Aries lady/Taurus man, confused with relationship

I??ve been dating a Taurus man for 6 mos. He found me on a dating site and we had sx the first time we met, and then he wanted to see me again, and on the third night he wanted to stay overnight, and I said yes. By the way, he just had a separation from his wife. In his state, they have to wait 1 year before they can get a divorce. Even though we were seeing each other, we both were seeing other people. June came and I knew I was in love with him. The only time we said we loved each other would be in bed cuddling. He would take me out a good bit, until he moved into his own home. Then I would go down and see him there. I would cook for him and clean up after him, which he liked. I would always look nice, smell nice and dress sexy when I was with him and he liked that. He would call me to come down when he was emotional upset. He was drunk one night and said he wanted to retire in a year or two and take me to Panama to live. He took me to his step-brothers house, which he takes other women there as well, but not to see his friends, because he doesn't won't his wife to know. I was staying at his house for 2 or 3 days at a time and then I would go home. He would see me more than any other woman. I knew he felt something strong for me and I believe it scared him. Recently he said he loves me but not in love with me. Now he doesn't want to see me as much, he purposely left a headband behind the bed, so I would see it. Left a bra in the back of the closet but I saw the strap. Was very hurt and emailed him and told him I was hurt and was saying goodbye and that I couldn't take this anymore. And that it hurts so much to say goodbye. Next day he txt me to call him, since I didn't call him right away he txt me saying, —it hurts me too.?? He still wants to see me but not as much. He says he is confused and doesn't want to be committed to anyone and that he may never want to marry again. He is a womanizer, drinks way too much, but he is a great lover which I crave. We will see each other but not as much. I'm so confused with his actions, I don't know what he thinks of me. Does he love me or is he a player and using me—

He wasn't faithful, had many women when married and she found out...she is the one who wanted the separation, and yes they have 2 older boys.

I'm an Aries engaged to a Taurus man. Any guy going through a divorce is bad news. You are there to comfort him, have sex & leave. It's one-sided.

Only date clear, free & single men. And stop the long distance too. And don't have sex the first time you see a pretty face. And...uh, getting tired now.

Regardless of his sign I see just about NO respect for you here. He can't show you respect but you can show yourself respect and tell him to take a hike.

Thanks for the intelligent input.

Hi, back again...I went and saw him and he had a red rose and a box of choc. that he gave me and said he was sorry. I know he was mad at me for going on a cruise with my ex-husband but I wasn't going to lose the money and it was planned a long time ago and my Taurus guy knew that. When he gets mad he always hurts me emotionally, but he is always calm never yells at me. I feel if he is having sx with women then I can with other men also. This makes him really mad,he wants me for himself only. He makes statements recently like...You want me to marry you don't you, and he is going to retire soon and wants me to go with him to Panama Panama to be together. He knows I won't go unless we are married. The Taurus man is the most confusing man out there. I even married a Taurus man and we were together for 28 yrs. I never was in love with him but I stuck it out because that was the way I was taught to do until he had the second affair, now I am friends with him but my ex wants me to marry him again. Now that my lover is over being mad, is he worth pursuing or is he just saying things to keep me around. I would love to go to Panama and try to make a go of it....