@Evan1211
8 Years
He won’t let me go
The axis of obsession. Good luck.
Well.ive got the opposite. The ghoster, good luck.
i f'n love scorpios. good luck!
Why can't you make it work should be your actual question...
You obviously have a connection with each other, you can make it work if you honestly tried.
That consists of leaving your expectations at the door.
17 years and he hasn’t committed?! Seems like your a back up option. How many more years are you willing to do this... I’d be done after month 3.
Posted by Impulsv
Why do we let them return is a better question lol
The chemistry is unreal. Nobody I’ve ever met can top that😩
Posted by MadHatter
Sounds like you don't want him to let you go..
I have to agree with @wildflower, it takes 2 to tango.We’re adults now. I truly don’t know what to think anymore besides what a waste of time in a sense it has been. I don’t know what he’s afraid of or what the fuck is really the reason for keeping one foot in the door. Taurus men are infamous for saying exactly what they mean wether it hurts your feelings or not. Everytime we don’t talk for periods of time it starts to hurt more. Just can’t imagine walking away forever unless that’s my only option-
Posted by MadHatter
Posted by Evan1211
Posted by MadHatter
Sounds like you don't want him to let you go..
I have to agree with @wildflower, it takes 2 to tango.We’re adults now. I truly don’t know what to think anymore besides what a waste of time in a sense it has been. I don’t know what he’s afraid of or what the treetrunk is really the reason for keeping one foot in the door. Taurus men are infamous for saying exactly what they mean wether it hurts your feelings or not. Everytime we don’t talk for periods of time it starts to hurt more. Just can’t imagine walking away forever unless that’s my only option- click to expand
Give us some context.
When and where did you meet?
How consistent is the relationship?
Do you fight/argue a lot?
Do you live near each other?
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We met 17 years ago. A friend and I got lost driving on a very hot summer day. As we drove there was a huge pond and noticed the house was a ways from it. We pulled up and jumped in to cool off. As soon as we get out, we got caught and there he was.
We fight about me by spending enough time or him not having enough time. But it’s never been so bad. I think it was always bad timing. When he was ready I wasn’t and vice versa.
And yes we live about 20 mins apart. We both have dated other people and it’s never worked out. So we’ll spend maybe a few months together then something happens. He’s busy wth work which he travels for or I don’t have time because of my obligations. IDK. I do know it’s there. Just can’t seem to get it together.
i think you have to wonder why in 17 years you haven't made it a priority. if work and conflicting schedules are enough to drive you apart then how much effort are either of you willing to give.
if that's been the pattern for all this time, why would now be a time to change for either of you?
Posted by jeane
i think you have to wonder why in 17 years you haven't made it a priority. if work and conflicting schedules are enough to drive you apart then how much effort are either of you willing to give.
if that's been the pattern for all this time, why would now be a time to change for either of you?
Maybe because we’ve lived our lives and maybe we’ve tried to see where life took the both of us. Or maybe I’m just delusional. It would make a hell of a story if it did work out. The fact the both of us have been hurt maybe? Maybe atleast having the friendship isn’t worth losing it all of it ends badly. I could go on. We were very young and we aren’t now. Life has a funny way of showing you what’s really important. And it takes effort and patience. Love doesn’t conquer all. Thank you all for your advice
I don't believe that. You have to act. You don't have to convince your mind when your heart is telling you something. I am sure you are not a toy for him.if that is the case then atleast ask. act. decide.
Posted by DeleterNerd
Find a virgo who you can rule together with and bring a new order to the galaxy.
Virgo and Taurus ftw
Posted by OCJack
Posted by LadyNeptune
17 years and he hasn’t committed?! Seems like your a back up option. How many more years are you willing to do this... I’d be done after month 3.
3 months? I'd be done the first time they leave. click to expandclick to expand
Sure. Let’s pretend you have options. Fun game!
Posted by OCJack
Posted by LadyNeptune
Sure. Let’s pretend you have options. Fun game!
You're the one waiting 3 months like you DON'T have options... so. Also, the whole concept of "options" is pretty... retarded. You do realize that you're admitting that your current BF is expendable? At least when I get "involved" with someone it's actual real love, cause you know, I can't just up and replace them at the drop of a hat? Cause I don't want to.That's the only reason I wouldn't have options, not because there is a lack of people attracted to me. click to expand
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Cause saying I would bail on this ghosting behavior during the first stages of dating is totes me saying my relationship is expendable. Ok 👍
Funny. I remember you spamming the threads and front page with your ‘real love’ for meena and yet it took less than 48hrs for you to replace her with melody...
You do realize your a big fat hyprocrite, right?
The truth is it is not going anywhere. imagine 17 yrs. Hell No!
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You taurus men are something else! I’m a Scorpio (yes, you heard that right ☺️) so you can pretty much write and finish the story if you wanted to.. lol it’s been 17 years and no matter what he always comes back for one reason or another but we can’t ever make it stick. If it’s not work or conflicting schedules it’s SOMETHING! I love him. I have expressed that I’m so many ways, but I’m really ready to try AGAIN. I just want to know why he keeps coming back? Why do taurus men recycle? Will he ever try to commit? And the story continues...