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This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Geminlove on Thursday, July 24, 2014 and has 15 replies.

Can Taurus Forgive in Serious Relationships

Taurus individuals tend to be loyal and forgiving but may struggle to forget deep betrayals. They forgive when trust is rebuilt and issues are resolved, but they know they've reached a point of no return when their emotional well-being is compromised and the damage feels irreparable.

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@Geminlove
12 Years

How much can a taurus forgive? In a serious relationship that is, and when do you realize you should let go that you have reached a point of no return? Feel free to include experiences 🙂

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@RollergirlOrc
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Depends on what type of Taurus. The more evolved ones have easier time forgiving unless you did something major to piss them off. The lesser evolved one may not forgive for a long time.

However, if you truly love that Taurus, with lots of patience and making it up to them, they'll eventually come around. And by patience it would mean their time, not regular ole time. Lol. If you make it up to them and they don't come around, well you're in for a handful.

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

hahaha..

Geminlove,

lol. Bulls don't quit easily. Yes they maybe get mad and ended the relationship... just don't go

let him do...remember my story about my ex taurus who threw me out and packed all my things...

I remained calmed and quite.. when it was time to move out. I did. it was his decision not mine.

back then... he made excuses. He left his big luggage bag that day he sent me home..I told him

to bring it with him but he said.. some other time. I looked at him and said ok.

I know it was his idea... excuses. also, when I had time 5 mos ago. I reminded him and said... get

your luggage bag. then he responded nice. back then after he sent me home...I was trying to reconciled

but I need space and air... remember.. respond don't react the time you have fights.

The less damage you did.. The easiest way for them to forgive. Be nice but not doormat. stay calmed.

and be upfront.

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

when he took his luggage bag.. I saw his face sad. I did not say anything. and I am sure he was

tired of reconciling with me before the year ended. I run a miles. I was really stubborn but I was

soft inside.. everytime he opened up the reconciliation I made him to stop.. not literal.

Him: M, it was Love.

Me: J, please.

then he stopped and didn't talk anymore until I left him.

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@Geminlove
12 Years

@M143: wht was his venus and moon? If you dont mind me asking...

As for wht i did....i got him in trouble unintentionally 😢 he took the blame even tho he knew i did it, I apologized but he wont even look at me

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@Geminlove
12 Years

There was a risk of him getting in trouble but i didnt think he would.... /.\ and its pretty bad since it concerns his job.

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

His Venus - Taurus
His Moon - Virgo
His Mercury - Taurus

What do u mean risk of him getting in trouble? did u caused this trouble? how did you respond to him?

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@peaceloveandhappiness
12 Years

Well it would probably depend on how serious we were and how much trouble I took on but it might differ with the males -- you know, the protective vibe. As a female I'd have to say I'd be turned off :/

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@xxbrittxxtay
12 Years

As a Taurus I am SO forgiving sometimes too much I feel like! But forgiving and forgetting are two different things to me. I can always forgive someone but in the back of my mind I will always remember what they did to me.

For instance, I dated a Capricorn for almost three years. I moved away to another state for college and he ended up telling me months after it happened that he cheated on me (and I know for sure it was not only one time). But me like the forgiving Taurus I am forgave him and told him it needed to be fixed or I was finished. Then other problems started to arise like him stealing from me, and more lying... Then he just got me to the point of no return and I left and do not talk to him to this day. It's like I never even knew him.

I think with all Taurus' we are all forgiving but when it gets to a certain point with us we will just let go of people. It's like something in us is triggered and the feelings we had for that person are no longer there it doesn't even matter how long we were with them, it's just gone!

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@Geminlove
12 Years

@brittxxtay: O_O woah.....did you still go out with him after he cheated on you? If you dont mind me asking....

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@Sehd510
12 YearsTaurus

Posted by Geminlove
How much can a taurus forgive? In a serious relationship that is, and when do you realize you should let go that you have reached a point of no return? Feel free to include experiences 🙂

Cheating or Flirtation are deal breakers for me. Then again I don't just throw myself into every potential relationship that comes my way, I am mostly ice cold to the opposite sex, regardless of their beauty or skimpy clothing choices. As a Taurus Male, I am highly particular of whom I let into my inner bubble and do not engage with just anyone nor do I care much about Physical Attraction as I prefer to make Connections, Emotionally.

During my longest relationship of Five years I had done my best to treat my girlfriend like the Goddess she was, even forgiving two of her Transgressions at separate times (Kissing other guys), I tend to get hyper focused on my work and prefer to work first, play later. I accepted my shortcomings and took responsibility for my lack of interest in her and redoubled my efforts.

Unfortunately, the last straw was when she confessed that she had given her virginity up to a stranger she met on the street. That essentially broke any and ALL feelings I had for her. She claimed she was in love, with her soul mate no less and after the fella got what he wanted from her, he in turn cheated on her with the "love" of his life. LOL. Karma.

Somethings can be forgiven, if you are evolved enough to understand why they happened and how to prevent them in the future, but walking out on your significant other, there's no justification for that. none.

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@TxOgal
12 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by Geminlove
There was a risk of him getting in trouble but i didnt think he would.... /.\ and its pretty bad since it concerns his job.

Goodluck with that. You broke the trust. If you truly love someone you would never risk getting them into trouble, this frankly means you used them for your own benefits even if you refuse to believe this! .. If you beg for him to firgive you and are truly sorry .. you got to show him how you will make up for what you've done and you got to be thoughtful. If this didnt work then let him go for good. Trust is hard to build back.