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WateryLeeb
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How do you Taurus feel about Libras? Or any other Cardinal sign? (Aries, Cancer, Capricorn)
(not a Taurus) Im a Libra and i have something to say. Here's the sign that makes me ask why Libras are stereotyped to be indecisive. Lol. Taurus, men and women, are worse 😛 they can't even make a decision, or takes a long time to pick ANYTHING. Libra may be stereotyped as indecisive, but im the one who makes the decisions when Im with these people.

^not to be taken negatively coz i get along famously with men and women of this sign
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How do you Taurus feel about Libras? Or any other Cardinal sign? (Aries, Cancer, Capricorn)
(not a Taurus) Im a Libra and i have something to say. Here's the sign that makes me ask why Libras are stereotyped to be indecisive. Lol. Taurus, men and women, are worse 😛 they can't even make a decision, or takes a long time to pick ANYTHING. Libra may be stereotyped as indecisive, but im the one who makes the decisions when Im with these people.

^not to be taken negatively coz i get along famously with men and women of this sign
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I am a libra as well, I get along with Taurus but I don't come across enough to tell as well. I have two Taurus family members one male one female one April one may, I had a little puppy love for one in the 8th grade, and that was it until just a few weeks ago and it was like instant fireworks in his eyes when we met, he turned on the charm and flirting but also he was drunk as fuck. Last week we were hanging out he asked me what I wanted to eat I said I'm the wrong person to ask to which he replied I'm not the person you want to do this with, because fucking around with me you won't eat till 8pm (it was 2pm) lmao ?
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WateryLeeb
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LOL see— you have to make the decisions with these people or you'd die waiting haha!

One guy (friend from work) asked me if im a control freak because I was really annoyed by his catatonic ways - dont get me wrong, he is a smart guy, senior software engineer... but there is a certain slowness that is too painful even for a laid-back Libra. Be careful you'd find yourself doing all the planning and decision-making, and then you'll have to poke and prod them to do things.

I haven't been attracted to them romantically though so sorry cant help you on that
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LOL see— you have to make the decisions with these people or you'd die waiting haha!

One guy (friend from work) asked me if im a control freak because I was really annoyed by his catatonic ways - dont get me wrong, he is a smart guy, senior software engineer... but there is a certain slowness that is too painful even for a laid-back Libra. Be careful you'd find yourself doing all the planning and decision-making, and then you'll have to poke and prod them to do things.

I haven't been attracted to them romantically though so sorry cant help you on that
He does seem to have a hard time being made to do work lol but he does it anyway attitude and all. I'm fine really, as long as he shoots forward with me, I can deal with everything else. He is very blunt to the point of being called a dick head,which I found hilarious! I laugh because I'm queen of petty! Petty La'bell! And libras are known to hurt people's feelings in the sweetest most fucked up ways. So I appreciate the bluntness because from that point on if I choose to continue seeing him or not, the choice is mine so I respect someone who doesn't take that choice away. I was in a relationship like that for about 8 years with a Virgo! I wanted to scream! I had to suggest something, if he liked it, I did the research, I booked both of our flight/hotel room, if we drove there I was behind the wheel round trip! But I would make him get a rental and we would split the gas and tolls if there were any
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LOL see— you have to make the decisions with these people or you'd die waiting haha!

One guy (friend from work) asked me if im a control freak because I was really annoyed by his catatonic ways - dont get me wrong, he is a smart guy, senior software engineer... but there is a certain slowness that is too painful even for a laid-back Libra. Be careful you'd find yourself doing all the planning and decision-making, and then you'll have to poke and prod them to do things.

I haven't been attracted to them romantically though so sorry cant help you on that
You are correct when you say that you can't rely on typical astrology as my Taurus is nothing like you describe. He knows exactly where we are going to eat, what we are going to do etc. I am easy going enough to do these things as he is so adventurous that I don't have to worry about us being bored or indecision.

It also depends on placements, culture etc he has a sag moon, Neptune and North node and is half Portuguese and half Spanish. So he is a force of nature. I my 5th house is sag and I also have 4 placements in the 9th house including sun and mars so we are like two sags having fun.. I rarely feeling the Taurus "slow" indecisive energy in either of us...

And no I don't have time or patience for libras... Too indecisive and sit on fences... Too busy being "people pleasers".

I have a good buddy who is an Aries but they just like the challenge of the chase without the reward.

