All or nothing Confrontation

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I don't have a problem confronting people, but that's kinda of the problem. I will confront the shit out of shit

Then I have to deal with the other persons feelings and ego about everything I just said to them. And I don't want to deal with it. because there is no real compromise with coming with me telling you why you suck balls, and we can never again go back from both of us knowing how many balls I think you suck.
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Why do you think it’s your place to confront people or tell them what’s ‘wrong’ with them? If they’re getting in your face or trying to hurt you then sure but otherwise why bother?
you don't start no shit, there wont be no shit. understand?
Got it, in that case let free your great vengeance and furious anger.
I don't see it as vengeance or anger. More like intense irritation at someone harshing my mellow.

I agree with Robyn on this one. Someone comes at me while I'm just trying to chill, it's annoying, to say the least.

I generally have two ways of dealing with that.

• you want to know what I think, here it is...I'd prefer to say it once and that's it. But unfortunately, some can keep on going and going after that. Exhausting...

• Blank stare/silence.
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pretty much - if someone comes at me with an attitude, I smile to myself and walk away and if I can't walk, the blank stare and silence works well





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Why do you think it’s your place to confront people or tell them what’s ‘wrong’ with them? If they’re getting in your face or trying to hurt you then sure but otherwise why bother?
you don't start no shit, there wont be no shit. understand?
Got it, in that case let free your great vengeance and furious anger.
I don't see it as vengeance or anger. More like intense irritation at someone harshing my mellow.

I agree with Robyn on this one. Someone comes at me while I'm just trying to chill, it's annoying, to say the least.

I generally have two ways of dealing with that.

• you want to know what I think, here it is...I'd prefer to say it once and that's it. But unfortunately, some can keep on going and going after that. Exhausting...

• Blank stare/silence.
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I fully agree.
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I don't have a problem confronting people, but that's kinda of the problem. I will confront the shit out of shit

Then I have to deal with the other persons feelings and ego about everything I just said to them. And I don't want to deal with it. because there is no real compromise with coming with me telling you why you suck balls, and we can never again go back from both of us knowing how many balls I think you suck.


What do you expect? You insult people.
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Lol, my new anthem? Maybeh...
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Yes, let's speak in emoji because "words are very unnecessary".
I forgot that this thread reminded me of this, which more or less is exactly what you said about saying your piece and being done with it.


See that? Intelligent negotiation, lol. Never thought of it that way.

In his context it makes sense. You allow too many changes because someone said this or that and you have 'chaos'. He's pretty much saying that once you've agreed on something that's what you stick to.

Lol @ "Not with me". Nope, not happening. End of discussion. Point barre.


Yep, that's where I was screwing up for a long time (on the intelligent negotiation part - on the no compromise part I pretty much have stubborness nailed since I was a kid).

"Get your point out quickly so they can make their point and move on"

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You're so hot when you say no.
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Lol whatttt??! What exactly is the beef?

Is a Taurus complaining they have beef because people are shitty and they hate being forced to have to lay the smack down?

Basically a lazy Taurus is getting mad they have to do lip service.



Robyn you don’t even go outside to play! You ain’t beefing with no one but your cats 🐱😂🙌🏼
Cat's Dead. Who won that? huh? YEAH!