ChEaTiNg... what is it?

What you do you guys consider ChEaTiNg to be? Where is the line drawn? Specifically, would you consider freak dancing to be a form of cHeAtInG?

Let him suffer or leave him. You will do what you want and that's it. Simple.

Sag, my whole point was people will eventually do what they WANT to do. It's a selfish world. Not saying TC is doing that, she's questioning it. In that case she may be already "cheating" in her head. Does the lover not suffer if the other already longs for someone else?

People disgust you, but very likely the same people will inspire you and make you happy or crazy or just maybe they will make a part of you. That's good if people disgust you, at least they make you think about how you don't want to be.

And for people who don't quite get the sin in cheating, maybe one day they'll cheat on someone they love. They will learn the hard way. Or perhaps a cheated gets cheated on.

Life lessons have an amazing way of telling the truth. So analyze and excuse it to death. God knows it has been. Sometimes it takes a realization though pain to see.

god-dess-A female being of supernatural powers or attributes, believed in and worshiped by a people.

Bow down, DB. 😉

hey, where's my god?

ohhhhhhhh la la! a dance?!! what song?

Cheating = Breach of Trust
If your mate trusts you not to go freak dancing with some guy, and you do....then he will consider it a form of cheating. If he knows you like a bit of off the wall harmless fun and trusts that the little dance thing means nothing, then it's not going to be considered cheating.
If a couple's definition of trust and cheating don't match up, I think it's best for them to move on.
And Sag, someone should never have to take responsibility for another person, unless it's a child or an invalid parent. If someone can't be responsible for their own feelings and actions, what kind of messed up, co-dependent relationship would that be? That is exactly the reason that I had to leave my husband, he sucked the life out of me with his emotional dependence. It's a totally unfair burden to put on anyone. And no, being independent isn't necessarily "selfish" because independent people don't inflict themselves on others the way dependent people do. They have a life, and interests and they are not boring emotional vampires. Grrrr sorry, but you hit a raw nerve there.

Hee hee thanx for the comments you guys 😛 No I'm not cheating or thinking of it lol
The other day my guy went out with some friends... guys night out...
Anyway so I get to asking him about how it went... fine, drank a little, friend got sooo drunk and his other friend blah blah blah... anyway some girls asked him and his friend to dance and well he did and thinks nothing of it... I was like whatever anyway but at the moment I felt like I waved it off with gritted teeth 🙂 I don't consider that to be cheating (personally) but I won't deny that I may have seen a teeny weeny tinge of read ha ha. But apart from that... I just brought up the whole subject of cheating anyhow because I know this guy whose gf dumped him because she found out through his own friend that he had danced with other girls at the club. And that's why I brought it up- curiosity to hear your own viewpoints 🙂

He obviously knows you trust him, for him to tell you. He also trusted you not to make a deal out of a drunken silly evening...Good for both of you, TC!

Tiamats a "goddess" DB,well okay now shes considered a demon but still at one time a goddess🙂

Do I get a dance then😢 😛

Dammit and I had my hopes up! lol