Ex taurus moved on? Or testing?

This guy , born on 19 th may..
He used to love me like anything..the pure taurus way..over protective, over caring, oveer attached etc etc
But due to some reasons i didnt understand my feelings for him and i insulted him in front of everyone..
Still he remained a good friend..
And with time i developed feelings for him..he was still the same with me..
Like before..
And since i thought we both had feelings..i gave in amd became physicAl with him..
And later when we had a discussion over this topic he went on to say " you broke me down. I am left with no feelings for you or anyone.. I dont even like anyone at present.. I am sorry for the physical thing that happened between us.. I promise i will never make you feel used.. And if ever you feel so you can hit me, get angry n do whatsoever you wish.."
I broke down badly over this.. We tried talking on n on on this.. But it wont settle..
He was being good to me.. N i was putting in efforts because i know i had hurt him a lot in past.. In his place had it been someone else that person would even like seeing my face..
But he was being good n putting in efforts to not make me feel used..
So even i put in lota of efforts
But since the last 2 weeks..
I can see he is changed.. I have all of sudden become normal friend.. While some other girl who was just a friend has come close.. I can see him doind things for her which he used to do for me in the past..
And when i try talking to him abt her..he is like she was there when you left so i cannot ignore her..
He stays around her..when she is online i get late replies..
But as soon as i try talking to him.. He is like you are a close friend..n will always remain one..
And abt feelings he says "i respect your feelings.. But i wouldnt ask you to end them because i have been through it.. You made me end my feelings for you n trust me it hurts a lot.. N i cannot see you going through that"
What do i do? *sigh* wait or move on! Should i continue putting in one sided efforts? And wait for him to soften up again? He has his moon in cancer... So he is very sensitive..
That is why he isnt able to forget the past..is there any chance? Or has he moved and found a new girl in his life?

This, this is the story of our lives. We are said to be slow and yet when we are gone then people only realise what we did and who we really are.

Yeah, been there... a lot... Hurts like hell till we bleed out.

You can believe that he is drained, and that you are partially to blame. The other part is us... it is our fault for not just letting you go when you start acting up. But when we love, we love deep and eternally.

He will never get over you even though it looks like he has. We can give every person we feel this strong about a place in our hearts and a piece if our soul till really have nothing left, and even then we still keep loving you despite everything. We keep loving you for what we know you are, even if it kills us.

Move on friend, understansd why this happened and learn from it. You really hurt him but know that he still has a place for you in his heart and always will, however your time has passed.

Accept the friendship, even if it means not being intimate. Just be glad he doesn't hate you. Taurean can hold grudges for decades.

Posted by Redbull
Exactly. just because it didnt work out romantically doesnt mean we cant be cool. And i mean that. Maybe one day i'll come across a woman who can deal with that. To me its a maturity thing. And once the feelings are gone they are gone. Im not touching you in any way we are just friends. And i give friends a lot of room and need a lot of room so we wont talk very often probably but that doesnt mean there is a problem. Im like that with everybody usually. Taurus usually dont do well with games, stress, or foolery in relationships. Thats where its ended and maybe we can remain light friends.

True, very true.

This is the point where we generally just give in. The internal stress we have is already high, having external stress that pushes us even further just destroys us. It is only the unevolved (although I won't know cause I never experienced it) taurus that will try and play the game as hard as it comes our way.

But if we don't communicate with you for sometime, it isn't that we want nothing to do with you, cause in most cases we do want to see you and talk and hold you close, but we have to fight the urge to do so as it won't be appropriate to do any of those things if we are conflicted.

You see, if we say we are going to do something, we will. If we set a standard or make a statement then we keep to it. Absolutely hate hypocrisy.

That is another thing. If you ever were a hypocrite, we initially contemplate it a lot, if you keep doing it, we distance ourselves especially if we know this isn't you, and if you push beyond that... Strike out. I shutdown and then retreat to heal.