you scorps tried online dating

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Now after watching the tailor I am undecided... What I don't like about it is girls will screen you with facebook... Meaning based on pictures or job... or other things they may only then go after you... or if you have a hot body. Although all these things are nice I would want a girl to like me for me.

Where I live is also a small town kinda thing that is really a city. Advantages... I see someone I know almost everywhere I go. Disadvantages you see someone you know almost everywhere you go.

I could see how some girls would use this just to find guys to buy them drinks or basically party girls...

However because in my maturity I really am learning not to care and honestly I am selective I may give it a go... I am far from an adj. duck... and because I do have an image to some point where I live... mostly because of industry and older people... I can't really just have anything I want on my face book... like my body... which is by far not bad... but I doubt the people I do business with would look kindly on seeing me like that.


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Posted by piscesmoon2
Now after watching the tailor I am undecided... What I don't like about it is girls will screen you with facebook... Meaning based on pictures or job... or other things they may only then go after you... or if you have a hot body. Although all these things are nice I would want a girl to like me for me.

Where I live is also a small town kinda thing that is really a city. Advantages... I see someone I know almost everywhere I go. Disadvantages you see someone you know almost everywhere you go.

I could see how some girls would use this just to find guys to buy them drinks or basically party girls...

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Funny, I didn't screen my current boyfriend. He asked me to look at his facebook...the little show off 😛

Makes sense for a girl to do it only if they have never met in person and she wants to make sure he is legit before meeting up with him.
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Posted by KVZZMIR11
Online dating is total bullshit.

FUCK POF/OKC in my short experience this is what I have seen:

-Women claiming "trust"/daddy issues

-Unrealistic demands considering what THEY HAVE to offer which is unequal

-Single mothers

-FAT OBESE manatee women

-Women saying they want nothinf sexual.

Then...what are you doing on a dating site.

Not to mention low amount of responses.

Women tend to be very selective on those and disqualify you immediately.
Not saying men aren't guilty of that, but online dating just seems pointless to put any effort towards it especially considering the lack of quality women in there.



Just a thought, based on my own experience. Women are more selective because they get so many responses they are able to be choosy.
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Tried it many times - no luck as of yet since I am still single.

Most men looking for sex only, some just still boys with their shit so not together and the quality men seem to not really have time for anymore than messaging or at least not willing to make time because they are quality men with jobs, kids, hobbies and lack of willingness to make time. This has happened to me many times - great men but no time. And so now I have a few new friends to message with at least. Lol

Just my experience - maybe it's me!

Question is in today's day and age seems the only way to really meet someone - I live in a small town so meeting through friends etc doesn't really work here.

What other options besides online? Stay single? Hope for a random meeting while out?
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It could work.. or not.

But usually it's a lot of work as if you are working in human resources. You have to ask a lot of questions and most of the time the guy/girl turns out to be going through a tough time etc. It's really really hard to find someone you can be compatible with in the long run.

The difference with real life is, in real life you meet someone at your school or a similar work environment or a concert and you instantly know whether you share similar backgrounds and whether you click or not.

Relationships are hard work in general 🙂