Hesitation... Can't move forward...

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Of course I do. It's stressing really. But once my mind is set I can't do anything about it. Sorry..Taurus with Aquarius moon here. But I know peeps that do the same thing and aren't Taurus..

I'll tell you what I am indecisive about majority time. Is what am I going to eat even if I know exactly on the menu, especially fast food..or even nice restaurant I go to.. I must think beforehand on what I will look for while I am driving there. Then whatever I find.. then chose from the 5 options. Haha

Sometimes I'm really decisive with someone I like and over the getting to know part. I can be indecisive about you though..when the infatuation thing dies down.. and then the other indecisive people's words come to truth or even white lies and can focus on details about what ever you ask them. It all depends upon the exact moment. Maybe that's why I don't rush anything really.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Of course I do. It's stressing really. But once my mind is set I can't do anything about it. Sorry..Taurus with Aquarius moon here. But I know peeps that do the same thing and aren't Taurus..

I'll tell you what I am indecisive about majority time. Is what am I going to eat even if I know exactly on the menu, especially fast food..or even nice restaurant I go to.. I must think beforehand on what I will look for while I am driving there. Then whatever I find.. then chose from the 5 options. Haha

Sometimes I'm really decisive with someone I like and over the getting to know part. I can be indecisive about you though..when the infatuation thing dies down.. and then the other indecisive people's words come to truth or even white lies and can focus on details about what ever you ask them. It all depends upon the exact moment. Maybe that's why I don't rush anything really.

lol... I can be like that too. I'm very decisive about the restaurant that I choose to go to with friends but if the menu has several options and money isn't an issue; it takes me forever to order. When our food arrives, I get food envy for what other customers ordered at other tables. #Taurus problems. I also get indecisive if I get stressed or let the feelings of others influence my decisions.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Argee 100%

How are you in friendship and relationship status?

With friends, I like to take it slow so maybe 6 months but i'm always watching because I've had friends that were one way and then much later they decide that they're comfortable enough to show the rest of their personality.

With romantic relationship, I expect the worst right off the bat and hope they prove me wrong.

So im neither decisive or indecisive just watchful.
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because you don't know what will happen? It's backwards but I wonder if any Taurus go from decisive to indecisive...



Yes I'm going thru it now. Once I graduated I had my mind set on this one career and was determined to make it happen but as I got older and life obstacles I have become indecisive and a bit doubtful.
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Why are you indecisive? Is it not what you want to do anymore? or have the obstacles made it hard to accomplish?

I've been thinking about this because I have some decisions to make. I'm hoping to ask myself this question in hopes of reaching an answer. "If it were easy, would I still do it?"

or the other question "if I were to win $ 50million today, would I still do it or pursue it?
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I have experienced this as well.
Blame it on my Moon Placement (Moon in Gemini).
I'm usually decisive once I have set a goal and set my mind to it,
But then another tempting situation presents itself.
Call it being overworked, and needing to slow down, taking a break and looking for an easier route.
Unfortunately I don't have the luck of the Irish.
The tempting risk becomes a regretful one...
And at times, I find myself still second-guessing my actions,
Even after careful thought and consideration to everything!
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
I have experienced this as well.
Blame it on my Moon Placement (Moon in Gemini).
I'm usually decisive once I have set a goal and set my mind to it,
But then another tempting situation presents itself.
Call it being overworked, and needing to slow down, taking a break and looking for an easier route.
Unfortunately I don't have the luck of the Irish.
The tempting risk becomes a regretful one...
And at times, I find myself still second-guessing my actions,
Even after careful thought and consideration to everything!

It sounds like the only problem you have is not giving in to your impulses because those usually set you back.
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Posted by VenusStar
Posted by Honeybunniie
Posted by VenusStar
because you don't know what will happen? It's backwards but I wonder if any Taurus go from decisive to indecisive...



Yes I'm going thru it now. Once I graduated I had my mind set on this one career and was determined to make it happen but as I got older and life obstacles I have become indecisive and a bit doubtful.

Why are you indecisive? Is it not what you want to do anymore? or have the obstacles made it hard to accomplish?

I've been thinking about this because I have some decisions to make. I'm hoping to ask myself this question in hopes of reaching an answer. "If it were easy, would I still do it?"

or the other question "if I were to win $ 50million today, would I still do it or pursue it?
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It's a mixture of things... I really want to be a successful stylist and makeup artist yet I want to become a dermatologist... but now since I have my daughter I want to be able to raise her right and be there for her so it makes me want to get back in school so I can go to med school so I can provide comfortably for us but then the other side of me love the traveling and meeting new faces and giving women confidence through making them feel beautiful... It's really pulling at me. But u should keep asking urself those questions Bc even tho a job with great pay is wonderful, you will still hate to wake up to it each morning if there's no passion behind it