If u didnt reciprocate his affections then he gives u the cold shoulder...and he is hurt.
How to get ur taurus man back?
Well, firstly, we don't just 'forget' an interest and move on... So don't listen to the rest, it doesn't work that way. If he showed interest, it is a fact and it remains either way. We back off when we feel rejected and heal up, we aren't like others who just jump right back in an continue if nothing happened.
Something did happen and we process that first, get over it, and then decide whether we want to go on.
It might be a lot of 'work'... if you don't understand how we 'work', but it really isn't that complex I would say. BTW, whenever it feels like 'work' then your not into it in any case, rather leave it then.
But, if you would like to get him involved again then I would say a good place to start is give him some of your time again. It is so easy to just turn your back on someone showing interest when they are taking the time for YOU, no effort, no 'work' but honest sincerity for YOU. Very easy to just ignore them etc...
The thing is, you need to now take the time for him. You don't even have to do much. A simple call, or text to get his attention at first would be great, and if you don't get an immediate response, remember you didn't respond to him immediately either did you?
If you give them your time after they have given you theirs, then you can have almost anyone worth having in any case. Not just taureans, anyone else. So take it slow, let him know you are still there and from time to time involve him, send a text or make a 10min call, and once he knows you are taking the time, not effort, not 'work' to be around he will respond in kind.
I will say this, there is a quote that says;
'Don't make a girl fall for you, if you have no intention of catching her'
It is not just for girls though. If you are going to do this you can't keep turning your back on him and then call him back when you feel like it. We are stubborn, but also stupid in love, but after a second strike we are out. Shame on you for the first time, shame on me for allowing a second...
Something did happen and we process that first, get over it, and then decide whether we want to go on.
It might be a lot of 'work'... if you don't understand how we 'work', but it really isn't that complex I would say. BTW, whenever it feels like 'work' then your not into it in any case, rather leave it then.
But, if you would like to get him involved again then I would say a good place to start is give him some of your time again. It is so easy to just turn your back on someone showing interest when they are taking the time for YOU, no effort, no 'work' but honest sincerity for YOU. Very easy to just ignore them etc...
The thing is, you need to now take the time for him. You don't even have to do much. A simple call, or text to get his attention at first would be great, and if you don't get an immediate response, remember you didn't respond to him immediately either did you?
If you give them your time after they have given you theirs, then you can have almost anyone worth having in any case. Not just taureans, anyone else. So take it slow, let him know you are still there and from time to time involve him, send a text or make a 10min call, and once he knows you are taking the time, not effort, not 'work' to be around he will respond in kind.
I will say this, there is a quote that says;
'Don't make a girl fall for you, if you have no intention of catching her'
It is not just for girls though. If you are going to do this you can't keep turning your back on him and then call him back when you feel like it. We are stubborn, but also stupid in love, but after a second strike we are out. Shame on you for the first time, shame on me for allowing a second...
Posted by OmagaIII
Well, firstly, we don't just 'forget' an interest and move on... So don't listen to the rest, it doesn't work that way. If he showed interest, it is a fact and it remains either way. We back off when we feel rejected and heal up, we aren't like others who just jump right back in an continue if nothing happened.
Something did happen and we process that first, get over it, and then decide whether we want to go on.
It might be a lot of 'work'... if you don't understand how we 'work', but it really isn't that complex I would say. BTW, whenever it feels like 'work' then your not into it in any case, rather leave it then.
But, if you would like to get him involved again then I would say a good place to start is give him some of your time again. It is so easy to just turn your back on someone showing interest when they are taking the time for YOU, no effort, no 'work' but honest sincerity for YOU. Very easy to just ignore them etc...
The thing is, you need to now take the time for him. You don't even have to do much. A simple call, or text to get his attention at first would be great, and if you don't get an immediate response, remember you didn't respond to him immediately either did you?
If you give them your time after they have given you theirs, then you can have almost anyone worth having in any case. Not just taureans, anyone else. So take it slow, let him know you are still there and from time to time involve him, send a text or make a 10min call, and once he knows you are taking the time, not effort, not 'work' to be around he will respond in kind.