I love caps 😄
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I thought you were a guy... based on previous posts and name lol
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I'm an Aqua - fixed sign and I ALWAYS ALWAYS attract Cardinal signs.

I have like 6 caps around me almost all the time. between ex, ex, current, mentor, daughter, roommate. Sometimes I wanna hide away from all of them.

which I'm trying to now (Weekend getaway to miami) , but current Cap is following. lol

My best friend is Cancer ( I'm going to Miami with her, so that makes 2 cardinals I can't get away from)

I have an Aries friend who seems to be into me, he's very straight forward to say that he wants me. (Guess what... he's going to Miami too)

it wasn't planned for them to go ?



I just wanted some aqua alone time ?



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I'm an Aqua - fixed sign and I ALWAYS ALWAYS attract Cardinal signs.

I have like 6 caps around me almost all the time. between ex, ex, current, mentor, daughter, roommate. Sometimes I wanna hide away from all of them.

which I'm trying to now (Weekend getaway to miami) , but current Cap is following. lol

My best friend is Cancer ( I'm going to Miami with her, so that makes 2 cardinals I can't get away from)

I have an Aries friend who seems to be into me, he's very straight forward to say that he wants me. (Guess what... he's going to Miami too)

it wasn't planned for them to go ?



I just wanted some aqua alone time ?




U really like to hang on to your "ex'S" don't you. Y don't u just get rid of them..

Men who have an interest in you cant be classed as "friends".. blimey!!! I thought Taurus was bad at keeping a harem. Do u have leo moon - if so they would be classed as your "followers" not friends...

Taurus is better of as platonic friends. These two will not go long term....
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I don't have a bad relationship with my ex, we were together for 12 yrs and have 1 kid but raised 2 kids together, so yeah. He's gonna be around the rest of my life.

My first bf was my first love for 4 yrs and we have 1 daughter together.

So I can't really get rid of them. they are good people too.

This Aries guy is something else... I've known him since high school (12 yrs) as soon as he knew I was single he started telling me things, like " I would give you everything, no one will treat you like I would, like a princess, Id make love to you and pour chocolate over you and lick you from head to toe"

I've always treated him as a friend. He introduces me to my current Cap 6 months ago.

Besides that, he does tell me Cap is a nice guy for me.

Taurus...yeah!!!!! we are too stubborn but we both know we are so we push each other's buttons and just laugh at the end bc we know we won't change our minds. We talk about everything and anything. We know each other too well.

My mom is an Aqua, my dad is a Taurus they never fought around the house or yelled at each other, they were very passive around the home, I can't complain. My childhood was good.

They aren't together anymore because my mom moved to the us. dad didn't like it here so he stayed back home. He's with another aqua now. lol







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I'm a Libra, my bf is Aries and I get along well with Caps-I like being able to pull them out of their shell. Its rewarding when they open up to you and trust you. I find Aries the complete opp, mine anyway. He was an open book from the day we met. I have a Cap moon so I was alot slower at coming around and I told him this. I have a tendency to be guarded.
Omg I don't see how other libras do it! lol I dated one Aries back in high school because he just wouldn't leave me alone lol ever since then it's like I know they are an Aries before I even ask smh. It's like upon meeting them I just don't like them for some reason. I've had two Aries chase me since high school one just stopped this past winter because when he told me he has liked me for so long but I was always in a relationship, and I told him I didn't see him like that he was way too aggressive for my cancer mars way too cocky for both my libra sun and Virgo moon but his ambition and drive is what made me like him as a friend but once I told him I wasn't interested he threw a tantrum like a child and pouted in the coner and then unfollowed me on IG. The other Aries just will not give up like at all lmao maybe one day....another Aries would blow my phone up after I was very hesitant to give him my number in the first place cause I knew he was going to do that even though he promised not to do it, he did it. He got super annoying so I just stopped replying to his texts and DMs and then he blocked me on IG. I know you didn't ask for all of that lol but I'm glad you have an Aries you get along with!
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I'm a Libra, my bf is Aries and I get along well with Caps-I like being able to pull them out of their shell. Its rewarding when they open up to you and trust you. I find Aries the complete opp, mine anyway. He was an open book from the day we met. I have a Cap moon so I was alot slower at coming around and I told him this. I have a tendency to be guarded.
Omg I don't see how other libras do it! lol I dated one Aries back in high school because he just wouldn't leave me alone lol ever since then it's like I know they are an Aries before I even ask smh. It's like upon meeting them I just don't like them for some reason. I've had two Aries chase me since high school one just stopped this past winter because when he told me he has liked me for so long but I was always in a relationship, and I told him I didn't see him like that he was way too aggressive for my cancer mars way too cocky for both my libra sun and Virgo moon but his ambition and drive is what made me like him as a friend but once I told him I wasn't interested he threw a tantrum like a child and pouted in the coner and then unfollowed me on IG. The other Aries just will not give up like at all lmao maybe one day....another Aries would blow my phone up after I was very hesitant to give him my number in the first place cause I knew he was going to do that even though he promised not to do it, he did it. He got super annoying so I just stopped replying to his texts and DMs and then he blocked me on IG. I know you didn't ask for all of that lol but I'm glad you have an Aries you get along with!
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Damn! I hate guys like this no matter what the sign lol! My Aries was kind of aloof, he kept me guessing. He was like a challenge for me and I liked it. The start was that typical dating game back and forthness that I totally hated, now the dust has settled its wonderful. I remember actually wondering also if he was ever going to tell me he loved me...that has never happened before lol. It was the first time I was unsure if I was the one with the feelings and him not. Now he feels "safe" with me its amazing and the communication is on point.
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had a Libra female friend for 40 years - she was flakey and a hot mess but we got along ... until the last 5 years it went downhill - since then I've met 2 Libra men who are alright - the first being the worst in terms of knowing what he wants now in life ... the second one I am still seeing and plan to continue

