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A Scorpio man may consider reconciliation if trust can be rebuilt, but it depends on the circumstances. He values loyalty and emotional depth, so repairing the relationship requires patience and honesty. Be cautious of rebound dynamics and ensure both are genuinely interested in a future together before pursuing reconciliation.
Posted by Piscesrisinggal13
I am an Aquarius woman with Pisces rising who has been close friends with a Scorpio male for more than two months now. At the time he was in an on and off relationship with his ex who broke up with him. He has been making up his mind about not getting back with her because she betrayed him and I don't know what she has done to ruin things. They're relationship was toxic and I opened up to him about my feelings recently and he said that I am an amazing girl and that he has thought about having something serious with me but hes not sure because he's still dealing with his ex and they're still talking about things and he hasn't asked me out because if he did things would be weird with his ex and that he's not a player so that's why he hasn't. He said he needs time to figure things out. Should I move on? I'm afraid to end up hurt if he decides to get back with her. I know he doesn't trust her and has fear of getting played again. He said he did fell in love with her and that she said she did as well. I know he doesn't want to lose me but he knows that if he gets back with her I'll move on. I want to know if there's any chances he won't get back with her.
You are JUST FRIENDS... If he's trying to work things out with his girlfriend step the hell back. You have nothing invested in him other than telling him how you feel about him. Why would he lose you if you are JUST FRIENDS? What are you doing threatening to end a friendship if he doesn't answer to you? MOVE ON...and leave him alone.
Posted by Rabbit
Not sure of the entire timeline here...but damn girl you sound like a vulture.
Posted by Rabbit
Not sure of the entire timeline here...but damn girl you sound like a vulture.Give him a chance to work things about before you descend on his corpse like a starving hyena.
😆 😆
*SWOOPS* Gonna gonna getttchhhaaa!!!! *makes chompy gnarly sounds like a scavenger* chomp chomp gnarl!!!
Posted by Rabbit
Not sure of the entire timeline here...but damn girl you sound like a vulture.Give him a chance to work things about before you descend on his corpse like a starving hyena.
Right! Jesus....
I think this guy is honest at least he did not ask u out when he still confuse about his ex. My ex is Scorpio too and as I know if Scorpio got hurt by someone they love,i
That wound gonna stay for long time,and somehow they will try to fix things out with her and somehow they just wNt to revenge. But they not easy to let things go. For sure.they will have them in their mind for a long long time .as me and my ex,we r in on and off and it's been a half of year now.
If you think he likes u enough then give him a chance to make up his mind. If u don't have patient to deal with trouble and easy get tired.then move on.
But yeah,I knew it's hurt but don't wait too long 🙂 And I thinking he get over his ex already and into enough then not difficult to make up his mind,I'm this case I think he still in love with his ex. And if I were you I won't choose to stay,too complicated.
Move on. He can't leave her even if he wanted too.. Scorpios are not ones to give up on someone they love even if they had done them wrong. Believe me I was with a gemini for four years with all the lies and cheating... Very toxic but I never have eup till I had nochoice because of him moving away for college.
He's still here for me, of course I have doubts as I am very insecure I didn't think he'd have feelings in the first place since we get along really well in most areas and understand each other and he has opened up about his feelings and personal problems.
I know he trusts me a lot and I appreciate that and he fears getting heartbroken and played again and he claims to be loyal and always uncertain whether the other person is or not when dating.
Hi Piscesrisinggal13,
I'm an aquarius female with a scorpio boyfriend of more than 2 years now and like others have suggested, it is best to keep your options open at this point. Also, it depends on how this scorpio male's ex betrayed him...Ultimately, scorpio men tend to give up on a relationship once they have been cheated on. At this moment, it seems like this scorpio male is still trying to salvage a semi-broken relationship. Therefore, continue to stay friends with him as you are in his radar too. Only time and patience will tell whether you both are meant to be.
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Be careful. You don’t want to become a rebound. If she damaged his trust, that may roll over into yall thing and you don’t want that. I would continue being his friend, and try holding off on all the other stuff. Although I’ll warn you don’t start telling him you want to only be friends unless you truly only want to be his friend, because once you’re in that department that’s where you will remain. I have a Scorpio that started out as a crush but he stuck me in the friend zone to keep me close because he too wasn’t over an ex. Crazy thing is later on down the line, she and I wound up hanging out together due to mutual friends.LOL! I had never met her, so I didn’t know she was his girlfriend until I showed up at my friend house and my bestfriend told me who she was. You should’ve seen his face when we all walked into his party together. It was crazy. I laughed all night.
He and I are still good friends, and I hate to say this but Scorpio’s seem a lot nicer to their friends then they do their mates in my opinion. I don’t know why. Like before I started dating a Scorp you couldn’t tell me they weren’t the most sweetest, down to earth, sexiest men, and extremely smart. When you date them though, oh boy. That’s when they start testing your love and devotion over and over, over and over. Make sure you’re ready, it’s a completely different ball game when you date him.