Do you guys all tell people you're dating if you're dating other people too, or do you wait for them to ask you? As you may guess, I date a few people at a time, but I never used to do this until I split with my b/f of 4 years last April. This is probably a good way of stopping myself getting hurt!! At the moment I'm dating a Gemini, Virgo and Capricorn. The Gem knows I date others cos he does the same, but the other two don't really have a clue.
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Hey copperhead,back when I was dating I always prefered to tell the other guys so they'd know for one and two in case they wanted to get more serious,it kept the options more open and honest by just being honest about it.It gets really,really messy otherwise and not everyone(the person dating multiple people too) deals well when someone starts developing feelings and you weren't being up front about it.

Maybe depends how they're acting, how many dates, how often you see each other, stuff like that.
Oh by the way, which sign of the 3 do you like the best? 😛 -oh and go figure the gem dates others too! haha
Oh by the way, which sign of the 3 do you like the best? 😛 -oh and go figure the gem dates others too! haha
Ha ha, I know what a shock that the Gem dates other people too!!! I actually like the Gem the best probably, but that might be because I can have my fun with him and not worry too much about getting involved as neither of us are ready at the moment. The Virgo is a bit quiet, which is nice in one way, but I just end up talking all the time 🙂 The Cap is a bit strange, really aloof one day and the next all chatty and nice. Weird! I just like the freedom of dating a few people and having a laugh!

Ya, gems are so fun! 🙂 I think we go well with them. My best friends are aqua, sags & gems, even though it's not supposed to be that way.
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