there's good and bad in all signs of life - I find it curious to try to get to know someone like the second Libra and see how his behaviors are similar and different than the first - it's not a comparison but an observation ... they have different placements so it is different
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LOL see— you have to make the decisions with these people or you'd die waiting haha!

One guy (friend from work) asked me if im a control freak because I was really annoyed by his catatonic ways - dont get me wrong, he is a smart guy, senior software engineer... but there is a certain slowness that is too painful even for a laid-back Libra. Be careful you'd find yourself doing all the planning and decision-making, and then you'll have to poke and prod them to do things.

I haven't been attracted to them romantically though so sorry cant help you on that
You are correct when you say that you can't rely on typical astrology as my Taurus is nothing like you describe. He knows exactly where we are going to eat, what we are going to do etc. I am easy going enough to do these things as he is so adventurous that I don't have to worry about us being bored or indecision.

It also depends on placements, culture etc he has a sag moon, Neptune and North node and is half Portuguese and half Spanish. So he is a force of nature. I my 5th house is sag and I also have 4 placements in the 9th house including sun and mars so we are like two sags having fun.. I rarely feeling the Taurus "slow" indecisive energy in either of us...

And no I don't have time or patience for libras... Too indecisive and sit on fences... Too busy being "people pleasers".

I have a good buddy who is an Aries but they just like the challenge of the chase without the reward.

I love caps 😄
I thought you were a guy... based on previous posts and name lol
I could be gay?
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Well, I thought that too, but didnt want to say it bc you know... the internet, and people's views, etc. but I love caps too... I'm wondering, I've never met a gay cap. ?

They are usually very traditional and laidback, would they come out of the closet?? haven't even seen one on dxp.
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I'm an Aqua - fixed sign and I ALWAYS ALWAYS attract Cardinal signs.

I have like 6 caps around me almost all the time. between ex, ex, current, mentor, daughter, roommate. Sometimes I wanna hide away from all of them.

which I'm trying to now (Weekend getaway to miami) , but current Cap is following. lol

My best friend is Cancer ( I'm going to Miami with her, so that makes 2 cardinals I can't get away from)

I have an Aries friend who seems to be into me, he's very straight forward to say that he wants me. (Guess what... he's going to Miami too)

it wasn't planned for them to go ?



I just wanted some aqua alone time ?




U really like to hang on to your "ex'S" don't you. Y don't u just get rid of them..

Men who have an interest in you cant be classed as "friends".. blimey!!! I thought Taurus was bad at keeping a harem. Do u have leo moon - if so they would be classed as your "followers" not friends...

Taurus is better of as platonic friends. These two will not go long term....

Why not be friends with exes?


Too much baggage for me...

The only baggage I want to carry is my luggage to the airport...

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and that's on wheels LOL !
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I'm an Aqua - fixed sign and I ALWAYS ALWAYS attract Cardinal signs.

