Hey Bulls- Where's your Venus?

Tell me the following please:
-Your Venus Sign and House Position.
-Aspects to Venus.

-Your philosophy on your self-worth and the value of things.
-Do you live up (or striving) to your ideal values?

Posted by Hotbeefy
Venus Cancer in 9th house.

Venus semi-square Sun
Moon square venus
Venus bi-quintile Saturn
Venus conjunct midheaven
Venus sesquiquadrates pluto
Venus Square Ascendant

In honest, I never felt self-worth since I'm nothing but neglected hollow shadowling. I should move out to another country. 😐

Im Aries and my Mars is Pisces...my worth is found through combat, in a transcendental way, I win by not winning, I fight by not fighting. Herein lies my self-worth, of fighting.

Venus Taurus, in House 11

Venus square Uranus
Venus trine Mars
Mercury semi-square Venus
Venus sextile Ascendant

I don't really have a philosophy on my self-worth and the value of things. All I know is that I don't like disappointing my own taste and pleasure enjoyment when it comes to the matters of Venus. If I do, I have a hard time forgiving myself.

Venus in Taurus - Midheaven
Conjunction Mercury - Venus
Conjunction Sun - Venus

I'm sentimental and believe every experience counts for the growth I experience - I base my own self-worth on my ability to grow, emotionally, spiritually, intellectually. Not staying stuck. SO my self-worth comes from my ability to do some reflecting. If I slip into an emotional dark cloud, I allow myself to go through it and come out of it changed and with a new perspective on why I feel certain things.

I struggle with when I'm not able to follow through on plans. That gnaws at my self-worth but I've become more flexible with that lately. Having said that, I hope at least that when others make plans involving another person that they are able to at least try their hardest to make those plans a reality - I do.

As the years have progressed I've realized that my ideals are changing though I find myself not only using them as a moral compass, but feeling apprehensive of those who seem to not live by their own

Venus on Gemini, 11th house

Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Quincunx Uranus
Venus Quincunx Neptune

Value of myself? High. This is 1st house Leo and Moon speaking. I value others too, but in "love", I change it up a lot. I dont wanna be tied down, I dont need or want someone else to control me. If i want, I do my things and no one can say otherwise even when I love the person. I do as I please.

My ideals are has always been the same. I know what I want and how I pursue it but i change my scenery aka home, appearance, style a lot. I cannot stay in one point, I need to have some rollercoaster in my life, yet love stablity, yet need variety, yet want to be home at all times. BUT in the end, all things get done.

I have a Venus in Aries.
Moon in Gemini.
Sun in Taurus.

I consider this a well-balanced mixture.
I have a strong sense of who I am, and I'm quite independent, & unapologetic about my viewpoints.
We're living in the Age of Aquarius, where 'traditionalists' have become the outsiders.
I'm brave enough to see 'tedious' as 'stable', 'fidelity' as 'sexy', and 'responsibility' as ' the highest form of respect."
Does my Venus in Aries need to be entertained every once in a while.
Nah.
Drama is over-rated.
Save that energy for the bedroom.
My Venus in Aries will be sure to thank you. 😛

My Moon in Gemini gives me some flexibility.
The ability to understand people.
To empathize with them.
As different as my viewpoints may be from the people I have the ability to understand,
I still respect individuals who are REAL, possess a raw, unfiltered sense of honesty, and who do not hide their true nature.

Taurus Sun, Venus in Pisces in the eleventh house. I think it makes me dreamy and idealistic.

Also Jupiter in Pisces in eleventh house. So I am supposed to gain a lot from friends. Pisces makes me very skeptical in relationships, and I also find it hard to move on. Pisces is good for money attraction, love of water.

I have Moon, Mars and Saturn in Cancer so I am pretty watery for a Taurus.

Venus in Taurus 27 degrees
Venus trine Jupiter
Venus trine Saturn
Venus opposition Uranus

Self worth has always been a contradiction for me. I do not show it but I automatically think I am superior to everyone. This has been true since I was a young child. No one would ever suspect this. However, once I realize someone is at least at my level I put them on a pedestal and feel unworthy of being around them. I crave their acceptance and feel that they dislike me even when they have given every indication that they like me (friendship, relationship, familial, whatever). I will kick myself for not meeting what I imagine their expectations are.

Posted by evalani05
Venus Aries in 3th House

I believe that to be at peace with yourself is more important than to focus on your self esteem. Analyzing yourself can be dangerous if you can't control your thoughts properly.

It takes a certain amount of darkness,self discipline,reasoning and battles with your own mind.

No one should validate themselves through the eyes of the others and yes it's about others,if we would be alone on this Earth self esteem would have not existed.

Why i should be responsible for what others think or see of me?Why i should get myself charged with all that,good or bad?Why i should compete with others or let someone have all that power on me by actually let them project their own thoughts,experiences,accomplishments,failures,vision,energy on myself?

How can you even have a self worth if you always leave up to others expectations?This life it's not about others,it's about your own journey,i know it sounds selfish but it's meant to be exactly that.

And being selfish it hurts,pain is good,it makes you wonder,it makes you learn and it makes you cut all your ropes.

But it's not about being selfish on a daily basis,it's about knowing what you want but at the same time hurting someone on the process,it's inevitable.

I don't think that people belong to one another,like a possession...the more you get to know a person,the more you're closer to lose her,knowing separates things from one another,people,thoughts,being certain of something gets you limited and it's closing all your vision,it gets you settled.

Being at peace with yourself doesn't mean you should stop from living or do your best,on the contrary,work hard,achieve your dreams,never give up but do it because you own it to yourself and because you are drived by you,not because of someone.

You are unique and you should follow that uniqueness!

+1 🙂 Eva...This pretty much sums it up!

"Like minds have like souls and like souls attract minds like mine!" Good stuff lady!

My Venus is in Aries & it's at the end of my 10th house.

I find myself to be super almost obsessively determine and have a lot of drive. I feel like I'm a bit entitled to things which I hate. I love challenges when it comes to love but I love whole heartedly and super protective towards fam and lovers. I have a love/hate relationship with this placement. I dnt know Bc it is in my 10th house but I always fall in love with the ideal of things but ignore the realty of it.

Venus in Gemini, 5th house
Venus trine Saturn

I find that pleasure and a heavy conscience are intertwined in me. Perhaps a bit self-righteous. I'm very big on duty to my family and loved ones, as well as providing them, and myself, the freedom and comfort to honest expression.