Aquarius Boy

There is this boy at work. He is 4 years younger than me & is a junior colleague who has been with the company since the beginning of this year. I haven't particularly paid much attention to him but lately I am feeling stronger with time that he has set his eyes on me. He has not done any confession. However, he has done the small things that is slowly & surely touching my heart.

I ran his birthday & found out he has a conjunction of his Mars in Taurus to my Sun in Taurus, which is perhaps the reason I am falling for his pursuit style . He is Aquarius Sun.

I feel pretty awkward, mostly embarrassed about this... He is younger than me, I would prefer someone older or at least about the same age & more "established" or "stable". But he is slowly endearing himself towards me. I know I am in no hurry to make any decision, but I feel a dilemma in whether to "dance" along to his pursuit but I am afraid of stringing him along only to realise maybe I am not that into him & hurt him in the future, hence I feel like I either choose him now or reject him now... I have no problem in "showing" rejection towards pursuers... I am just not sure what to do with this boy... :/

I am not that young in case anybody is wondering, I am 31 years old xD

Sure why not what you have to lose?

I am not attracted to him until lately when I'm feeling rather touched at the little things he's doing. I am not sure if I can give to him as much as he is giving to me. I guess I am afraid of a relationship that isn't balanced. I don't want to be unfair to him & end up hurting both of us. I like how he is making me feel but otherwise he isn't really the type of man I would fall for.

I'm an Aqua lady who's been dating a Taurus guy for a few years. We have our ups and downs, but Taurus and Aqua both have a strong intellect and are loyal, independent, logical, loving, and generally straightforward. The issues usually are that Aqua is a little too weird/inconsistent for Taurus (or perhaps that Taurus is a little too boring for Aqua), and both signs are really stubborn if you disagree about something. I say give it a shot, though!

Understand that as aquarius we can be very emotionally and physically detached, especially the guys. There might be a lot of miscommunication on both of your parts but if you want it then go for it. Since he's aqua, being direct and verbal are very high priorities on his list.

Best of luck!

I'm separating with Aqua right now. We've been together 11 years and I'm at your age. He is however 10 years older than me. We have two kids. I truly hate him. I hate everything about him. I hated my life with him.

I had and Aqua boyfriend before, 20 years older than me (don't judge me 🙂. Same story.

There is some good points I have to say. Aquas are okay with money, which is important for Taurus. They are naturally smart and may be this is all good I can say from my point of experience.

I don't want to talk about the bad things... I just hope this was all my experience and astrology is no sense.

My Aquas both felt in love with me from the first moment they've seen me. I was just going with the flow.

So, I cannot tell you the best way to deal with them at the beginning. May be you should ask in the Aqua's forum?

Good luck!!! I need you will need a lot! Hope I'm not right!