anyone looking for taurus women?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by taurusgoddess on Friday, May 6, 2005 and has 4 replies.

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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

My luck is no good with the ones i want, yet I've been told many times that I am smart, beautiful & fun. Someone told me my problem is maybe that I am too independant. Some guys want to feel like I NEED them. Not sure if I can pull off the pathetic role. Is anyone just looking for ME?!!! 😉

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@jollyjas
21 Years

I am sure there are lots of men that would want an independant woman like you.
being in need of someone can take on different forms, and is not sounding pathetic at all.
you may 'need' someone to be there with you for the long haul

I'm sure you will find your special man
Aquarius female.. special man msning me now

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@seizeTheDay
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Hello, Independence is a tool not a liability, and many people appreciate a mate with independence. As for "need", well, the fact that you wrote this post shows that you do have a "need" someone in your life, no? Is it really pathetic to need companionship?

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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

I didn't mean this as a dating ad. Just wanted opinions on the independance thing i guess. I am happy - single or with someone, as i have close friends & family. But of course people that are single & independant must pause and reflect on who they are. It never hurts to grow. Or is that pathetic?

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@seizeTheDay
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Ok, could have been the wording of your post. But in response-- I wasn't looking at your post as a dating ad- or else I would said, "I like independent chicks, are you free sat night?"

Anyway..

Pulling from your original post:
My luck is no good with the ones i want.....Someone told me my problem is maybe that I am too independent.
I don't agree that independence is a "problem"-- rather, it's a good thing. Dating and finding the right person is just a daunting,difficult task. Any attribute that we consider one of our "positive" traits, shouldn't be targeted as reason for not finding a companion.

...But of course people that are single & independent must pause and reflect on who they are. It never hurts to grow. Or is that pathetic?
No, it's not pathetic.. not in my mind- but what matters is what's in yours? But if the goal is to reflect.. grow.. why question your positive traits? Why question in repect to what other people want-- if this is your growth? (Some guys want to feel like I NEED them) —

Granted- your personal reflection may have nothing to do with being single or not--
but this is the impression you have left.