Do Taurus men...

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Posted by Faiyaz
Don't listen to to anyone.

What about you? Why do you ask?

Perhaps you need to find you before worrying about him.



The Taurus I knew would never talk me into shit.

He could lead me there with his seduction but no.

Who are you?

What do you want from this?

Sex? Ok have it. Make it good


No worries, I just have very little experience with Taurus guys. I was only interested after actually meeting him-and yeah I think it'd likely be sex only. He seems a little whiney.

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Posted by Faiyaz
Don't listen to to anyone.

What about you? Why do you ask?

Perhaps you need to find you before worrying about him.



The Taurus I knew would never talk me into shit.

He could lead me there with his seduction but no.

Who are you?

What do you want from this?

Sex? Ok have it. Make it good


No worries, I just have very little experience with Taurus guys. I was only interested after actually meeting him-and yeah I think it'd likely be sex only. He seems a little whiney.

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Please tell me.

Do you prefer whiny ?



No.

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Posted by Faiyaz
Don't listen to to anyone.

What about you? Why do you ask?

Perhaps you need to find you before worrying about him.



The Taurus I knew would never talk me into shit.

He could lead me there with his seduction but no.

Who are you?

What do you want from this?

Sex? Ok have it. Make it good


No worries, I just have very little experience with Taurus guys. I was only interested after actually meeting him-and yeah I think it'd likely be sex only. He seems a little whiney.


sex only lol
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Are you still alive? If so, yeah sex only-he's only 25 😉

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Who do you prefer?

Man may be great on paper.

But where is his heart?

Is his heart where you like him? If yes explain.


You can never really know where a persons heart is can you?




Yes you can!

It's whwre he pushes you.

Where he arrives to be

Everything he talks about...



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He talks about everything! His family, day to day life, me, us, exes, past flings, his bad points, what he wants to do to me, how he wants me to travel with him at the end of the month. We've been talking for a year now. He wants me to "open up" more. Which is doubtful.

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Posted by Faiyaz
Who do you prefer?

Man may be great on paper.

But where is his heart?

Is his heart where you like him? If yes explain.


You can never really know where a persons heart is can you?




Yes you can!

It's whwre he pushes you.

Where he arrives to be

Everything he talks about...




He talks about everything! His family, day to day life, me, us, exes, past flings, his bad points, what he wants to do to me, how he wants me to travel with him at the end of the month. We've been talking for a year now. He wants me to "open up" more. Which is doubtful.

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Ok. Sounds ok.

What are your thoughts on it?
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What does he want?

What does he want from you?

What do you think?
He wants to see where we can lead. Im like a path he wants to venture down.




Ok. Do you like the path?

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I'm not sure im only at the gate! lol! I don't feel in control. That may be my problem. Im also at a different stage in my life to him. He wants to have fun, hes still sampling. I need to decide if I want to entertain that or not and what the consequences of doing so may be.

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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Faiyaz
What does he want?

What does he want from you?

What do you think?
He wants to see where we can lead. Im like a path he wants to venture down.




Ok. Do you like the path?


I'm not sure im only at the gate! lol! I don't feel in control. That may be my problem. Im also at a different stage in my life to him. He wants to have fun, hes still sampling. I need to decide if I want to entertain that or not and what the consequences of doing so may be.

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Do not settle.

Aka... don't allow yourself to be fooled. No. Now is the time to say no.

It.will come. Later. figure you first.
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Faiyaz
What does he want?

What does he want from you?

What do you think?
He wants to see where we can lead. Im like a path he wants to venture down.




Ok. Do you like the path?


I'm not sure im only at the gate! lol! I don't feel in control. That may be my problem. Im also at a different stage in my life to him. He wants to have fun, hes still sampling. I need to decide if I want to entertain that or not and what the consequences of doing so may be.




Do not settle.

Aka... don't allow yourself to be fooled. No. Now is the time to say no.

It.will come. Later. figure you first.
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You could be right 🙂 Thank you for your input!

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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Faiyaz
What does he want?

What does he want from you?

What do you think?
He wants to see where we can lead. Im like a path he wants to venture down.




Ok. Do you like the path?


