How not to mess up second chance with Taurus Guy

So here it is ...second time running and all of you guys - I need your advice. From my other post some of you already know that I messed up with a taurus guy waving him goodbye. I felt I had good reasons, or maybe I felt very unhappy and upset, that I am getting nowhere with him - and at the worng time and moment and place - I have send a dreadful email saying how unhappy I was that is not working out between us etc etc and ended it with "goodbye and goodluck in your life". I felt that since knew each other only briefly it would be the easiest thing to do - to let him go and it proved in fact the hardest. So three weeks (three miserable weeks) later I swallowed my pride and send another email literally BEGGING for forgiveness...and he agreed to meet up and send and email...5 min after reading my apologies. In the end - we are going out to dinner next week and I really really do not want to mess it up for the second time. He will play it cool now - and I assume the punishment will be served coldblooded, but oh well I can cope with it. The truth is the sheer thought that I might loose him again makes me weep. All I really want to say is how much I care for him and how much I want to be with him and I can see that my affection can easily backfire - I will scare him off. But I think it is going well since he send me two photos of his son today and he pretty much said he will drive to see me ( nearly 1 hour on the Highway). So I am happy. Extatic even !!! But all of you people - please tell me what to do and what not to say so it will not be our last date. He will play it cool...oh I can just feel the chill🙂but I can cope with everything. From his side - he actually knows I am all yours. When I sent out that apologetic email I basically said " if you feel you can still find a spce for me in your future as much as I have found one for you in mine...then let me comeback to you. A bit mushy...but there you go. I cannot stop how I feel about him. HELP HELP HELP !!! 🙂

Don't worry Puca, if he agreed to meet you he still has feelings for you. Remember, chances are he is going through the same emotionally tense time as you...such is the beauty of Scorpio/Taurus relationships. Be positive 🙂

ok so let's list it:

I was born on the 30th October:
Sun - Scorpio 6? 35'
Moon - Scorpio 8? 25'
Mercury - Scorpio 8? 30'
Venus - Scorpio 23? 19'
Mars - Libra 6? 20'
Jupiter - Scorpio 14? 18'
Saturn - Taurus 20? 08'
Uranus - Libra 10? 53'
Neptune - Scorpio 29? 44'
Pluto - Virgo 28? 38'
Ascendant- Sagittarius 28? 09'
Midheaven - Scorpio 3? 43'

He was born on the 13th of May, but have no time of birth:

Sun - Taurus 22?15'
Moon - ?
Mercury - 10? 51'
Venus - 11? 53'
Mars - Gemini 3?03'
Jupiter - Leo 26? 30'
Saturn - Aries 19? 59'
Uranus - Virgo 25? 15'
Neptune - Scorpio 25? 15'
Pluto - Virgo 20? 16'

So - have you got any comments? Would it work out at all between us? Thanks

sorry - deleted something:

for him:
Mercury - Gemini 10? 51'
Venus - Taurus 11? 53'

That's all. Any comments and advice welcome. Thanks !!!!

Ditto!. I am not even a typical Scorpio (apparently) since I dont act as usual ones (again apparently). I can just sit and watch how the situation develops and...in rare moments of upset and unhappiness...I write dramatic emails and say dramatic words that I later on have to "swallow". Yes I gather I master apologising style pretty well, and to me if I feel saying " I am so srry" is going to buy the peace - then so be it. The trouble is - I never really had to go after guys - they usually go after me and it's the guys who the the "leg work". Not this time - oh no no no. I am absolutely swallowed and swayed by this Taurus and there is no hope on the horison if he actually asked me of for this dinner out of "charity". I kind of like the little aggrevise and dominant types - so I can play little woman, would feel secured in the blanket of his arms and oh oh oh...I am going too poetic now and dreamy. So I will sit and wait and I guess I have to take whatever he will decide one way or the other. And of course I just want it to be be with him happily and ever after 🙂 And how do I tell him this so he will not run off mortified by the intensity? I truly dont know.

Thanks...I will prepare kidnapping plan🙂I might actually have to go and get him. But when I see him I am just choking and drowning and...actually that is an idea - maybe I should faint and let him perform cpr on me lol lol

Anyway - can anyone of you maybe look at the our charts and give some light what chances we have compatibility wise? Thanks🙂

pucagirl

For a taurus to get rejected by someone and then give that person a second chance is a BIG DEAL. Most ppl do not get a second chance with us after they turn us down. So he definetly has feelings for you.

