@LibraLovesHim
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This as nothing to do with open relationship, this is someone trying to set down unwritten rules in infidelity , but yet branding the bull with lack of confidence and a inflated ego,bulls have integrity, and the the person is ummm , can't think of the 2 words is a Mind ,umm rhymes with Duck .... F
Yeah I am too possessive and very careful health wise too. It's probably why I don't do open relationships I see what they mean that one will develop feelings or talk feelings and ruin the friendship and bond once had. Sucks.
Can you provide more context instead of a hypothetical? I ask because my ex was a Taurus we were together just a little under 4 years. When we met, I was a freshman in college and I had seen a lot and felt I couldn't fully trust college guys, so I had to be careful. He came onto me STRONG and I basically told him, okay but I'm still going to see what my options are...basically I wasnt all that serious about him in the beginning. He told me, and I quote, "that's okay, you can date around and in time you'll see how serious I am about you, so ill be here when you're ready."
So perhaps this Taurus meant it in this way, it was meant more in terms of confidence, because he feels he can beat out all the other guys, and since you all are not a couple, why pressure you into hopping into a committmrnt if he just met you?
I will wait if I am interested and it's good for someone to trust the one you desire and let them do whatever and when things don't work out taurus will be there. Maybe just friends, maybe long term. Just depends on what's going on in our life.
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Would they declare this in the beginning because of the size of their ego's and maybe their confidence in ability to win the woman over the other guy? Or are they pretty open to "open relations" in their younger years.