Your opinion on the situation

I haven't posted in a while and just wanted to reconfirm my situation with all of you complicated and hard to read and etc etc etc scorp people🙂 So, i have been seen this scorp guy for a while now. We're getting closer and closer but not officially g/b yet. Also, do you guys believe that a relationship can develop naturally without having "talks" and "agreements and rules" since we're two adult people. I'm not seeing anyone and don't think he's either. We're really opening up and got very compfortable around each other. We go out, have fun, amazing sexual chemistry (verbally agreed on both sides). He lets me know that he misses me, which totally took me by a very pleasant surprise, and he's very affectionate, touchy feely, holding me close at night, and PDA when we're around friends. He tells me all about his work, coworkers, future work plans etc. Unfortunately, we can't see each other everyday and can only manage a few times a week. I threw a bit of a jealousy fit the other day and he was like it's just a friend and wasn't upset about it. I think it made him smile. So, it was kind of a mini fight there🙂
So, just wanted to get your assesment on the situation and how do you forsee it going forward. I know it's not a major drama🙂 thank god but it's not to be reaffirmed.

Sounds good, but I really don't get your question. Did you just want to know if it sounds like he is into you?

We actually have a lot of things in common and similar likes and dislikes. So, far dislikes haven't been a problem. Yes, mine can be a control freak as well and i make fun of him because of that but he never controls me or asks where i'm going/what i'm doing and he doesn't put his nose into my life like a typical scorp. We're communicating via phone or text almost every day.
Yes, i want to know if he's into me or playing one of your scorp games. You guys are master manipulators🙂

How long have you been seeing eachother? Do spend any quality time together? It is easy to keep a phone and text relationship going. I have done it for 2 years with a bull.. LOL!! It can be fun.

Going on 5 months or so. We see each other few times a week. Phone calls or text are usually a way to arrange the timing. We do all the talking when we're together. We both don't really like to talk on the phone. How one defines quality time?

5 months? Sounds like the two of you are doing well together. Does he have a lot of free time? If he is like most scorps (always busy doing something) two jobs, kids extra curricular activities etc. Then it seems he spends some quality time with you if it is a few times a week. Nice. Sounds good. Are you leaving something out? Any exes lurking around?

You guessed it right. He's very busy. Who's exes are reffering to? If his then she still bothers him but he doesn't want to have any contact with her and he told me about it. Mine are out of the picture. I'm sure there is something i'm not aware of on his side since i don't live with him and don't have control over his life 24/7. Just us not really talking about "us" in the future sense or making future plans but just taking it as it goes. I believe in natural developing of things. We haven't met each other's families, we don't really talk about them. He doesn't ask me about much about me but acts like he knows all there is to know.

Atlantic Myst - Thank you for the words of encouragement🙂

Good points! I'm confused in your "talk/not talk" advices here on the boars. I read some threads and some of them say to have a talk and some "don't have a talk". I personally not a big fan of talks.
In any case, does a scorp man would ever bring up the talk or imply or behave a certain way for a girl to know? I know everybody says that scorp are possesive and your business all the time buy mine is not like that. He gives me my freedom.
"are you feeling that he is a bit detached?" sometimes i do but then it goes away. it bothered me when he got sick recently, just a small cold, he didn't call me to let me know about that. Things like that make me feel a bit detached.
"are unsure he is not with anyone else." ideally i want to make sure that he wants to be with me only since i'd like to be with him.

Sounds like the two of you are on the same page.

***We haven't met each other's families, we don't really talk about them. He doesn't ask me about much about me but acts like he knows all there is to know.***

However, he must be a different kind of scorp because the men are nosey as hell and want to know everything about you and your surroundings etc. Very expressive about their feelings, atleast in my experience.

***In any case, does a scorp man would ever bring up the talk or imply or behave a certain way for a girl to know? I know everybody says that scorp are possesive and your business all the time buy mine is not like that. He gives me my freedom. ***

Yes, my friend initiated these talks over and over again. Expressed how he felt about me. I on the other hand was like "lets just have fun" until my feelings got involved.

I don't know what him giving you freedom means for a scorp man. It seems they think the possessiveness, jealousy and having control shows how much they love you (when it clearly doesn't)and makes most - me anyway CRAZY!!!! Not saying that he isn't interested and isn't showing love, but this is strange is he on the cusp of libra maybe?

"possessiveness, jealousy and having control" are signs that people usually display when they know they cannot have control over situation or a person. It's a little immature🙂 I guess mine pretends to be a mature person or hides his above described tendencies really well. Once in a while he has a control thing slip through but usually i avoid it. He's born on the 28th of October. Not sure what his moon sign is.

Well he is definitely a scorp and they all feel the need to control. They say we women do to. I find this true to control things in MY life but I don't bother with issues of others. Their life, let them handle it even if in a relationship. I have learned to compromise... Which isn't always easy. I am a little spoiled and like my way. 🙂

Ooooh, Oct scorps are the best !!!!

I actually called him on being a control freak once and he was denying it and got defensive. So, after that started on being not controlling🙂
Why "Oct scorps are the best !!!!"?

I have been told we are the calmer and less emotional scorps. Who knows we just are. Because I am? LOL!!!

Good to know🙂

Hey, I am just going by what I've been told Roxi. Oh, but I see you agree. Scorps in general are cool peeps. LOL!!! I have never made the observation personally though.