Now what you need to understand is that bulls detest flakiness and wishy-washy types. If you say something mean it and dont go back on your word ever. Once he is convinced that you wil be there for him no matter what then he will let his feelings be known to u. But at this point of time, it will take a whole lotta effort on ur part to not lose your momentum. You get him feeling loved, pampered and secure and he shud be yours forever.

By the looks of it, you seem to be in love,gurl. Hope things work out for u.

Thank you to you all. I didn't want to say it but I guess indeed I am in love. I am only hoping that he can reciprocate. Oh yes I am dreaming and hoping and dreaming and hoping, going through my wardrobe and trying to decide - sweet summer dress? blouse and shorts or slacks...if he would only know what I am going through - all for him 🙂 yes you all can laugh 🙂

I actually know that now I will have to do the leg work, the reassuring the more loving and the more understanding - because I basically messed up. I can see what you are saying - I am a lucky girl to get another chance with him, but I am just thinking - what if he just will want to be friends for now? We going out next Wednesday and till then is it OK to call him? send him email and pray he will replay or do I just wait for him to do it ( he probably won't). He has so much on his plate now...changing his career path wanting to be a pilot. Oh all of you men - we girls just have to love you and hate you and love you again 🙂

So...to update you all - Goodwishers 🙂

We are meeting tonight!!! I cannot wait !!! I cannot wait!!!

Anyway - it has all been OK and on Sunday night we had rather flirty text messages. That was Sunday, today is Wednesday and I havent heard from him at all. I did send him text messages and he didnt reply and I am wondering if he is so quiet now because he thinks - he let himself go a bit on Sunday ( and therefore shown that he still cares about me) and kind of got me to know what his feelings are, and now he regrets doing it just in case he might get hurt again, or, he has changed his mind and I am standing a good chance of getting stood up? Why is he silent - oh why?

I am sick with worry, that he changed his mind and went "back to the shell". And my sexy summer number ( red dress) is hanging sadly on the hanger. 😢

Is it normal? Thanks a bunch for any comments! 🙂

so what happened—? did you guys meet and how did it go?

So what happened?

Nothing. He phoned me late and said he cannot come because he just left the office - and that was already 8pm. He sounded soooo shattered and just overtired. I really felt sorry for him. Actually in all honesty i wasnt mad at him for cancelling - he really has a lot on his head now. But since I am a proper drama queen (in denial) I send another email. I did say exactly how I feel about him and I did say "I want you not anybody else" and "that I want to be for him always". But I meant it. I kinda asked him to try to say how things are one way or the other but I dont think I can actually make him do it, right?And he read it and replied about 30 min later with email:

"Thanks for the mail. Wow! Very long mail, you where your heart on your
sleeve don't you. That's a good thing I think.I am will meet with you again no problem. But I don't want the intensity of a relationship you are requesting 😉 at this moment in time. I have a lot going on, and I feel very upside down at this moment in time. According to my father I am a rudder-less boat in a stormy sea. (Make of that what you will.)So basically I am all over the place at the moment. I am thinking of selling my lovely house I have spent so much time and effort on .-( to then go and do my flying. I question myself as to weather this is the right course of action but only time will tell. Anyway we will meet up. I am just wrapping everything jobs wise up at the moment, basically closing everything down in anticipation of my flying.
Speak soon."


So now I am thinking - I need to wait and wait and wait and there is a long way ahead of me to actually make him, put me into his future. Or maybe he is just trying to tell me to "bugger off" in a kind of polite way? I obviously cannot see it, otherwise I would not post it.

Wow somehow I managed to come across this, it's so similar to what haopened between me and my taurus After I messed up. I apologized and asked him to meet and talk and he agreed but then he ended up canceling... Why do taurus do that? Anyone can give some input? This post has been there for so long, would be curious to find out how it turned out for pucagirl and her taurus 🙂

Dont know what's goin on with mine met last April spent 3 amazin months together but I kept rushin him he backed away for few wks said respect his decision n give him space so I did then he came bk but hed gone cold n weird said this isnt what am realli like said it was just sex now not a relationship what it started out as workin towards then disappears again then few wks later in Oct comes no says wants casual just us but now am thinking he means casual sex just us not exclusive nxt step to commitment hes hung around on n off for 10 months now n now havent seen him since beg of dec said hed c me new yr txt 2 notes over xmas for 2 hrs not done that in months wished me happy new yr n now nothin when I told him I'd realised now y the slow n I'd stop show him am sorry etc n that I've changed etc just let me show u he replied leave me alone now what does it mean hes said it ages ago in Sept n I've seen him since this is longest I've not seen him for is it space he wants or over

You can't rush and get ahead of a man. I don't care what his sign is. He knows you're interested, now live your own life and let him reach out when and if he's ready.