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How should a taurus female communicate w sagittarius bf?
Posted by Blairjones512You are a Taurus and you hold A LOT of resentment for him. Let him go your resentment will never fade. This relationship will never work.
1. Should I wait till I see him in person and just say I wanna talk about our past mistakes in order to move on?
2. Text him about the situation and just be blunt and to the point
3.) Talk in person and be super calm and chill
I'm a Taurus and I have A LOT of resentment because he broke up with me out of nowhere because of feeling tied down and routine making him feel like we weren't progressing after a year of dating.
-I wanna talk about how I don't want to get hurt again without seeing it coming
-i dont trust him
-I feel like something is off i dont have any real proof but I just feel like he is getting bored again because we're too comfortable with each other so he's not putting in an effort to make it passionate, fun, or exciting.
-He only invites me to his plans and doesn't go to my plans. And when i go out with him and his friends he expects me to start talking to someone random the whole time and to let him do his own thing with his friends and said "I like the couples that can go out together but do their own thing when they are out with friends." (but i dont know his friends so it's awk talking to random ppl when I went to see him)
If you don't trust him (who can blame you) there's no relationship.
If they can break up with you once, they can (and probably will) do it again. Don't be a sucker for on-and-off relationships. Let this one go, he sounds like a pain in the ass.
If they can break up with you once, they can (and probably will) do it again. Don't be a sucker for on-and-off relationships. Let this one go, he sounds like a pain in the ass.
You don't sound like you are compatible. You mentioned in another post how you don't like to be alone... well I think it's time to do that so you can understand what you need and want in a relationship.
He will always want those things he mentioned, and you will always want what you do in a relationship. I have seen Taurus and Sag work before, but in your case, I don't see it happening since I have also known Taurus to hold a grudge for life....lol You may have a reason to of course, but I have a feeling you won't ever truly trust him and it will be miserable for the both of you.
To answer your question, it would be option 3...but you are hurt. It probably won't happen that way. Plus, I don't really think he can offer you what you want in a relationship anyway as I said before.
He will always want those things he mentioned, and you will always want what you do in a relationship. I have seen Taurus and Sag work before, but in your case, I don't see it happening since I have also known Taurus to hold a grudge for life....lol You may have a reason to of course, but I have a feeling you won't ever truly trust him and it will be miserable for the both of you.
To answer your question, it would be option 3...but you are hurt. It probably won't happen that way. Plus, I don't really think he can offer you what you want in a relationship anyway as I said before.
You're all right. It is just going to be very hard to let go cause he is one of the three people I actually let into my life besides family. It's just a big loss but I will never forgive him sadly because I am an overthinker and I will always feel hurt and lack of trust with him after how much he has hurt me in the past.
Posted by Blairjones512Then use that "energy" to move on.... delete everything connected to him to leave a clear path for you to love again with a person who is more compatible with you.
You're all right. It is just going to be very hard to let go cause he is one of the three people I actually let into my life besides family. It's just a big loss but I will never forgive him sadly because I am an overthinker and I will always feel hurt and lack of trust with him after how much he has hurt me in the past.
This post stood out the minute I saw it because, this was exactly what I was going through not even 4 months ago. And in the end it left me broken hearted.
Here are three rules Ive learned when dating a Sag. Male:
1. Let him feel like he can be free to do what he wants, without you tagging along with him all the time.
2. When you guys talk out your problems, do not bring it up again. Saggy like to move on faster than we like to.
3. Do not what so ever cling on to him. AKA be independent and do your own thing.
three simple things I failed to realize when dating one. and I know, It can be tough, as a lot of us Taurus females are very possessive and love to depend on the people we love, but let me tell you... if that's how you are then you are in the wrong relationship.
As far as bringing up the resentment you feel towards him, the best way to bring it up is calm and in person. Talk it out, then let it be. It is what it is. He will move on, you should to. and if he keeps doing the same things you resent... LEAVE HIM. Like seriously. He will never change unless he feels like it. I made this mistake on staying with my sag. ex. when I would constantly be in a state of sadness because of things he had done which mad me not trust him and all of the above, overtime it mad me miserable when I stayed.
But if you want this to keep working, I can not stress this enough, you need to be independent and make him chase you. Sagitarrius love the thrill, and hate same ole' boring repetitive relationship.
