@Cyph_Charmer
8 Years
Failed @ being a Scorpio. Help me read this Taurus?
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damn its quiet over here too, qq
This is all I can see but it reveals a lot.
Ill keep it short. We were dating, not in a relationship, but saw one another almost everyday over the course of 4 months. It was my choice, a lot of personal hardship not wanting to complicate mine or anyone elses life by being emotionally unavailable
You’ve been dating a man, seeing him almost everyday, for the last four months.
You’re already IN a relationship with him. What makes this ‘not a relationship’?
You said you’re not in a relationship through your own choice because you’re not emotionally available.
Why the fuck have you spent the last four months dating a man you do not want a relationship when you already know you’re not emotionally available?
I don’t know what the rest of your post says but now you want us here to help you read a guy you don’t think you’re in a relationship with who you’re not available for anyway.
Very peculiar Scorpio.
Posted by HankJWimbleton
"The user who posted this message has hidden it."There's your problem.
That was poetic- but halp meee, it's visible now haha
See previous post and also this one in addition now you’ve revealed the post again.
I think he saw a side to you that made him step back and re-evaluate things. Taurus are generally not stupid people and neither do they take things lightly. It’s a fixed sign after all.
You were dating for four months and saw each other almost everyday. This is a HUGE chunk of time and energy to have spent with someone who you do not consider a boyfriend and who you don’t want to have a relationship with. He may feel you did not value this or him and that you are too volatile or insecure for him - hence the backing off situation. You didn’t seem to care about him when you were having your week long paddy and if this is how you deal with things then he might be giving himself some thinking time. Plus if you both have things going on it doesn’t make for good timing to be involved with each other. He clearly still has an interest in his ex partner otherwise he wouldn’t have ‘grazed’ on her.
What changes have you made in your life to be a more stable, secure person who is now emotionally available for a relationship?
You don’t want to wait forever? How long had it been since you communicating again?
And if you screwed up - you’ll have to wait!
If you don’t want to wait - just end it.
No one can speed up the process for you.
It would be too easy to say wait for 23 days and let go. It doesn’t work like that.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Good answers above. It’s a decent sign that he’s still responding to you which means he hasn’t written you off entirely. If you want him back you’ve got to show him you want him and be consistent. I would definitely say your actions would have hurt him.
This.
Posted by AgentP911
See previous post and also this one in addition now you’ve revealed the post again.I think he saw a side to you that made him step back and re-evaluate things. Taurus are generally not stupid people and neither do they take things lightly. It’s a fixed sign after all.
You were dating for four months and saw each other almost everyday. This is a HUGE chunk of time and energy to have spent with someone who you do not consider a boyfriend and who you don’t want to have a relationship with. He may feel you did not value this or him and that you are too volatile or insecure for him - hence the backing off situation. You didn’t seem to care about him when you were having your week long paddy and if this is how you deal with things then he might be giving himself some thinking time. Plus if you both have things going on it doesn’t make for good timing to be involved with each other. He clearly still has an interest in his ex partner otherwise he wouldn’t have ‘grazed’ on her.
What changes have you made in your life to be a more stable, secure person who is now emotionally available for a relationship?
There were housing and familial health concerns but all except the latter has changed, obviously- but this is something I've come to the conclusion it causes no harm to offer supper and be supported. The former made it hard in general for obvious reasons. Otherwise, I get you, but the hesitation for a title just came from hesitation of past experiences. Wanted to not rush and I thought being clear would make everyone feel better not second guess their worth but we all learn some how I suppose
Posted by Gemitati
You don’t want to wait forever? How long had it been since you communicating again?And if you screwed up - you’ll have to wait!
If you don’t want to wait - just end it.
No one can speed up the process for you.
It would be too easy to say wait for 23 days and let go. It doesn’t work like that.
Its been something over a month. I've kinda lost hope only because I thought the Taurus were hot, so the ice I'm equating with disinterest now
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Wow, that definitely was not short, haha!