Honest Advice on a Taurus Male relationship

Hello all. I would really appreciate some kind insightful advice on my relationship. It is down on bended knee. I'm a Leo Female. We are just shy of 2 years together- living together for 1. At this point, our relationship is so broken. Being a Leo, I really have a hard time letting go. I would like understand parts of him that I am not, and your advice on whether the relationship is even salvageable/worth it. I vaccilate between wanting to —fix?? it, and feeling he isn't respecting me or in a place of maturity to contribute honestly in a serious relationship.

Key Issues:
I will preface this by saying, he is very spoiled, and very very attached to his overbearing Cancer mother who is any anyone with her son. She disliked me before she met me, and we don't speak the same language, but she makes judgements just the same.

?? I felt he was selfish/overlooking me in the relationship once we lived together. He would lie down on the couch when I started cooking, and expect to be waited on. I'm a leo, this is not my style at all. I work hard and contribute to the rent so I didn't feel this was fair or gentlemanly. Traditional perhaps, but it didn't feel good to me. I started to feel like a doormat.

Another MAJOR issue is his harem. I??ve seen this mentioned here. One girl in particular- a Taurus is VERY VERY overbearing/inappropriate. She used to post things saying she wished they could have a —slumber party?? on her facebook posts. Then always tells him they are kindred spirits. She tried to buddy up with me in a way I felt was motive driven/too enthusiastic??_ I felt it was to disarm me and get to him. She has been a major source of the breakdown regarding us. I told him, he needed to handle that situation and it was clear she was in love with him. I told him the relationships made me uncomfortable and something was not right about it. This girl would call him holidays/whenever she had a problem and it cut into our time. Also, I just didn't like her!!!!! I felt she was fake/creepy. Ah, let me include, he looks like a leading male (very good looking) and shes about 500 lbs, and claims to be a sexologist??_.She also writes him letters about her —boyfriends?? that are models and bodybuilders. You can tell it is all made up, cause the names/people/titles change every week. Point is, he didn't hear me out but reacted VERY defensively and would always make me feel like the —bad guy?? or —odd man out??.

Cont'd

I found that so deeply hurtful that I started acting out and detaching.
?? Now we are in a situation where we haven't slept in the same bed for a week. Barely talk. Can hardly have a conversation without freaking out on each other. He seems to have no tolerance for conversation/critique/conflict, but I will admit, now it's just very extreme. I feel so confused now. I loved this man, and I genuinely thought we would have a serious future together. But he puts me in very inapprorpriate circumstances that really are not good for me. Right now he is like a differnet person. Wont really even look at me when I talk to him. We are apart on holiday. And when I was upset and said we need to move away from each other he said, —It's already in the works??. I was like what! I feel he's very secretive too. I found out later, that the girl did admit she was in love with him. He stopped talking to her, then she came back and said no, she was just confused LOL. RIiiiiiiight. And he never told me about that. Fishy huh? The whole situation has got me feeling/looking crazy. I love him, but I know it's not right. He needs to grow up a bit, and I'm not his doormat/ serogate mother. I know this was long, but I would love to hear any opinions on this. Thank you very much for you time.


I apologize for any weird typos. My autocorrect made some odd decisions- but hopefully the message is clear enough.