I'm not sure im only at the gate! lol! I don't feel in control. That may be my problem. Im also at a different stage in my life to him. He wants to have fun, hes still sampling. I need to decide if I want to entertain that or not and what the consequences of doing so may be.




Do not settle.

Aka... don't allow yourself to be fooled. No. Now is the time to say no.

It.will come. Later. figure you first.
You could be right 🙂 Thank you for your input!

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Why?
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Faiyaz
What does he want?

What does he want from you?

What do you think?
He wants to see where we can lead. Im like a path he wants to venture down.




Ok. Do you like the path?


I'm not sure im only at the gate! lol! I don't feel in control. That may be my problem. Im also at a different stage in my life to him. He wants to have fun, hes still sampling. I need to decide if I want to entertain that or not and what the consequences of doing so may be.




Do not settle.

Aka... don't allow yourself to be fooled. No. Now is the time to say no.

It.will come. Later. figure you first.
You could be right 🙂 Thank you for your input!


Why?

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Why could you be right?

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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Faiyaz
What does he want?

What does he want from you?

What do you think?
He wants to see where we can lead. Im like a path he wants to venture down.




Ok. Do you like the path?


I'm not sure im only at the gate! lol! I don't feel in control. That may be my problem. Im also at a different stage in my life to him. He wants to have fun, hes still sampling. I need to decide if I want to entertain that or not and what the consequences of doing so may be.




Do not settle.

Aka... don't allow yourself to be fooled. No. Now is the time to say no.

It.will come. Later. figure you first.
You could be right 🙂 Thank you for your input!


Why?


Why could you be right?

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Let's say the human mind is weird. Let's say we seek pleasure. We seek instant gratification . We seek what is easy .

Why are you asking?

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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Faiyaz
Don't listen to to anyone.

What about you? Why do you ask?

Perhaps you need to find you before worrying about him.



The Taurus I knew would never talk me into shit.

He could lead me there with his seduction but no.

Who are you?

What do you want from this?

Sex? Ok have it. Make it good


No worries, I just have very little experience with Taurus guys. I was only interested after actually meeting him-and yeah I think it'd likely be sex only. He seems a little whiney.

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feed him, he's hungry ... and then maybe he'll shut up - no really I have no idea about Taurus men but Taurus and Libra can get along famously ...

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Posted by Faiyaz
Who do you prefer?

Man may be great on paper.

But where is his heart?

Is his heart where you like him? If yes explain.


You can never really know where a persons heart is can you?

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well in my opinion - actions speak louder than words and it takes time to see if ones actions come from the heart most of the time or just when they want something ...
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What does he want?

What does he want from you?

What do you think?
He wants to see where we can lead. Im like a path he wants to venture down.




Ok. Do you like the path?


I'm not sure im only at the gate! lol! I don't feel in control. That may be my problem. Im also at a different stage in my life to him. He wants to have fun, hes still sampling. I need to decide if I want to entertain that or not and what the consequences of doing so may be.

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talk to Jeane - she Libra, he Taurus - she's got a lot of experience ...
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talk to Jeane - she Libra, he Taurus - she's got a lot of experience ...
what was the question?

do they try to talk you into bed? yes.

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yes that's the thread - it was LibraLovesHim asking about this Taurus guy she met and thinking he wanted only sex but talked about some sort of relationship and she didn't seem to want just casual - but then too she doesn't seem to know what she wants ... sounded like this was in your realm of experience with Taurus male ...

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i guess it depends how long you have known him.

if you've just met and he is already talking about sex then it's a test.

sleep with him and you become a fwb.

don't sleep with him and you have the potential to be something more. if he departs then you can be assured he was only in it for the sex.

if you want to just have a fwb, go for it but be aware that that's likely all it will ever be. if there is a chance you'll catch feelings, do not pass go. they are too fixed. once they compartmentalise you, it is hard to break free.

if you want a relationship, go slowly and build a strong friendship with him. from there you can judge if you want to proceed or if you should just remain friends.

being a libra you are likely to be undecided and still weighing up your options. there is no harm in waiting until you have more information.

needless to say, he is assessing you, your decisions and behaviour as much as you are scrutinising his.
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i guess it depends how long you have known him.