I have like 6 caps around me almost all the time. between ex, ex, current, mentor, daughter, roommate. Sometimes I wanna hide away from all of them.

which I'm trying to now (Weekend getaway to miami) , but current Cap is following. lol

My best friend is Cancer ( I'm going to Miami with her, so that makes 2 cardinals I can't get away from)

I have an Aries friend who seems to be into me, he's very straight forward to say that he wants me. (Guess what... he's going to Miami too)

it wasn't planned for them to go ?



I just wanted some aqua alone time ?




U really like to hang on to your "ex'S" don't you. Y don't u just get rid of them..

Men who have an interest in you cant be classed as "friends".. blimey!!! I thought Taurus was bad at keeping a harem. Do u have leo moon - if so they would be classed as your "followers" not friends...

Taurus is better of as platonic friends. These two will not go long term....

Why not be friends with exes?


Too much baggage for me...

The only baggage I want to carry is my luggage to the airport...

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I have a Gemini moon. No leo in me.

I read somewhere that I get the "followers" because of my Venus Pisces and Pluto Scorp.

I have "friends" from years and years ago that still text me to meet up, but I'm a "never look back, always forward" kind of person and I move on quick.

With my ex it was another story, we tried to work it out as family, husband and wife but he wanted to keep me in a cage, not even access to go to college HAHA!

The things guys would do!
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I'm an Aqua - fixed sign and I ALWAYS ALWAYS attract Cardinal signs.

I have like 6 caps around me almost all the time. between ex, ex, current, mentor, daughter, roommate. Sometimes I wanna hide away from all of them.

which I'm trying to now (Weekend getaway to miami) , but current Cap is following. lol

My best friend is Cancer ( I'm going to Miami with her, so that makes 2 cardinals I can't get away from)

I have an Aries friend who seems to be into me, he's very straight forward to say that he wants me. (Guess what... he's going to Miami too)

it wasn't planned for them to go ?



I just wanted some aqua alone time ?




U really like to hang on to your "ex'S" don't you. Y don't u just get rid of them..

Men who have an interest in you cant be classed as "friends".. blimey!!! I thought Taurus was bad at keeping a harem. Do u have leo moon - if so they would be classed as your "followers" not friends...

Taurus is better of as platonic friends. These two will not go long term....

Why not be friends with exes?


Too much baggage for me...

The only baggage I want to carry is my luggage to the airport...


and that's on wheels LOL !


Yes! or better still, get my bull to carry them and he would without hesitation. He even carried my shopping baskets when I went food shopping, packed the goods for me and then paid for it all !!! 😉 You cant beat a good Taurus! lol lol
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I know - memories for me ... my Pisces ex was like that - too bad I couldn't have kept the good parts and just trashed the bad ...

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I'm a Libra, my bf is Aries and I get along well with Caps-I like being able to pull them out of their shell. Its rewarding when they open up to you and trust you. I find Aries the complete opp, mine anyway. He was an open book from the day we met. I have a Cap moon so I was alot slower at coming around and I told him this. I have a tendency to be guarded.
Omg I don't see how other libras do it! lol I dated one Aries back in high school because he just wouldn't leave me alone lol ever since then it's like I know they are an Aries before I even ask smh. It's like upon meeting them I just don't like them for some reason. I've had two Aries chase me since high school one just stopped this past winter because when he told me he has liked me for so long but I was always in a relationship, and I told him I didn't see him like that he was way too aggressive for my cancer mars way too cocky for both my libra sun and Virgo moon but his ambition and drive is what made me like him as a friend but once I told him I wasn't interested he threw a tantrum like a child and pouted in the coner and then unfollowed me on IG. The other Aries just will not give up like at all lmao maybe one day....another Aries would blow my phone up after I was very hesitant to give him my number in the first place cause I knew he was going to do that even though he promised not to do it, he did it. He got super annoying so I just stopped replying to his texts and DMs and then he blocked me on IG. I know you didn't ask for all of that lol but I'm glad you have an Aries you get along with!
Damn! I hate guys like this no matter what the sign lol! My Aries was kind of aloof, he kept me guessing. He was like a challenge for me and I liked it. The start was that typical dating game back and forthness that I totally hated, now the dust has settled its wonderful. I remember actually wondering also if he was ever going to tell me he loved me...that has never happened before lol. It was the first time I was unsure if I was the one with the feelings and him not. Now he feels "safe" with me its amazing and the communication is on point.
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Yea I had an Sagittarius recently that blew my phone up for no reason after he saw what I drove, where I lived, and assumed I was just balling, and i just know how to live and be responsible anyway, he got an attitude cause I stopped answering his calls he would try to FaceTime me and I wouldn't answer and then he would call me back like 2-3 hours later to talk about not a damn thing, one time he left me a message on my voice mail talking about I don't want to be bothersome and I thought to myself who the fuck leaves voice mails in 2017? If you're not my doctor or a job why are you leaving me a voice mail? Lmao but he ended up cutting himself off in the end. But this Taurus has me like that, he keeps me guessing, he is aloof and independent but most importantly straight forward, unlike the Cap I was previously dealing with. He tells me how he is and how he acts and I respect that because from that point on I can choose whether I want to deal with him or not anymore, the choice is mine.

