Extreme Taurus?

Is there such a thing.....as a very extreme Taurus? I mean every intense trait a Taurus man could have x 1,000?

The nude dude as I affectionately call him is pretty much swirling the drain. He is one odd duck. Ya'll know from last month he told me he is a *naturist* ie: nudist. Nothing wrong with that, I got over it. But....the rest of his "stuff" is just too much to wanna deal with.

Recap: We met on EH mid Jan. Emailed for a month. Began phone calls, texting etc. Pretty consistantly. Just before Easter I suggested meeting. He was up for it, then he wasnt. No explanation till I asked. He said he is very cautious, wanting us to know each other better then def meet. But WHEN that would be no one knows. I said ok, we can just be pals, but pls be consistant and honest. He was very receptive and opened up in sharing stories about the dysfunction of his childhood and all that kinda stuff. Also asked me to understand that sometimes he "retreats" ie: disappears for days as he isolated to take time to think. Think a lot. Mainly about his work (research). Says his friends worry when he doesnt answer calls, emails. He says he only speaks to his eldery parents during these times. Well, he does have a scorp moon so I understand this.

So, now, we last spoke 5 days ago. I emailed 4 days ago, it hsnt been read. I called 2 days ago, left vm, no return call. Seems he is on one of these retreats. So, this just isnt working, sadly. What I have gathered is:

1. Long time no dating/relationship - he is beyond cautious into who he allows in his world
2. Even after 3 months of knowing each other, he cant commit to meeting me. (Live 2 hrs apart).
3. He is his own worst enemy. He likes me, its obvious, but he doesnt get that no woman can deal with this forever.

My pisces single friend who hasnt dated in 10 years (man) suggests it may be his inability to want to compromise his adjusted single life style to allow a woman into it. I have to agree...Every morning when I wake up and go sit on the pot to pee...I fart like crazy and I say to myself "When I love in with a man, I'm not going to be allowed to do this anymore".


Its too bad. 😢 I like farting.

Whaaaat?! Haha

Anyway, we have practically the same man- mine is sun Taurus, scorp moon, Venus in Taurus, mars in aries. He confuses the living you know what out of me! After FIVE months of the same stuff I finally pulled a "we need to talk" I went over and the man fell asleep in my lap- to avoid talkin to me?! One second he's hot hot hot with I miss yous and "baby" "honey" etc every morning text of good morning. Then, he's dead for 3 days or responds so slowly. He tells me he wants to do x y and z for my birthday, he HAS to see me... And then he disappears. He tells me he HAS to take me out to dinner, spend the night, have fun all this stuff that sounds romantic and amazing. Guess what we've done? Nothing?! Then he tells me I must not see him as a guy is be in a relationship with. Or when I ask him what I am to him or his thoughts/ expectations he says he doesn't want to mess up what we have with serious talk, that's a woman's job. I said Wth does that mean. His response: men are the gas, women are the brakes. So today, I finally told him in his own weird language I'm slamming the brakes, I need him to be serious and tell me his thoughts etc. his response..... You text a lot. And then silence all day today. I am NOT extending myself out to him anymore! He needs to come sweep me off my feet or I'm on to the next one.

Idk what to tell you BGP. I seriously feel like I'm pulling a stubborn bull by the horns in the mud and my brain is taunting me : you're doin it wrong! The challenge was fun at first but now I'm about to just shoot it. 😛

Ah hell's bells and cock full of shell's....Nude Dude has the SAME placments as your dude:

Sun Taurus
Moon Scorpio
Venus Taurus

Jimminy Christmas....we're flucking the same tool man. (well, no pokey for me, anyhow).

Is your man a big loner? This guy is..and he has a dog he adores...its his "son". He moved to his home in a new city a year ago, has not made friends, tho knows his neighbors. He likes his aloneness, though he takes his dog twice a week to dog trainging classess and is learning how to make him into a show dog. He also tkes him the the pet story twice a week to mingle amonst the pets. I think he likes animals more than he likes humans :/


I think this is all about trusting women....I think your guy will freak if you maintain your detachment. I think you will have to do that to effect some change from him. Be consistent and true to your needs. Knowing my value is critical....and when my very reasonable needs are not being met, it is time to move on.

ahhh why the post hide? You're my soul sista...tell me!!

Well BGP quickly read it and then I'm hiding it again! You never know with his Scorp moon, he just might find this and frrrreak out! >_

Happy birthday, TaurusmanUK...


Ok now you gotta explain yourself....WHY do you disappear? I mean really...

this dude has been communicating with me consistantly for 3 months, we finally have an *open* discussion about personal things,..and BAM now almost a week of silence. Maybe he doesnt like having that door open to his inner feelings? I dunno...but I aint contacting him....his b day in May 11th, maybe I;ll send a sweet wish to him, but really after getting this silent shit from a scorpio, I wont get diddled like this from this guy.

Its his loss, let him continue to live in the woods and trot around with his man tool flapping in the wind.

