Keeping The Taurus Man Happy

What are definate do's and don'ts for the Taurus man in a relationship, and if you're a Taurus male thats in/has had a relationship with a Cancer female please tell the things you did/didn't like that she does/did. Thanks.

lol I guess Taurus men are hard to please, this board hasnt moved for days.

lol They are hard to please because most of them don't really know what they want. They get things one way and realize after a while it really isn't what they wanted. Only a mature bull is really ready for a relationship even though they think they are whenever they want one, they have to experience some heartbreak before really being able to see what it is they do and don't want out of a relationship which is why the bull first serious relationship usually ends in heartbreak while the 2nd serious relationship is usually a charm. Anyone who dates a bull has to always remain a mystery to him. That keeps him interested and on his toes. They like not being able to figure things out because once they do then the project is over and on to the next is what their thinking.

Im the same way, as a lady bull, with liking the challenge of figuring out the mystery, but for me its getting a map, finding a treasure chest, and working to get it open...but instead of falling away I sit down and enjoy the best part, enjoying the jewels that sparkle inside..how poetic lol.

Yes it was.

The truth hearts sometimes.

hurts I meant

lol she's right though and you being the bull you are wasn't going to allow her to tell you something about yourself that you don't believe to be true or if you know its true you didn't want to admit that she was right. Typical bull behavior.

Oh ok I see. She was using it for emotional gain. Well in that case you did right.

lol@ Merc typing with a lisp.

You're right CL, I hate for someone to tell me something about myself that Im not ready for them to know or Im not ready to admit. I hate this defensiveness but its kinda hard to change.

Yes there were alot of things I knew early on about my bull emotionally but I didn't say anything because I knew he would get defensive. I just did everything in a non verbal way which made him very comfortable in expressing how he felt and thats what I would go on instead of trying to get him to talk about it. I know how I am when it comes to speaking from the heart I'd rather just show you in my actions, so I sympathize with my bull when it comes to that which I know he gladly appreciates.

It'll be 2 yrs in Dec. What makes you ask?

Yep its been a ride but well worth it.

You know how you bulls are lol.

I didnt say anything about people telling me what to do. I said I hate when people tell me something about myself that Im not ready for them to know or that I dont want to admit...my agreeing with her simply shows that I dont mind that she knows this about me and Im ok with admitting it.

Merc and SF unlock your horns lol.

my horns arent locked, Im a peaceful Bull...like Ferdinand lol