sparkledust
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Hey! Let's talk about sex, babies.
please help? I don't even know what I'm asking really. I'm new to all this..
ask him out?...
You said he loves to play mind games and you don't trust him.. I understand that you're physically/sexually attracted to him, but why would you want to sleep with anyone you don't trust? Be safe, be smart, and if your gut tells you he's no good, find someone else. Stay away from this guy. You'll find someone else you're sexually attracted to. Honestly. Don't overthink and obsess over this guy - the more you think about him, the more you'll make him into someone he's not in your mind, and the more you'll want him. Don't do that to yourself. xx
^^ Good point.
I went through/kind of still going through a similar situation with a Leo - it's one of those cycles that you really want to get out of.
Sometimes I think it's just the push and pull factor, there's something incredibly addictive about that kind of tension.
The Leo is so far detached from the kind of person I think I would be attracted to and yet I can't help but find him or the
idea of him being so damn attractive. It frustrates me to no end. Which is why I think TG stressed on an important point:
"Don't overthink and obsess over this guy - the more you think about him, the more you'll make him into someone he's not in your mind, and the more you'll want him. Don't do that to yourself." - I could completely relate to this. The Idea of him becomes so much more appealing than who he actually is.
I went through/kind of still going through a similar situation with a Leo - it's one of those cycles that you really want to get out of.
Sometimes I think it's just the push and pull factor, there's something incredibly addictive about that kind of tension.
The Leo is so far detached from the kind of person I think I would be attracted to and yet I can't help but find him or the
idea of him being so damn attractive. It frustrates me to no end. Which is why I think TG stressed on an important point:
"Don't overthink and obsess over this guy - the more you think about him, the more you'll make him into someone he's not in your mind, and the more you'll want him. Don't do that to yourself." - I could completely relate to this. The Idea of him becomes so much more appealing than who he actually is.
Yes I agree with artichoke and have to say it is the push pull thing. I just went throw this with a cap guy. And I have to say that right now he has done a disappearing act and of course I will not run after him yet I want him back so bad I hate it! I think that two things are going on when this happens. 1) I think that what a lot of it comes down to is that for the most part us girls are so level headed, logical and slow moving that when we meet somebody and the chemistry is off the charts with it is exciting and addictive because we are not use to it. 2) Most of us girls are just so darn amazing and irresistible that we are use to men falling all over us (not trying to be conceded here so please dont take it that way) so when they do this push pull thing it throws us off and we start wondering what is going on. In a strange why it makes us take notice of them more...it is kinda demented but true or at least for me it has been. 😢 I do have to say that I don't think it is the best thing for us though because we really do crave the stability and these men will probably never give it to us. I also have to agree with TG with the don't over think and obsess over him I was doing this but had to grab myself and come back to reality because like she said when we do that we start to make him into something that he is not in our mind. Its hard but push those thoughts aside and find something or somebody else more deserving to focus all that attention on.
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