if you've just met and he is already talking about sex then it's a test.

sleep with him and you become a fwb.

don't sleep with him and you have the potential to be something more. if he departs then you can be assured he was only in it for the sex.

if you want to just have a fwb, go for it but be aware that that's likely all it will ever be. if there is a chance you'll catch feelings, do not pass go. they are too fixed. once they compartmentalise you, it is hard to break free.

if you want a relationship, go slowly and build a strong friendship with him. from there you can judge if you want to proceed or if you should just remain friends.

being a libra you are likely to be undecided and still weighing up your options. there is no harm in waiting until you have more information.

needless to say, he is assessing you, your decisions and behaviour as much as you are scrutinising his.


Ive known him for 1 year. We've both had other things going on over the past year but kept in touch. Met him once and felt like we'd known each other a v long time-this was just after a few months of chatting and was totally by chance. Also mutual attraction there, nothing physical has happened....yet...we are both expats so planning to meet up when I get back there. Just worry about all the chat! I do trust actions so I suppose he deserves the chance.

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Try and talk you into bed? I read that they are not very vocal about their emotions/what they want etc but this one is, very! And i'm not used to it whatsoever, just wondering if it maybe tactics?
Telling you what he wants to do with your body/where he wants to put his dick is not the same thing as sharing emotions. Not even close...
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Nothing at all about where he wants to put his D etc, I wouldnt accept that itd be immediate block...he comes out with things like I want to massage you, or i want to be close to you, nothing even about sex I just really want to be close to you. He seems very intimate.

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i guess it depends how long you have known him.

if you've just met and he is already talking about sex then it's a test.

sleep with him and you become a fwb.

don't sleep with him and you have the potential to be something more. if he departs then you can be assured he was only in it for the sex.

if you want to just have a fwb, go for it but be aware that that's likely all it will ever be. if there is a chance you'll catch feelings, do not pass go. they are too fixed. once they compartmentalise you, it is hard to break free.

if you want a relationship, go slowly and build a strong friendship with him. from there you can judge if you want to proceed or if you should just remain friends.

being a libra you are likely to be undecided and still weighing up your options. there is no harm in waiting until you have more information.

needless to say, he is assessing you, your decisions and behaviour as much as you are scrutinising his.


Ive known him for 1 year. We've both had other things going on over the past year but kept in touch. Met him once and felt like we'd known each other a v long time-this was just after a few months of chatting and was totally by chance. Also mutual attraction there, nothing physical has happened....yet...we are both expats so planning to meet up when I get back there. Just worry about all the chat! I do trust actions so I suppose he deserves the chance.

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if you've only met once then you don't know him that well. it could very much be talk.

what do you want from this?

give him a chance but don't fall quickly for it. if you want something more substantial than a fwb then you really must see each other and spend time together before jumping into bed.

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Try and talk you into bed? I read that they are not very vocal about their emotions/what they want etc but this one is, very! And i'm not used to it whatsoever, just wondering if it maybe tactics?
No the bed is made ,long time before , i.e. the food ,body language practised,candle light dinner , the slow dance , the music , we try and read you , the scent in the room, all ingredients based in a seductive manner, the bull is, actions speak louder than words, we don't say much,because we don't see the point of talking for the sake of talking, so i'll make this brief, if a bull feels secure in your company,it doesn't matter if he met you yesterday, he will be direct,we always think long term, but if the flags are up, and your high maintenance, you will be part of his harem.
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Try and talk you into bed? I read that they are not very vocal about their emotions/what they want etc but this one is, very! And i'm not used to it whatsoever, just wondering if it maybe tactics?
No the bed is made ,long time before , i.e. the food ,body language practised,candle light dinner , the slow dance , the music , we try and read you , the scent in the room, all ingredients based in a seductive manner, the bull is, actions speak louder than words, we don't say much,because we don't see the point of talking for the sake of talking, so i'll make this brief, if a bull feels secure in your company,it doesn't matter if he met you yesterday, he will be direct,we always think long term, but if the flags are up, and your high maintenance, you will be part of his harem.
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really? a bull can tell if you are for long term after a day? that's interesting. i didn't realise they moved that fast.

