How do you breakup with a friend

So I have this taurus friend,she always gets herself into trouble,she managed to fight with everyone who is close to her.it frustrates me cause when she gets into trouble I always have to help her out since her family stays too far.I am one of her two close friends but the other friend lives far.

I am worn out,I am tired.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Unhide your message Aqua! Just fade out is the best way, you don’t need to make a speech.

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Unhide your message Aqua! Just fade out is the best way, you don’t need to make a speech.

Agreed. on the other hand i get the sense that you want to say a formal goodbye to her?

i dont understand the need for speeches and formal goodbyes but you could let her know how you feel, how exhausted you are. You still care about her but its been taking a toll on you and you need a break. Whether its permanent break it can be up to you in the future ie just fade out. i just feel like you still care about her a lot.

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Unhide your message Aqua! Just fade out is the best way, you don’t need to make a speech.

Agreed. on the other hand i get the sense that you want to say a formal goodbye to her?

i dont understand the need for speeches and formal goodbyes but you could let her know how you feel, how exhausted you are. You still care about her but its been taking a toll on you and you need a break. Whether its permanent break it can be up to you in the future ie just fade out. i just feel like you still care about her a lot. click to expand

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I do care, but EY! Hw long am I suppose to be there for her for? M tired!!! My other issue is that I am scared if I break up with her she might take it the wrong way and start spilling beans,I told her a lot of things,very private things .and she has vengeful tendencies

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Posted by Horsey

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Unhide your message Aqua! Just fade out is the best way, you don’t need to make a speech.

Agreed. on the other hand i get the sense that you want to say a formal goodbye to her?

i dont understand the need for speeches and formal goodbyes but you could let her know how you feel, how exhausted you are. You still care about her but its been taking a toll on you and you need a break. Whether its permanent break it can be up to you in the future ie just fade out. i just feel like you still care about her a lot. click to expand

I do care, but EY! Hw long am I suppose to be there for her for? M tired!!! My other issue is that I am scared if I break up with her she might take it the wrong way and start spilling beans,I told her a lot of things,very private things .and she has vengeful tendencies click to expand

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lol is that why she is making enemies left and right and getting in fights? Tbh even if all your beans came out, she'll still look like the bad guy in the end. She doesn't seem to have a good reputation already anw. If shes smart, she'll know that its not in her best interest to talk bad about you. Nobody would really take her seriously? If she's not, then i just suggest slowly fading out. Do you have to talk to her on regular basis?

Posted by ufo
i just disappear, fade away and stop replying

That won't be easy since we work together

Posted by Horsey

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Unhide your message Aqua! Just fade out is the best way, you don’t need to make a speech.

Agreed. on the other hand i get the sense that you want to say a formal goodbye to her?

i dont understand the need for speeches and formal goodbyes but you could let her know how you feel, how exhausted you are. You still care about her but its been taking a toll on you and you need a break. Whether its permanent break it can be up to you in the future ie just fade out. i just feel like you still care about her a lot. click to expand

I do care, but EY! Hw long am I suppose to be there for her for? M tired!!! My other issue is that I am scared if I break up with her she might take it the wrong way and start spilling beans,I told her a lot of things,very private things .and she has vengeful tendencies click to expand

lol is that why she is making enemies left and right and getting in fights? Tbh even if all your beans came out, she'll still look like the bad guy in the end. She doesn't seem to have a good reputation already anw. If shes smart, she'll know that its not in her best interest to talk bad about you. Nobody would really take her seriously? If she's not, then i just suggest slowly fading out. Do you have to talk to her on regular basis? click to expand

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We work for same company,her desk is right next to mine.

Posted by Ellygant
Slow fade normally works with friends tbh. That and once they realize you don’t have the energy to care anymore I notice they start to handle their own butter more.

I had a gal who I was a bad enabler for. I didn’t want to do that anymore. Got tired of breaking up fist fights and dragging her drunk ass home and over tipping uber drivers for her being a belligerent drunk. So one night in mid crisis I just left. Said I tried to help all I could but there wasn’t anything more I could do. She freaked and called me 17 times. I ignored.