I really hope you like this advice. 🙂
Here are three rules Ive learned when dating a Sag. Male:
1. Let him feel like he can be free to do what he wants, without you tagging along with him all the time.
2. When you guys talk out your problems, do not bring it up again. Saggy like to move on faster than we like to.
3. Do not what so ever cling on to him. AKA be independent and do your own thing.
three simple things I failed to realize when dating one. and I know, It can be tough, as a lot of us Taurus females are very possessive and love to depend on the people we love, but let me tell you... if that's how you are then you are in the wrong relationship.
As far as bringing up the resentment you feel towards him, the best way to bring it up is calm and in person. Talk it out, then let it be. It is what it is. He will move on, you should to. and if he keeps doing the same things you resent... LEAVE HIM. Like seriously. He will never change unless he feels like it. I made this mistake on staying with my sag. ex. when I would constantly be in a state of sadness because of things he had done which mad me not trust him and all of the above, overtime it mad me miserable when I stayed.
But if you want this to keep working, I can not stress this enough, you need to be independent and make him chase you. Sagitarrius love the thrill, and hate same ole' boring repetitive relationship.
I really hope you like this advice. 🙂
IM A SAG GIRL DATING A TAURUS MAN.
i recently asked for space because of so much confusion by lack of communication on what my Taurus guys wants for our relationship. as a Sagittarius i don't make plans, i just wing it mostly, but i do follow direction if i feel the outcome will benefit me and my happiness.
so if he left because he doesn't know where you stand its because hes sick of feeling like he has no direction and the worst thing to me is wasting my time on something that was never going to work. you have to just blurt out the first things that comes to mind and not try to think so much about what you think and feel. just say it and think about it after. i know that might not be in your nature but it is the nature of a Sagittarius and that might help them if you are willing to be on their level once and awhile.
Talk in person and be super calm and chill - if he cares about you he wants to see you.
just say im afraid to get hurt. its as easy as that, you say what you need and will will embrace your feelings and make sure that we do the right thing to avoid the bad type of hurt. the kind that is thoughtless
unless they have done something untrustworthy then you need to bury the thought and if it really eats at you, you should tell them you trust them not to hurt you and give them that responsibility to not let you down. - we can take direction well as long as its for a positive.
if we are not getting communication of feelings and mutual direction then yes we will get bored from trying to pull words out and will get tired and we will soon enough get over you to a no return place. its important that you compromise your traits for ours as needed,
this is not a one way street.
i recently asked for space because of so much confusion by lack of communication on what my Taurus guys wants for our relationship. as a Sagittarius i don't make plans, i just wing it mostly, but i do follow direction if i feel the outcome will benefit me and my happiness.
so if he left because he doesn't know where you stand its because hes sick of feeling like he has no direction and the worst thing to me is wasting my time on something that was never going to work. you have to just blurt out the first things that comes to mind and not try to think so much about what you think and feel. just say it and think about it after. i know that might not be in your nature but it is the nature of a Sagittarius and that might help them if you are willing to be on their level once and awhile.
Talk in person and be super calm and chill - if he cares about you he wants to see you.
just say im afraid to get hurt. its as easy as that, you say what you need and will will embrace your feelings and make sure that we do the right thing to avoid the bad type of hurt. the kind that is thoughtless
unless they have done something untrustworthy then you need to bury the thought and if it really eats at you, you should tell them you trust them not to hurt you and give them that responsibility to not let you down. - we can take direction well as long as its for a positive.
if we are not getting communication of feelings and mutual direction then yes we will get bored from trying to pull words out and will get tired and we will soon enough get over you to a no return place. its important that you compromise your traits for ours as needed,
this is not a one way street.
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2. Text him about the situation and just be blunt and to the point
3.) Talk in person and be super calm and chill
I'm a Taurus and I have A LOT of resentment because he broke up with me out of nowhere because of feeling tied down and routine making him feel like we weren't progressing after a year of dating.
-I wanna talk about how I don't want to get hurt again without seeing it coming
-i dont trust him
-I feel like something is off i dont have any real proof but I just feel like he is getting bored again because we're too comfortable with each other so he's not putting in an effort to make it passionate, fun, or exciting.
-He only invites me to his plans and doesn't go to my plans. And when i go out with him and his friends he expects me to start talking to someone random the whole time and to let him do his own thing with his friends and said "I like the couples that can go out together but do their own thing when they are out with friends." (but i dont know his friends so it's awk talking to random ppl when I went to see him)