he probably knew exactly what he was doing, with his non spaced thanku! but that's his problem, not yours. don't even acknowledge it.
Probably been said before but that username is pure genius.
Posted by FireDragonScorpio
maybe they're just shallow, flirty comments anyway. if he's single, he won't see there's any harm and all men like to gather ardent admirers. i know what you mean though. it would really piss me off. dooooooooon't look. block him.
We were facebook friends long before we went on any dates. I'm not that emotionally invested in him that creeping his facebook will have too much influence over me. If anything it helps me gauge what's going on with him. We went on a date a week ago and I haven't heard anything from him (other than the b-day text), looking at it objectively, he's just not that in to me. lol
How is it his loss?
If he thought she was worth a lot, enough to be a gain, then he'd be with her .. since he's not, due primarily to him determining he doesn't want to be with her .. then that's not his loss .. it's actually his gain .. because he still has the opportunity to seek someone he feels is actually worth him.
I especially love how several times it's mentioned that if he's not into you .. then sobeit, you can handle it .. and then proceed to be upset because of it.
If he thought she was worth a lot, enough to be a gain, then he'd be with her .. since he's not, due primarily to him determining he doesn't want to be with her .. then that's not his loss .. it's actually his gain .. because he still has the opportunity to seek someone he feels is actually worth him.
I especially love how several times it's mentioned that if he's not into you .. then sobeit, you can handle it .. and then proceed to be upset because of it.
Posted by FireDragonScorpio
his loss. 🙂
Isn't it her loss? No offense, but Shag you are posting on being irritated by the non existent attention you are not getting from this scorp.
Perhaps instead of playing games, try a different approach. Just blind side him and be straight forward. When I say games, I'm referring to comments like "I want him to wonder". You said he is overly sensitive? Well scorpios like to hide their feelings. So in retrospect you may be mixing the signals up, reading into actions more than you need to.
Who knows, maybe he is that into you and because of his over sensitive side has trouble grasping.
Also he didn't know you would read the facebook messages, he did know however that they were there in plain view. Calculations of the scorp mind haha. In any case, it's fucking facebook. I deleted mine ages ago because facebook is retarded and a waste of time. "he posted this, she posted that, there is a pic of this, blah blah blah blah" waste of time.
Ardent admirers....no thanks. 😉
Best bet, be straight up or block him and stop contact with him for awhile. He may just come looking for you.
That may be true, but at least she will get the answer she is looking for. Of course there is that chance that he is a 38 year old that has yet to grow the fuck up. Plays games too. Ridiculous.
Clearly I am upset, otherwise I wouldnt be posting. Thanks for the input.
Posted by Purechaos
Isn't it her loss? No offense, but Shag you are posting on being irritated by the non existent attention you are not getting from this scorp.
Perhaps instead of playing games, try a different approach. Just blind side him and be straight forward. When I say games, I'm referring to comments like "I want him to wonder". You said he is overly sensitive? Well scorpios like to hide their feelings. So in retrospect you may be mixing the signals up, reading into actions more than you need to.
Who knows, maybe he is that into you and because of his over sensitive side has trouble grasping.
Also he didn't know you would read the facebook messages, he did know however that they were there in plain view. Calculations of the scorp mind haha. In any case, it's fucking facebook. I deleted mine ages ago because facebook is retarded and a waste of time. "he posted this, she posted that, there is a pic of this, blah blah blah blah" waste of time.
Ardent admirers....no thanks. 😉
Best bet, be straight up or block him and stop contact with him for awhile. He may just come looking for you.
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+1 this is the best route to take. follow this mans advice!
shitty quote job, but i echo purechaos' sentiments.
-don't take facebook seriously. it's mostly an ego stroking platform. look how fabulous my life is. look how many people love me on my bday! yay me! lol, it's bs. the girls that messaged him probably don't even have his number? so who cares!
-being straight gets you somewhere with a scorp. with men in general, but some sidestep you and it's just hard work. but a scorp laps it up.
-don't play any more games. you don't seem to like them. you've got your two options now, anyway. leave him to his own devices and let him come to you. or be straight and level with him. as you said he's overly sensitive, the second option may be your best bet.
-don't take facebook seriously. it's mostly an ego stroking platform. look how fabulous my life is. look how many people love me on my bday! yay me! lol, it's bs. the girls that messaged him probably don't even have his number? so who cares!
-being straight gets you somewhere with a scorp. with men in general, but some sidestep you and it's just hard work. but a scorp laps it up.
-don't play any more games. you don't seem to like them. you've got your two options now, anyway. leave him to his own devices and let him come to you. or be straight and level with him. as you said he's overly sensitive, the second option may be your best bet.