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Love Caps male and female. I'm attracted to fixed signs but don't find the others relationship material. They're weird lol.
Haha how weird?

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Cancers are just....I can't even describe it. We can make small talk and they'll rave like we had the world's most touching conversation.

Aries are all talk no action. Idk I just don't get a huge click with them

Libras...beautiful soft spoken men....umm great eye candy, that's about it. Libra women are amazing but Im not into women like that and they seem to err on the conservative side to me. I'm definitely liberal.

Capricorns are weird too, but it's an endearing emotional ill placed loyalty never ending tragedy but amazing sense of humor weirdness. And they take such care of themselves aesthetically and with dressing. I guess in a way they're truly deep conversationalist, active, attractive and middle of the road folks.
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had a Libra female friend for 40 years - she was flakey and a hot mess but we got along ... until the last 5 years it went downhill - since then I've met 2 Libra men who are alright - the first being the worst in terms of knowing what he wants now in life ... the second one I am still seeing and plan to continue

there's good and bad in all signs of life - I find it curious to try to get to know someone like the second Libra and see how his behaviors are similar and different than the first - it's not a comparison but an observation ... they have different placements so it is different
I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.
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had a Libra female friend for 40 years - she was flakey and a hot mess but we got along ... until the last 5 years it went downhill - since then I've met 2 Libra men who are alright - the first being the worst in terms of knowing what he wants now in life ... the second one I am still seeing and plan to continue

there's good and bad in all signs of life - I find it curious to try to get to know someone like the second Libra and see how his behaviors are similar and different than the first - it's not a comparison but an observation ... they have different placements so it is different
I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.
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By the way @tcta , what were your friend's other placements besides Libra sun? You talk about losing that friendship quite a bit. Just curious.
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had a Libra female friend for 40 years - she was flakey and a hot mess but we got along ... until the last 5 years it went downhill - since then I've met 2 Libra men who are alright - the first being the worst in terms of knowing what he wants now in life ... the second one I am still seeing and plan to continue

there's good and bad in all signs of life - I find it curious to try to get to know someone like the second Libra and see how his behaviors are similar and different than the first - it's not a comparison but an observation ... they have different placements so it is different
I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.
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I'm a Taurus Sun, Aries Venus

What are we generally like?

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had a Libra female friend for 40 years - she was flakey and a hot mess but we got along ... until the last 5 years it went downhill - since then I've met 2 Libra men who are alright - the first being the worst in terms of knowing what he wants now in life ... the second one I am still seeing and plan to continue

there's good and bad in all signs of life - I find it curious to try to get to know someone like the second Libra and see how his behaviors are similar and different than the first - it's not a comparison but an observation ... they have different placements so it is different
I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.
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lol I'm a Taurus Sun/Aries Venus lol - yes, I also attract married Gemini men as well and Pisces men have been very prevalent in my life - ended up marrying one ... it was freaky for me to lose the Libra girl friend of 40 years and then start meeting Libra males. I don't know that I've ever known Libra males but I may have not been paying attention. I think there is something to that ...
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had a Libra female friend for 40 years - she was flakey and a hot mess but we got along ... until the last 5 years it went downhill - since then I've met 2 Libra men who are alright - the first being the worst in terms of knowing what he wants now in life ... the second one I am still seeing and plan to continue

there's good and bad in all signs of life - I find it curious to try to get to know someone like the second Libra and see how his behaviors are similar and different than the first - it's not a comparison but an observation ... they have different placements so it is different
I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.
lol I'm a Taurus Sun/Aries Venus lol - yes, I also attract married Gemini men as well and Pisces men have been very prevalent in my life - ended up marrying one ... it was freaky for me to lose the Libra girl friend of 40 years and then start meeting Libra males. I don't know that I've ever known Libra males but I may have not been paying attention. I think there is something to that ...
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Yeah it is weird. Sorry about your friendship. I have a close Taurus/Scorp moon/Aries Venus female friend. She tends to lean on me quite a bit since at the moment she has a lot going on in life unfortunately. I do enjoy her company though. She's a great friend.

