Do all taureans have these traits?

In relationships I tend to have 3 major flaws: Jealousy, possessiveness and unable to trust 100%

My chart is here if it helps:

Sun Taurus 14.35 Ascendant Cancer 7.27
Moon Pisces 15.38
Mercury Taurus 20.23
Venus Gemini 10.59
Mars Aries 15.52
Jupiter Scorpio 9.09
Saturn Pisces 10.30
Uranus Capricorn 26.20 R
Neptune Capricorn 23.20 R
Pluto Scorpio 27.03 R
Lilith Taurus 3.04
Asc node Scorpio 23.55

I want to know how people deal with these issues if they have them - I drove my recent ex away with these traits and I still have them now even though im not with my ex anymore any advice?

Posted by Torro
My jealous and possessive traits are toned down due to my airy inner planets (Moon and Mercury) but I still have them. I know what it feels like man :/ I feel rage boiling up inside me when I see the man I love flirting with another girl, The unable to trust 100% is always there for me no matter how hard I try, but I never show that either.

Fuck THAT. I don't hide SH*T. The 1st thing I say before even ENTERING a relationship..is that I DON'T SHARE. I can share food, drink and maybe some advice..But I DON'T share my man. (PERIOD). I say it with all the seriousness of my Soul. What's mine is MINE. I don't want to see whats MINE philandering with cohorts, flirting with females provoking my jealousy..or my mate will SEE and FEEL Wrath. (Because I warned from the BEGINNING.)

If I can take special care to respect my mates presence in my life,by turning down "side convos" and "Flirt sessions" I EXPECT the same respect from him. We ARE in a relationship for a reason,to give attention and affection to one another. If not..they can WALK.

As for trust, Trust is to be EARNED..not simply given. If you haven't earned it, or if you've done something to demolish the little trust a Taurus had for you..forget it.

What does your Ex's CHART look like??

Question directed @Britfuzz

Everyone has made some good point - Im glad I wasn't the only who to possessive such annoying flaws I do agree with the trust being link to the past, I was tempted to see someone about this my nature over jealousy tends to destroy my relationships a fair amount and paranoia :/ I just have to learn to tone them down I suppose and allow trust. It doesn't help I am never friends with my partners before I engage into a relationship which may help in the long wrong as they say :')

and her chart is

Sun Cancer 19.30
Moon Capricorn 17.29
Mercury Cancer 2.44
Venus Cancer 8.37
Mars Virgo 24.44
Jupiter Sagittarius 6.13 R
Saturn Pisces 24.43 R
Uranus Capricorn 28.52 R
Neptune Capricorn 24.18 R
Pluto Scorpio 28.02 R
Lilith Gemini 21.18
Asc node Scorpio 2.11

Brittfuzz, I am new to chart reading as well but my sun is in Cancer and my Moon is in Capricorn. We are extremely sensitive people, but God knows you would never know that on the outside. Our sun-moon opposition creates a double barrier for our emotions to hide behind due to Cancer's protective shell and Capricorn unapologetically cold moon. However, if we really let you into our lives you will see that we are much like you. Our feelings run extremely deep but we don't necessarily want the world to know what we are thinking or feeling (making us secretive). There is constantly an internal struggle of feeling too much vs. feeling too little, and I find it hard to balance within myself. We are jealous people as well, but the other elements of her chart may subside that. As a cancer sun/capricorn moon, I secretly love the feeling of possessiveness because it confirms your adoration for me. I can be overprotective and jealous as well, often causing a physical reaction within myself (sick to my stomach type feeling). I rarely take action over these feelings but instead internalize them and analyze them over and over again in my head.

Posted by Torro

Posted by TAURUSbelle

Posted by Torro
My jealous and possessive traits are toned down due to my airy inner planets (Moon and Mercury) but I still have them. I know what it feels like man :/ I feel rage boiling up inside me when I see the man I love flirting with another girl, The unable to trust 100% is always there for me no matter how hard I try, but I never show that either.

Fuck THAT. I don't hide SH*T. The 1st thing I say before even ENTERING a relationship..is that I DON'T SHARE. I can share food, drink and maybe some advice..But I DON'T share my man. (PERIOD). I say it with all the seriousness of my Soul. What's mine is MINE. I don't want to see whats MINE philandering with cohorts, flirting with females provoking my jealousy..or my mate will SEE and FEEL Wrath. (Because I warned from the BEGINNING.

That would be easy for me if I was your typical bull. I sometimes feel my Aquarius Moon completely dominating the rest of my chart. I guess it's not unusual because my chart ruler is Moon, so the position of the Moon is very important in my case. I feel if I said what you do at the beginning of the relationship, it all just goes down boring and usual. I want to wait and look at what happens, how it develops, I want to observe it, simply because it's interesting to me. Lay all your cards down at the very beginning and the game is no longer interesting. I need as much personal freedom and interaction with other people as the other person, and I can be a harmless flirt as well. Not because I have a romantic interest in someone else, it's just how I am. I like being witty and playful and finding people who can tease back.

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My MOON, is in Scorpio. "Death before dishonor,laserbeam FOCUSED on my mate & him ALONE, NOone else exists." & my Venus in Aries.."ME 1st above all others!" Its definitely not boring. There's a diff between laying down all cards of "the game" and simply drawing boundaries for STABILITY. But to each their own!

lol...its ok.. I get what you mean. Addressing or even enforcing Stability in relationships feels too "enclosed" for you. You want it (Taurus), but don't want to think about it, or that you have it (Aquarius). or else the thrill of trying to "tame the unknown" is gone.

Its all good.

@ cancercrab717: wow that explains my ex in a nut shell down to the details! Im unsure about jealousy she did get funny when I was around other females like hugging them etc but she wouldn't say anything merely showed it through her behaviour.
with me being insecure and having trust issues it's hard to trust someone so closed up, I guess I fear they may be hiding secrets or something I dunno all my flaws seem to pour out when I get into relationships on my own I never get jealous, or paranoid or anything I am so care free and chilled out but as soon as I care for someone BOOOM everything comes flooding back
Ive dated a fair few people some of teh relationships I have had have been easier and I never got paranoid but this one is different well was different since we arent together...
maybe the more I care the more my flaws shine through, I would love stability like literally if I met someone tomorrow who would be with me until death I would. Im just tired of hot and cold relationship and them not working out but I guess that's part of growing up considering im only 18 :/