Thanks! Im going to give him some space for now and approach when I feel like hes cooled off from the situation. One of his comments to his bday admires was that he had a soul searching week.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by Shagattarius
Thanks! Im going to give him some space for now and approach when I feel like hes cooled off from the situation. One of his comments to his bday admires was that he had a soul searching week.
Maybe it was a typo ?
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haha must have been.
Posted by FireDragonScorpio
omg! 'his loss'....soothing words to a bruised ego, that's all. it's no-one's loss if you want to be literal. you have to have something to lose first obviously, lol.
Thats how I took. We all know it was noones loss really.
Is it weird for me to text him hi today? Ugh i have no patience.
"Remember your value and your uniqueness.....it is only when we apply that value to ourselves that we get treated in the manner that we deserve to be treated. If we do not value ourselves then how can we possibly expect others to? Somehow, some way people have an instinct to know if we do not know our own value. It's like putting a dog into a room with ten people, the dog will always be able to tell who is afraid of it and somehow is attracted to that very person who is afraid and might not want that dog near them.
Things don't normally start out badly in any relationship, they progress to not being as good because we allow them to. We don't see that at the time until we actually wake up and realize things are not what they once were. And then we wonder, how did this happen? Well easily, patterns are easily formed and harder to break but they can be broken. We just have to know that we cannot change others, what we can do is change ourselves and others are forced to change to deal with us. The hard part of that is that we have to say what we mean and mean what we say, no drama, no ultimatums ( unless we mean them) and boy is THAT the HARD part, and YES this IS work. But it can be done, we only have to see it first, and that's half the issue. But the value of that lesson is priceless to your soul..... "
http://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/DruidsGlenTarot/Allowing-bad-treatment--not-good--knowing-your-value-PRICELESS/422339.aspx
Things don't normally start out badly in any relationship, they progress to not being as good because we allow them to. We don't see that at the time until we actually wake up and realize things are not what they once were. And then we wonder, how did this happen? Well easily, patterns are easily formed and harder to break but they can be broken. We just have to know that we cannot change others, what we can do is change ourselves and others are forced to change to deal with us. The hard part of that is that we have to say what we mean and mean what we say, no drama, no ultimatums ( unless we mean them) and boy is THAT the HARD part, and YES this IS work. But it can be done, we only have to see it first, and that's half the issue. But the value of that lesson is priceless to your soul..... "
http://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/DruidsGlenTarot/Allowing-bad-treatment--not-good--knowing-your-value-PRICELESS/422339.aspx
nice post bgp
Well being as I've been put on chill by a scorpio, I'm about to bite my own fingers off to not call or text him. It's important to know when we feed their self centereded behavior. I might want my *fix* of him for today, but in reality I want "long term respect" and I think if I do contact him I will send the wrong message.
My message for today is "I am valuable and YOU WILL value me".
My message for today is "I am valuable and YOU WILL value me".
Yeah I didn't wait. But my logic was this: I could have called or texted after our last date, but I didn't, just as much as he didn't. I can't really be upset with the messages on facebook. I over reacted, he IS single. They weren't offensive just obnoxious. I said hi in the text and asked him how his week was. He responded about 3 hour later that it was good and asked me how mine was. I wrote something short and that I missed him. I haven't heard back, surprise surprise. But thank GOD for my aquarius moon right now. I just wanted him to know that I missed him. A long time ago I spoke with a cousin of mine who was a psychic. She told me not to marry the scorpio I was dating at the time. She said "scorpios don't know if their coming or going". She was right on about that. I did marry that scorpio and he was the by far the easiest, most devoted man I've ever met. But one thing I did learn about scorpio men is that under the tough surface, they're kind of weak. Once you get to see the real them, when you live together and they can't keep up with the "show", they are pretty lost. Maybe not all, I'm sure not all. I think they do well with a strong woman because once their game stops they need direction, usually need someones help. Just my opinion.
what age did u get marriage and divorced?
stop sweatin that other scorpio. he probably thinks youve lost it and are completely infatuated with him. let him make the next move.
stop sweatin that other scorpio. he probably thinks youve lost it and are completely infatuated with him. let him make the next move.
Married at 24 divorced at 27. How would the other scorpio think I've "lost it". I didn't contact him until over a week after our date. haha Then again they do think everyone wants them. I've pursued almost every guy I've ever dated. It's how I'm hard wired. I usually get the guy too.
lost it as in becoming a 3 stage clinger
I agree with Shag about them being somewhat weak. My scorp man has admitted to having a "false bravado" :pretense of courage; a false show of bravery. He also admits to being "inherently" insecure. So, since we all know scorp men have that ego and the intense desire to mask their true emotions, esp the negative ones, they put on that air on confidence, bravado, the "Im cool and in control". Its all a farce. Im a scorp moon so I know what thats all about. Sadly, Im also a Leo sun and I cant help but gush over my love muffin.