Hopefully it works out with your Libra! Good luck!
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had a Libra female friend for 40 years - she was flakey and a hot mess but we got along ... until the last 5 years it went downhill - since then I've met 2 Libra men who are alright - the first being the worst in terms of knowing what he wants now in life ... the second one I am still seeing and plan to continue

there's good and bad in all signs of life - I find it curious to try to get to know someone like the second Libra and see how his behaviors are similar and different than the first - it's not a comparison but an observation ... they have different placements so it is different
I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.
I'm a Taurus Sun, Aries Venus

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Not as patient as other Taurus I know. Although very helpful. In relationships, they move faster than people describe other Taurus as. They know what they want and go after it...especially if the person they want is a challenge. Then it's really on. Not sure if you are, but they also have a temper. My Taurus sun/Taurus Venus cousin never gets mad. The Taurus sun/Aries Venus are more fiery, don't step on their toes. Not always in a bad way. They are very protective of those they love and aren't afraid to get into it with anyone harming someone they love. Also, not afraid to protect themselves. They get bored easily, not as "stable" in that they are always moving or when boredom sets in...look out. However, still stubborn and stuck in some ways. Lol

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I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.



lol I'm a Taurus Sun/Aries Venus lol - yes, I also attract married Gemini men as well and Pisces men have been very prevalent in my life - ended up marrying one ... it was freaky for me to lose the Libra girl friend of 40 years and then start meeting Libra males. I don't know that I've ever known Libra males but I may have not been paying attention. I think there is something to that ...



Yeah it is weird. Sorry about your friendship. I have a close Taurus/Scorp moon/Aries Venus female friend. She tends to lean on me quite a bit since at the moment she has a lot going on in life unfortunately. I do enjoy her company though. She's a great friend.

Hopefully it works out with your Libra! Good luck!



thanks, I hope so too - he's a very sweet man ... funny, it was my Libra friend who always leaned on me cause it was all about her stress and drama always ... funny how things are turned around with different people
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I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.



lol I'm a Taurus Sun/Aries Venus lol - yes, I also attract married Gemini men as well and Pisces men have been very prevalent in my life - ended up marrying one ... it was freaky for me to lose the Libra girl friend of 40 years and then start meeting Libra males. I don't know that I've ever known Libra males but I may have not been paying attention. I think there is something to that ...



Yeah it is weird. Sorry about your friendship. I have a close Taurus/Scorp moon/Aries Venus female friend. She tends to lean on me quite a bit since at the moment she has a lot going on in life unfortunately. I do enjoy her company though. She's a great friend.

Hopefully it works out with your Libra! Good luck!



thanks, I hope so too - he's a very sweet man ... funny, it was my Libra friend who always leaned on me cause it was all about her stress and drama always ... funny how things are turned around with different people



Yeah.. can't say it's a sign thing. I'm a problem-solver, not the type to dump any drama or stress on anyone I know. Plus, really don't like drama. When life is good, I enjoy. When it's not, I pick myself up and get it together. She has a lot going on though, I don't blame her for wanting to vent. Just being there helps when people are going through a lot. She hasn't hurt me in anyway so...
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Yeah.. can't say it's a sign thing. I'm a problem-solver, not the type to dump any drama or stress on anyone I know. Plus, really don't like drama. When life is good, I enjoy. When it's not, I pick myself up and get it together. She has a lot going on though, I don't blame her for wanting to vent. Just being there helps when people are going through a lot. She hasn't hurt me in anyway so...



That is great - you sound like me - the Taurus in my old friendship - I was the stable one, the one she would call and/or run to just to try to talk things out and chill for awhile - but she created a lot of her own drama and stress I thought at least - I don't think she eve got that part ... it's nice to know some level-headed Libra's on this site!
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had a Libra female friend for 40 years - she was flakey and a hot mess but we got along ... until the last 5 years it went downhill - since then I've met 2 Libra men who are alright - the first being the worst in terms of knowing what he wants now in life ... the second one I am still seeing and plan to continue

there's good and bad in all signs of life - I find it curious to try to get to know someone like the second Libra and see how his behaviors are similar and different than the first - it's not a comparison but an observation ... they have different placements so it is different
I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.
I'm a Taurus Sun, Aries Venus

What are we generally like?