Next time I saw her she was sweet and mild mannered. She tried a few other times to act out but I just stood my ground. Never dropped my life to clean up her mess. Eventually she stopped calling and it worked out.

Your former friend was trouble,I like how you handled it.

Mine even has anger issues,she fights with everyone anywhere,and what I hate the most is that she likes blaming me for things that she did,or if I try to help her and things don't seem to run accordingly she wud blame me until I wanna give up,but because of my good heart,I find myself helping her again.

Like last month she was in jail because of fighting with a gal,then I looked for a lawyer for her,then the lawyer could not take her out on same day,she started screaming and kicking saying she wants refund.

However the lawyer managed to take her out the next day.

Posted by Aquastic

Posted by Ellygant
Slow fade normally works with friends tbh. That and once they realize you don’t have the energy to care anymore I notice they start to handle their own butter more.

I had a gal who I was a bad enabler for. I didn’t want to do that anymore. Got tired of breaking up fist fights and dragging her drunk ass home and over tipping uber drivers for her being a belligerent drunk. So one night in mid crisis I just left. Said I tried to help all I could but there wasn’t anything more I could do. She freaked and called me 17 times. I ignored.

Next time I saw her she was sweet and mild mannered. She tried a few other times to act out but I just stood my ground. Never dropped my life to clean up her mess. Eventually she stopped calling and it worked out.

Your former friend was trouble,I like how you handled it.

Mine even has anger issues,she fights with everyone anywhere,and what I hate the most is that she likes blaming me for things that she did,or if I try to help her and things don't seem to run accordingly she wud blame me until I wanna give up,but because of my good heart,I find myself helping her again.

Like last month she was in jail because of fighting with a gal,then I looked for a lawyer for her,then the lawyer could not take her out on same day,she started screaming and kicking saying she wants refund.

However the lawyer managed to take her out the next day. click to expand

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She sounds like a mess. This kind of people who don't appreciate others going out of their way for them... Just let her self-destruct. Cut your heartstrings now lol don't let her hurt or use you anymore. She is an adult and should be responsible for herself, not depending on others to clean up her mess. Let her face her consequences. Like the gal that Ellygant mentioned, Maybe losing your friendship will finally push her to face her issues and get better.

Posted by Horsey

Posted by Aquastic

Posted by Ellygant
Slow fade normally works with friends tbh. That and once they realize you don’t have the energy to care anymore I notice they start to handle their own butter more.

I had a gal who I was a bad enabler for. I didn’t want to do that anymore. Got tired of breaking up fist fights and dragging her drunk ass home and over tipping uber drivers for her being a belligerent drunk. So one night in mid crisis I just left. Said I tried to help all I could but there wasn’t anything more I could do. She freaked and called me 17 times. I ignored.

Next time I saw her she was sweet and mild mannered. She tried a few other times to act out but I just stood my ground. Never dropped my life to clean up her mess. Eventually she stopped calling and it worked out.

Your former friend was trouble,I like how you handled it.

Mine even has anger issues,she fights with everyone anywhere,and what I hate the most is that she likes blaming me for things that she did,or if I try to help her and things don't seem to run accordingly she wud blame me until I wanna give up,but because of my good heart,I find myself helping her again.

Like last month she was in jail because of fighting with a gal,then I looked for a lawyer for her,then the lawyer could not take her out on same day,she started screaming and kicking saying she wants refund.

However the lawyer managed to take her out the next day. click to expand

She sounds like a mess. This kind of people who don't appreciate others going out of their way for them... Just let her self-destruct. Cut your heartstrings now lol don't let her hurt or use you anymore. She is an adult and should be responsible for herself, not depending on others to clean up her mess. Let her face her consequences. Like the gal that Ellygant mentioned, Maybe losing your friendship will finally push her to face her issues and get better. click to expand

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A fucken mess,evertime she tells me we gonna be friends forever,I just feel like screaming,bruh it's bad, she's like a bad dream