Complicated invitation

got invited to my guy's ex birthday party...what should i buy for her...was thinking a nice bouquet. she is taurus as my bf.

yeah, just random

Nothing. I wouldn't buy her anything myself.

Oh that's cool you guys can hang out. Get her something like candles, or yummy smelling lotion. 🙂

Candles sound nice....uhm 🙂

thanks for answering, for some weird reason i felt like the people on this board hated me.....

Ah ha ha ha... you are a typical cancer! lol

Why would you think THAT?!

BTW No we don't 🙂

Just to let you know about that party....
It was so ackward!

It was like a contest for his attention, his ex, his friends and me.
All i could do was look at the tvs...it was simply awfull....
Usually when his friends don't like you, means that you're going off soon...I feel so bad now...the only thing i can do is wait it out.

Just to let you know about that party....
It was so ackward!

It was like a contest for his attention, his ex, his friends and me.
All i could do was look at the tvs...it was simply awfull....
Usually when his friends don't like you, means that you're going off soon...I feel so bad now...the only thing i can do is wait it out.

His friends didn't like you? Whatever, don't pay attention to that and more importantly DO NOT address it! Don't make a deal about it and act as if you didn't notice... just zip it! My best advice ever 🙂

As for the ex... see why I wouldn't have bothered to presents now? No business with an ex. It's his ex, ofcourse she's gonna want attention.

But other than that, seriously, don't sweat it and forget about it.

I really believed i had to address it. Otherwise he's gonna think he was the one causing the trouble... I told him i wasn't worried about him, but them. and i told him that exact same thing, about friends not liking you and then you're off. I just had this deep need to tell him what i thought. I even went ahead (stupid!) and told him that i felt as a temporary woman, till he finds the right one, he is such a great guy and he doesnt need to take this crap from me, and he has been left by others before (bunch of cheaters!) including this ex, and i won't leave...i won't! But i feel like i'm not right for him, he needs someone less complicated, someone without all the fuss. I know that he can listen to me, but when the times to confide comes, he will look somewhere else, because he wont want to add up to my problems. I have already lost. I will stay and make him happy till he feel he is truly, I'll wait it out....
yeah...I almost made him tell me he loves me, when obviously it isn't there. And there's no turning back...

lol, yeah i noticed those ads too...they werent here a few days ago. Guess everybody has money problems now.

Thanks for the input once more.
I talked with my sister about it, she's a leo (so very logical) and she told me that my problems was that I really don't trust him. And i can't believe it, because I KNOW he wont cheat-- i just know ok.
The problem is, i think, is that i don't want him to cheat me "mentally" (am i making sense?), I dont want him to go to someone else, I want him to open up to me, I dont even want him to open up so much, but that he feels that
I am truly his pal, not just someone you sleep with and then have some small talk (god dont you hate small talk?!)
I just think we're not deep enough. And i have the best intention not to rush into the love word either, because I really want to feel it first, I want this to work out. ME ME ME!

I make no sense, I'm so confused...calmed right now, but confused. I dont know where i am. Is like i see him, and before he goes away, i already miss him. But then i dont wanna spend all my time with him, we barely do nothing...I just cant seem to get enough. Perhaps its true, perhaps he is not giving me his all...perhaps he's just with me for the hype of it.

Crazy!!!!!!