Not as patient as other Taurus I know. Although very helpful. In relationships, they move faster than people describe other Taurus as. They know what they want and go after it...especially if the person they want is a challenge. Then it's really on. Not sure if you are, but they also have a temper. My Taurus sun/Taurus Venus cousin never gets mad. The Taurus sun/Aries Venus are more fiery, don't step on their toes. Not always in a bad way. They are very protective of those they love and aren't afraid to get into it with anyone harming someone they love. Also, not afraid to protect themselves. They get bored easily, not as "stable" in that they are always moving or when boredom sets in...look out. However, still stubborn and stuck in some ways. Lol

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Omg! This is absolutely amazing! Incredible description! I'm a Taurus sun, Venus in Aries and what you described is totally me 🙂 Before learning about Venus and Moon and Mercury and stuff I had problems trying to identify with myself with the Taurus Sun description because a lot of things usually mentioned there did not resonate with me. But later on I found out about my Venus in Aries and found out what it meant and suddenly it all made sense 🙂 ) )
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How do you Taurus feel about Libras? Or any other Cardinal sign? (Aries, Cancer, Capricorn)
I like Libras. Libras women are really nice and warm and chatty. And when it's needed they're though. Libra guys are more girlish and soft than libra females. Or at least that is my experience so far. I kinda had something with a Libra male but he was an immature type of Libra, got scared and ran 🙂)) I also think I intimidated on a lot of things too and maybe that's why he ran also. I don't know. Even to this day I don't know 🙂

I admire Aries women. If I could choose to live again on this Earth and be able to chose a sign it would definitely be an Aries woman. These women are unstoppable! And they seem like they had infinite powers of regeneration and endless energy in them. I don't. I'm a Taurus sun and I definitely need rest and I am comfortable with a slower pace or I ran out of resources. I need alone time and I don't recharge from other people. I sometimes need my space and my silence to be able to center myself and come back with powers. I do have endless stamina and endurance, but that's a different life gift which I'm not sure it always helps in the long run in this life.

The one think which I absolutely don't like about Aries females and males is their selfishness, their self entitlement and their incapacity to think about others too. Also I absolutely hate their temper tantrums and how sometimes I have to fight them to put them back in their place. I noticed that about Fire signs though, that it is a general fact that they have trouble keeping things in and not burst like a nuclear bomb. Being a fixed sign and a Venus child, basically loving peace, calm and fairness, I tend to look down on them and their inability to contain themselves and have such disregard for the people around them and the situations they create and the irrationality they throw themselves in and drag other people in it too - when everything could have been avoided if they'd learn to control themselves better.

Cancer people like me. I find them too mushy for my own liking though 🙂

Capricorn women are strong. From all the earth signs though I find them absolutely the coldest. If people say Taurus are distant or sometimes cold, they obviously haven't met a Capricorn yet 🙂 Also some Capricorn women seem to really love to fight. Some are downright mean. But they're good friends all in all if you know how to keep a safe distance and not get too close to them.

Capricorn men are attracted to me, but little of them actually did something about it. I find them very closed off. They're definitely a ladies men, but you'll see them single most of the times or exchanging partners until they find the one.

Coming back to Libras. Very few libra males that I met actually knew what they wanted in their life and they always admired me for seeming to "know" and act on it.

I noticed there was always some sort of attraction between me (Taurus) and libras.

Both libra males and females i met had some sort of low self esteem. I mean, we all do, let's be serious now, but they seem to hold on to it more?! I don't know...

I feel Libras DEFINITELY love to communicate more than me (Taurus). I'm more quiet and tight lipped. The libra guy i was at one point told me that he noticed I didn't talk too much - translated as too much as he would have liked. I do talk and I love to talk, but I make it in a more practical way... I don't know how to explain this 🙂 For example Geminis LOVE to talk. About everything and nothing and gossip and blablabla. I actually need to have a reason to talk. I'm not only practical and efficient in how I do my work, I also do it with words. Maybe that's just me though 🙂 I also need to feel very close to you in order to open up and start to talk to you.

Being a Venus child though I must admit I recognize easily the similarities between Libras and us. The charm, the flirting capacity, the aesthetic taste etc.

