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Our charts are pretty similar....

Me:

Sun — Aries
Moon — Leo
Mercury — Aries
Venus — Pisces
Mars — Taurus
Jupiter — Leo
Saturn — Aries
Uranus — Virgo
Neptune — Scorpio
Pluto — Virgo
Lilith — Taurus
Asc node — Aries


Him:

Sun — Taurus
Moon — Aquarius
Mercury — Aries
Venus — Aries
Mars — Taurus
Jupiter — Leo
Saturn — Aries
Uranus — Virgo
Neptune — Scorpio
Pluto — Virgo
Lilith — Taurus
Asc node — Aries

The main problem (at least for me) is communication. We are far away at the moment but can be mid conversation on line and all of a sudden, no arguement, no warning...he is GONE. This is so annoying to me. He then contacts me a day or two later like nothing happened. I understand that Taurus like to think about things or avoid topics that they don't want to talk about....but I find the disappearance without even saying "hey I need to run out for XXX" really rude.

He also asks a lot about my goals, my plans, what I am doing, etc but never shares his with me.

So Taurus folks...how do I get him to stop the abrupt disappearance without making him dig in more? Or is this just an aspect of the sign that I have to deal with or not? Why ask questions about goals and dreams if you don't want to share yours?

Whoops...spelling...LOL

Thanks guys...the disappearing usually comes when I ask a direct question. Like recently I ask if he had any doubts about an issue and he said:

"no, I have doubts about any of it"
so I asked....does that read...."no, I have NO doubts about any of it" or "No, I DO have doubt about any of it"

at which point he disappeared. The next day we are chatting away and I said, Hey you didn't clarify....disappeared again.

It wasn't a deep conversation or anything. And the first makes more sense from a sentence perspective. But I don't want to make assumptions.

Its just really frustrating.

And goals....he seems very interested in mine...but doesn't share his.