Harem, friend or foe?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by scorpvixen on Saturday, October 8, 2016 and has 4 replies.

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@scorpvixen
12 Years

how do you know if a Taurus man looks at you as a legitimate friend or as just a part of his Harem?

I keep hearing Taurus men have Harems, is a harem a group of women they sleep with but never commit to or girls they flirt with just to lead on? or do they even look at girls who are their friends as possible Harem members?

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@Season
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Personally I haven't known any Taurus men like this and that includes musicians who have lots of temptations. I guess if a Taurus guy in your world seems more of a collector of women, without valuing them as individuals, that would be an indicator of one who's has a harem. It should be pretty easy to tell.

Are you looking to become a member of a harem or to avoid it?

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@scorpvixen
12 Years

I don't want to be a part of his harem. I'm friends with him, just sometimes I can't tell if he's just having some friendly, flirting banter with a mate (me) or if he's treating me like how he'd treat a member of his harem (if he has one...I've only heard of "the harem" through this site).

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@GalacticFun89
12 YearsSagittarius

The ones i knew didnt really have a 'harem' of girls, because they were pretty picky.

The taurus guys i talked to, had a certain 'type' of girl they were interested in. Even the one who just wanted a hook up was still pretty picky about who he wanted. Lol

They can flirt thoughhhh.....

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Harem also can mean the second family that Taurus seem to build around them.

My Taurus brother has very close friends (men and women) he's known since he was in single digits and their all ride or die. As far as I know he hasn't slept with any of them.