Libras are definitely more goofy than Taurus. I feel we're more serious and "old soul" type of people than Libras.

Also I noticed that Libras are very protective and they tend to protect the weak and they definitely have that fairness principle to them. Which I admire.

I also feel that Libras are more like followers than leaders. Or maybe I met only unevolved female and male libras. I always found this weird as I knew they supposed to be the cardinals. But maybe I don't understand cardinal energy in all its complexity.

Also, in matters of the heart, I feel libra males are really coward.
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had a Libra female friend for 40 years - she was flakey and a hot mess but we got along ... until the last 5 years it went downhill - since then I've met 2 Libra men who are alright - the first being the worst in terms of knowing what he wants now in life ... the second one I am still seeing and plan to continue

there's good and bad in all signs of life - I find it curious to try to get to know someone like the second Libra and see how his behaviors are similar and different than the first - it's not a comparison but an observation ... they have different placements so it is different
I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.
I'm a Taurus Sun, Aries Venus

What are we generally like?


Not as patient as other Taurus I know. Although very helpful. In relationships, they move faster than people describe other Taurus as. They know what they want and go after it...especially if the person they want is a challenge. Then it's really on. Not sure if you are, but they also have a temper. My Taurus sun/Taurus Venus cousin never gets mad. The Taurus sun/Aries Venus are more fiery, don't step on their toes. Not always in a bad way. They are very protective of those they love and aren't afraid to get into it with anyone harming someone they love. Also, not afraid to protect themselves. They get bored easily, not as "stable" in that they are always moving or when boredom sets in...look out. However, still stubborn and stuck in some ways. Lol


Omg! This is absolutely amazing! Incredible description! I'm a Taurus sun, Venus in Aries and what you described is totally me 🙂 Before learning about Venus and Moon and Mercury and stuff I had problems trying to identify with myself with the Taurus Sun description because a lot of things usually mentioned there did not resonate with me. But later on I found out about my Venus in Aries and found out what it meant and suddenly it all made sense 🙂 ) )
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?Thanks. I can understand that!
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Yeah.. can't say it's a sign thing. I'm a problem-solver, not the type to dump any drama or stress on anyone I know. Plus, really don't like drama. When life is good, I enjoy. When it's not, I pick myself up and get it together. She has a lot going on though, I don't blame her for wanting to vent. Just being there helps when people are going through a lot. She hasn't hurt me in anyway so...



That is great - you sound like me - the Taurus in my old friendship - I was the stable one, the one she would call and/or run to just to try to talk things out and chill for awhile - but she created a lot of her own drama and stress I thought at least - I don't think she eve got that part ... it's nice to know some level-headed Libra's on this site!



Haha thanks!
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had a Libra female friend for 40 years - she was flakey and a hot mess but we got along ... until the last 5 years it went downhill - since then I've met 2 Libra men who are alright - the first being the worst in terms of knowing what he wants now in life ... the second one I am still seeing and plan to continue

there's good and bad in all signs of life - I find it curious to try to get to know someone like the second Libra and see how his behaviors are similar and different than the first - it's not a comparison but an observation ... they have different placements so it is different
I attract soooo many Taurus sun/Aries Venus people in my life. Weird how you attract many Libras.
I'm a Taurus Sun, Aries Venus

What are we generally like?


Not as patient as other Taurus I know. Although very helpful. In relationships, they move faster than people describe other Taurus as. They know what they want and go after it...especially if the person they want is a challenge. Then it's really on. Not sure if you are, but they also have a temper. My Taurus sun/Taurus Venus cousin never gets mad. The Taurus sun/Aries Venus are more fiery, don't step on their toes. Not always in a bad way. They are very protective of those they love and aren't afraid to get into it with anyone harming someone they love. Also, not afraid to protect themselves. They get bored easily, not as "stable" in that they are always moving or when boredom sets in...look out. However, still stubborn and stuck in some ways. Lol

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HAHA! Sounds about right. I am VERY impatient although I'm getting better and I do go for what I want probably too quickly in relationships. I don't know that I have a temper as much as I lack patience when folks are rubbing me the wrong way. Once again, impatient. lol And I do get bored easily. I'm very restless and have to have many interests to occupy me, but I'm never really busy (a relationship, maintaining my household, my career, reading 2 books at a time, 1 physical hobby, 1 creative hobby, a few subjects I'm interested in learning more about, social media)