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Try and talk you into bed? I read that they are not very vocal about their emotions/what they want etc but this one is, very! And i'm not used to it whatsoever, just wondering if it maybe tactics?
Telling you what he wants to do with your body/where he wants to put his dick is not the same thing as sharing emotions. Not even close...
Nothing at all about where he wants to put his D etc, I wouldnt accept that itd be immediate block...he comes out with things like I want to massage you, or i want to be close to you, nothing even about sex I just really want to be close to you. He seems very intimate.

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Again, talking about massaging you (a precursor for sex and a way to get you in his bed) is NOT him being vocal about his emotions.

Bulls are Venusian and sensual beings so him giving you that vibe is nothing new. But as Jeane points out, if you jump too quickly into bed with him you'll turn this potential for a relationship into a fwb. Which is fine if thats what you want, if not though you should move with care.



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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Try and talk you into bed? I read that they are not very vocal about their emotions/what they want etc but this one is, very! And i'm not used to it whatsoever, just wondering if it maybe tactics?
No the bed is made ,long time before , i.e. the food ,body language practised,candle light dinner , the slow dance , the music , we try and read you , the scent in the room, all ingredients based in a seductive manner, the bull is, actions speak louder than words, we don't say much,because we don't see the point of talking for the sake of talking, so i'll make this brief, if a bull feels secure in your company,it doesn't matter if he met you yesterday, he will be direct,we always think long term, but if the flags are up, and your high maintenance, you will be part of his harem.
really? a bull can tell if you are for long term after a day? that's interesting. i didn't realise they moved that fast.

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As I plough a field, I can only speak on experience, but hey what do i know, some women & men say I love you , after the 2nd date,sex include.
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I remember when me and my husband was 16 and I was very naive and he could tell I really liked him, looking back I was just a FB but back then his words were so seductive and I thought he was really interested in me lol. He would stare at me all day like I was beautiful and he couldn't wait to have me, he would buy me little things and take me on little dates to McDonald's haha, he would "open" up to me about his life and some of his issues then at the end of it all he would tell me that we should go out that night then get a hotel straight after, of course I knew why he wanted to get a hotel but at the same time because we was only 16 I thought that we would just have a "romantic night in" and no sex because of course we couldn't go to each others house lol. After that it just went downhill and we had sex every day, in the end he would only just see me for sex.. Don't ask how we're married, I think I somehow got him to fall in love lol. Now he's cheating and doing the same thing he did with me to another poor female lol
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Posted by estellajones
I remember when me and my husband was 16 and I was very naive and he could tell I really liked him, looking back I was just a FB but back then his words were so seductive and I thought he was really interested in me lol. He would stare at me all day like I was beautiful and he couldn't wait to have me, he would buy me little things and take me on little dates to McDonald's haha, he would "open" up to me about his life and some of his issues then at the end of it all he would tell me that we should go out that night then get a hotel straight after, of course I knew why he wanted to get a hotel but at the same time because we was only 16 I thought that we would just have a "romantic night in" and no sex because of course we couldn't go to each others house lol. After that it just went downhill and we had sex every day, in the end he would only just see me for sex.. Don't ask how we're married, I think I somehow got him to fall in love lol. Now he's cheating and doing the same thing he did with me to another poor female lol
Ugh thats awful! Sorry to hear 😕

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He's telling me everything about a girl that he has been seeing for a while but didn't feel it was going anywhere or that she was right for him. He told me all about now how he had to go to meet her and call it off, and it was awful to hurt her like that but he couldn't let it continue-she said she would accept him in any terms, as longs as she didn't have to lose him and he said no. Something just not sitting with me about him. I feel like he's trying to sound good.

Intuition, gut-I don't know what u want to call it. How realistic is it to go with that feeling? Or do you always give people a chance despite this feeling?
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lol many moons ago, after I broke up with my first ex, I decided to be celibate for 1 year. Then I decided to go longer and try for 2. Well, there was this awesome bull guy at work. We got along so well. Went to concerts as friends. Then he told me this amazing story about how he wants to be with me. Then we fucked. And then 2 weeks later, he fucked our coworker who knew that we fucked. Also a Taurus.

And then... I was done with Taurus.

Isn't that special?
What an absolute arse!