Aw damn, Im missing my suck ass scorp butthead now. 😢
Aw damn, Im missing my suck ass scorp butthead now. 😢
done the same myself recently. was hoping to get the chance to ignore him back since but the chance has unsurprisingly not arisen, lol.
hahaha! Thats atleast half of the reason I texted him too! I will get the last word. lol
hahaha! Thats atleast half of the reason I texted him too! I will get the last word. lol
What an odd Sadge, to be sure ... most, generally speaking of course, wouldn't give a rats ass ... and here you've been going for a while now.
I'm nearly 100% positive that this is the first time I've witnessed a Sagittarius use the term, "last word" as it pertains to themselves.
I'm nearly 100% positive that this is the first time I've witnessed a Sagittarius use the term, "last word" as it pertains to themselves.
Ah yes the ego. The bravado. That shit is a joke too. Be who are you not who you aren't and fuck anyone who doesn't like it. There's my ego. 🙂
Shags you probably offended your bitch of a scorpio and now he is playing the prove that you want me crap for his own satisfaction. Honestly, show some control and don't contact him for awhile, put the ball back in your court rather than being another groupie for this guy...........last word or not he thinks you are wrapped around his finger with that last text.
Shags you probably offended your bitch of a scorpio and now he is playing the prove that you want me crap for his own satisfaction. Honestly, show some control and don't contact him for awhile, put the ball back in your court rather than being another groupie for this guy...........last word or not he thinks you are wrapped around his finger with that last text.
es the ego. The bravado. That shit is a joke too. Be who are you not who you aren't and fuck anyone who doesn't like it. There's my ego. 🙂
Shags you probably offended your bitch of a scorpio and now he is playing the prove that you want me crap for his own satisfaction. Honestly, show some control and don't contact him for awhile, put the ball back in your court rather than being another groupie for this guy...........last word or not he thinks you are wrapped around his finger with that last text.
Shags you probably offended your bitch of a scorpio and now he is playing the prove that you want me crap for his own satisfaction. Honestly, show some control and don't contact him for awhile, put the ball back in your court rather than being another groupie for this guy...........last word or not he thinks you are wrapped around his finger with that last text.
Posted by P-Angel
What an odd Sadge, to be sure ... most, generally speaking of course, wouldn't give a rats ass ... and here you've been going for a while now.
I'm nearly 100% positive that this is the first time I've witnessed a Sagittarius use the term, "last word" as it pertains to themselves.
I have issues..
Planet: Position Aspects Total Rank Percent
Sun: 45.0 ( 4) + 11.1 ( 7) = 56.1 ( 4) / 9.8%
Moon: 25.0 ( 9) + 13.7 ( 5) = 38.7 ( 7) / 6.7%
Mercury: 26.0 ( 8) + 10.7 ( 9) = 36.7 ( 8) / 6.4%
Venus: 67.0 ( 1) + 31.1 ( 2) = 98.0 ( 1) / 17.1%
Mars: 15.0 (10) + 12.8 ( 6) = 27.8 (10) / 4.8%
Jupiter: 55.0 ( 3) + 17.6 ( 3) = 72.6 ( 3) / 12.6%
Saturn: 35.0 ( 6) + 0.3 (10) = 35.3 ( 9) / 6.1%
Uranus: 37.5 ( 5) + 16.3 ( 4) = 53.8 ( 5) / 9.4%
Neptune: 30.0 ( 7) + 11.1 ( 8) = 41.1 ( 6) / 7.1%
Pluto: 63.5 ( 2) + 32.3 ( 1) = 95.8 ( 2) / 16.7%
Chiron: 12.0 (11) + 0.0 (11) = 12.0 (11) / 2.1%
Node: 7.0 (12) + 0.0 (12) = 7.0 (12) / 1.2%
Total: 418.0 + 157.0 = 575.0 / 100.0%
Sign: Power Rank Percent - Element Power Percent
Aries: 15.0 (10) / 2.6% - Fire: 145.7 / 25.3%
Taurus: 80.4 ( 3) / 14.0% - Earth: 112.9 / 19.6%
Gemini: 21.0 ( 8) / 3.7% - Air: 107.8 / 18.7%
Cancer: 10.7 (11) / 1.9% - Water: 208.6 / 36.3%
Leo: 15.4 ( 9) / 2.7%
Virgo: 7.6 (12) / 1.3% - Mode Power Percent
Libra: 41.0 ( 6) / 7.1% - Cardinal: 91.5 / 15.9%
Scorpio: 128.3 ( 1) / 22.3% - Fixed: 270.0 / 47.0%
Sagittarius: 115.3 ( 2) / 20.0% - Mutuable: 213.5 / 37.1%
Capricorn: 24.9 ( 7) / 4.3%
Aquarius: 45.8 ( 5) / 8.0%
Pisces: 69.7 ( 4) / 12.1%
Total: 575.0 / 100.0%
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