Posted by Ariess
The BIG problem? It's all about his needs! He's never even gone down anywhere there... Cough cough...Ya get me? My old Aries and Sag had no problems in that department! Waaahh now i miss them 😢 But this Taur has never ever ever mentioned or done anything remotely close. So weird.

Ok this guy just needs to be taught what you like. Some men just KNOW how to do it, and LOVE it...some others just need a kick start.

Buy him a pair of rubber lips, take your clothes off...then show him how to apply his lips like the rubber lips...and then begin the demo 😛

Oh BGP another thing that's interesting- if I ignore him/ don't answer him quickly he will say or do something to get a rouse out of me. He usually sends a sharp text knowing I will either correct him or get angry. He says he does this on purpose. It's cute (nervous laugh, shaking head NO) I'm no good gettin him to open up. I'm really good at shutting him up though! :X

I dont think anyone can get another to open up. Just gotta create a safe environment for him to feel safe.

Also with taurus Ive learned to read what they ARENT saying, listen to actions etc.

The most complete and informative website for understanding the Taurus man in ........Knowing if he likes you? His subtle signs? Attracting a Taurus Man? .... may be found at
BUZZLE.COM .... Hope this helps for everyone trying to understand our loving BULL. BTW, my son is a Taurus, and shows ALL of the traits described. He is .... so very SLOW to act on anything ... IF you push ... he will dig in his hoofs ... snort obtrusively ... become verbally sarcastic, and kick-up some SERIOUS dirt with his back quarters ... and might possibly (correction .. WILL) charge with EXTREME anger. Their emotions are always there, and seething. I have SEEN it first hand .. and you don't want to be there, when he recognizes, and wants to fix a wrong done to a family member, or someone he is close to, or cares about. We have a great relationship, altho he can be quiet at times and needs his space. They WANT and DESIRE SECURITY .......... don't flirt, dress and smell good, show class in how you behave in thought, word, deed, and in your attire. Know when to speak, and when to refrain from
speaking words that might set him off ... don't criticize him, his friends, or his job. Hope this might offer some insight ... it's ALL TRUE!

From a Cancer Babe, who KNOWS the BULL! and this is NOT, B---SH--!

Thanks CTF...LOL you are funny. I just had a momentary desire to call him. Its been a week since he called. And 4 days since I left him in VM...but...I wont. He's either lost interest or....whatever. 😢 phooey!

Posted by aurora
From my experience, it is hard to make a Bull do anything if it's not his decision at first place. If I understood well, you never met. And I think it's a problem. You know that Bulls are all about stimulating their senses, so he never saw you (in person), never touched you, smell you, observe how you talk, behave in general. So it seems that you are in endless loop. He doesn't have the need to see you, because he never did, if you understand what I mean. And if you manage to see him somehow, make sure that you behave like a lady, look like one, never, I mean never show any interest of any kind towards other men. And how to do that, to meet him, have no idea. But if I were you it would be my only goal at the moment.

Aurora, you are very astute and right on here. Thanks for bringing this to light. I agree. In my 2nd to last convo with him where I gently confronted him about his hesitancy to meet, and how it was taking a long time to really get to know each other, I said "I dont even know when the last time you cried was?". The point being, we are not progressing in our sharing ouf ourselves. So.....he told me the last time he cried. I was kinda shocked. Said it was 2 yrs ago when he was visiting his Mother in Tx. He didnt offer specifics and I didnt ask. He then went on to share about his parents divorce, child hood dysfunction, the over all familial dysfunction. So, what Im saying is he opened up some....so....

Im wondering if this "coming out" of his shell a bit has now caused him to revert back into his shell hence his disappearing? Thats quite what scorpios do,isnt it?. He does have scorp moon, btw. We spoke once more after that convo, 2 nights later, then poof! I dont know how Id get to see him as he lives in another town, however....I do know that every Tues and Sat he goes to a local pet store with his dog to teach his dog to socialie with other animals. (Love the tarusu structure..LOL same days every week). I suppose I could find the closet pet store to his house and go hanf out there this Sat...bring lawn chair and a good book till I see a 6'5 dude with no tan lines and a big old swiss mountain dog. Hmmmm..sounds like a plan 😛

Thanks, TaurusmanUK for expounding on that further...you do bring good insight about *self sabotage*. I was thinking the same thing. Just like many people are afraid of success, so when it comes, they screw it up. Relationships are inherent with pain, so a man who has been single a long while who meets someone as fabulous as I ( 😛 ) might get fearful at the idea of being vulnerable.

I guess he needs his man-cave time. Honestly, this had to come to some sort of conclusion...either we fizzle out or we meet. It's not like we were strickly a platonic friendship, there was some level of *I like you* there and that just cannot be sustained over the phone.

Oh well....it will be what it will be and I know I cant force a solution. If he is meant to come out of hiding, I will talk with him, but I wont poke him further. I did send a text last night saying I hoped he was well..so more will be revealed....or it wont!

^^Totally concur, Aurora. If I learned anything from the deadly scorpio encounter was to tread lightly and carry my sunny disposition.

Leo's are all warm n sunny, ya know 😉