Count. ... Taurus man SUPER confusing!!!

This is the explanation my Taurus gave after I talked him yesterday about recent events, him trying to be clear about things with me and our phsycologist meeting...

My Taurus- It's not like I didn't think about the future but I did and I also had to accept that there was no feeling of being together in marriage with you or ( my daughter )because it felt unsettled and there were moments where I thought I was wrong but instead of working to make it better I just drifted because I didn't have time to myself, there wasn't any intimacy between us, and being with you was a lot of stress - dealing with your negativity and your ex would also stress me out and then my lack of empathy towards your situation because all that I could think of doing for you n ( my daughter )in the end I don't give time to you and knowing that gets depressed! I did feel wrong doing what I did especially when you started doing things and taking care of you and ( my daughter )and I thought about how I was doing wrong to you and (my daughter)and wanted to stop but I didn't want anyone to get upset with me and plus I was getting sex along with it. But the guilt was getting to me more than my wants! And I wanted to end it with her seeing how you were making a change but the immoral self in me wanted to wait till after my bday so that I get one last chance of having sex with her. I didn't want you to find out because it wasn't something I was proud off.

I never did have sex with you and after not being intimate for 5 yrs I didn't have any sexual desires with you.
I started desiring you since day before yesterday and yes I wanted to have sex with you last night.

Another reason I'm hesitant in marrying u is because of what my family stands for and that they will not approve of my choices.
Yes I could have made the right choices of marrying you but I was afraid that others in my family wouldn't approve of it. But I did eventually do something that no one will ever approve of. In my fight or flight mode, most of the time it's flight for me.

My thoughts about my decisions are not clear that's why I don't really fight for it. And I would rather I go in blindly and accept my fate. Which is a sad way to live I know but I feel more comfortable in that than making an effort.

Me- So u are saying you are not marrying me because you have other choices for better or worse ?

My Taurus - I'm not marrying you because I'm not overwhelmed with that emotion that I need you all the time a

Continuation...

My Taurus - I'm not marrying you because I'm not overwhelmed with that emotion that I need you all the time and knowing that my family doesn't want me to do it either. That is how I am.

But I'm in this situation with you and want to try to make it better perhaps because I want to marry you. And I still hesitant with my family but they would know that I married you and then they can choose if they want to be around me or not. It will not make me happy or comfortable but I would accept that fate.
A year should be sufficient time for me to make the decision to marry you and I promise to devote my complete attention to you during this time so I can appreciate your love for me and honor you.
In just a few days of paying attention to you I have starting to desire you and I believe that is just a start. I am leaning towards marrying you at the end of this year..

All thoughts and opinions on these words from my Taurus are welcome!

This just sounds like a big bowl of bullshit.

Lots of words.

In some way, it sounds like he feels guilt but guilt for having been discovered and now he has to deal with it.

Perhaps he does need one year to 'discover' if he wants to marry you but do you really want to marry him?

I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him. The entire thing just seems wrong. Life is far from perfect but this situation seems too far!

come on Iya,

drop him like a hot potato,lol. He is just trying to compensate the guilt. Whatever it is. Burn your feelings.

Don't try to explain yourself. Learn the bad bull men's tactic. He knows it from the very start that marriage

was an issue - still he pursue. now, it needs conclusion from you - The ball still in his court because if not

you would already have dropped him after you discovered those issues with an ex.

Gosh, I wish I could spare some of my ego when I hit those ex bulls in my past.

I know bulls language. I won't let them in until they surrender.

Posted by Impulsv
He's been cheating it won't change FYI

true.

Posted by Impulsv
Very nice to string u along. Disgusting always victims of fate. Never taking control of their own lives. Feel blessed to know this now and I wasting your time on some indecisive weak individual

agree.

taurus needs stability? - such lie, I kept debating and became opponent for some taurus.

exes taurs - I don't think so. They kept jumping in any relationship because of their desires ( extreme sex)

that sometimes I came to think that this kind of people don't have so called *self respect*.

Oh yeah I am not against taurus but the definition of *stability* it needs action not explaination.