I will say this, there is a quote that says;
'Don't make a girl fall for you, if you have no intention of catching her'
It is not just for girls though. If you are going to do this you can't keep turning your back on him and then call him back when you feel like it. We are stubborn, but also stupid in love, but after a second strike we are out. Shame on you for the first time, shame on me for allowing a second...
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sorry, what? its hidden so i cant read it....
If they are anything like the women all they need are time attention and love. give him lots of it.
This is an excerpt "If You Forget Me" by Pablo Neruda.
The last two paragraphs of the poem. I think it summarizes the answer to your question.
If you think it long and mad,
the wind of banners
that passes through my life,
and you decide
to leave me at the shore
of the heart where I have roots,
remember
that on that day,
at that hour,
I shall lift my arms
and my roots will set off
to seek another land.
But
if each day,
each hour,
you feel that you are destined for me
with implacable sweetness,
if each day a flower
climbs up to your lips to seek me,
ah my love, ah my own,
in me all that fire is repeated,
in me nothing is extinguished or forgotten,
my love feeds on your love, beloved,
and as long as you live it will be in your arms
without leaving mine.
The last two paragraphs of the poem. I think it summarizes the answer to your question.
If you think it long and mad,
the wind of banners
that passes through my life,
and you decide
to leave me at the shore
of the heart where I have roots,
remember
that on that day,
at that hour,
I shall lift my arms
and my roots will set off
to seek another land.
But
if each day,
each hour,
you feel that you are destined for me
with implacable sweetness,
if each day a flower
climbs up to your lips to seek me,
ah my love, ah my own,
in me all that fire is repeated,
in me nothing is extinguished or forgotten,
my love feeds on your love, beloved,
and as long as you live it will be in your arms
without leaving mine.
Translation
If a Bull feels a connection to you that allows him/her to feel warm and vulnerable with you, but the other individual opts to not reciprocate this at our most weakest moment...then on that day, hour, and moment, we have made an internal assessment not to pursue you any further, and find someone new...
...And Never Look Back!
But if you are determined to fight for your Bull, you will have to convince yourself that the two of you were destined to be together. Loyalty (now and forever) is extremely crucial. No compromising in this area, or mixed feelings of uncertainty. You will have to seek this Bull out with much vigor, passion, total vulnerability, absolution of complete humility. Surrender.
Once the Bull is convinced, depending on the initial chemistry, the passion and connection that was reserved for you (that was once lost or forgotten) will resurface...will burn with the same intensity...and the love presented to you would be unconditional love and absolute loyalty.
If a Bull feels a connection to you that allows him/her to feel warm and vulnerable with you, but the other individual opts to not reciprocate this at our most weakest moment...then on that day, hour, and moment, we have made an internal assessment not to pursue you any further, and find someone new...
...And Never Look Back!
But if you are determined to fight for your Bull, you will have to convince yourself that the two of you were destined to be together. Loyalty (now and forever) is extremely crucial. No compromising in this area, or mixed feelings of uncertainty. You will have to seek this Bull out with much vigor, passion, total vulnerability, absolution of complete humility. Surrender.
Once the Bull is convinced, depending on the initial chemistry, the passion and connection that was reserved for you (that was once lost or forgotten) will resurface...will burn with the same intensity...and the love presented to you would be unconditional love and absolute loyalty.
Posted by sandynads
it wud be too much effort, just move on.
If you refuse to put in work...
Then moving on will be your best bet.
Coming @ a Bull sideways, expecting to be pursued after non-reciprocation...will leave you in a head- frenzy.
A Bull will not budge. This mental stress can take a lifetime.
Direct, Total Submission will be best.
Posted by OmagaIII
Well, firstly, we don't just 'forget' an interest and move on... So don't listen to the rest, it doesn't work that way. If he showed interest, it is a fact and it remains either way. We back off when we feel rejected and heal up, we aren't like others who just jump right back in an continue if nothing happened.
Something did happen and we process that first, get over it, and then decide whether we want to go on.
It might be a lot of 'work'... if you don't understand how we 'work', but it really isn't that complex I would say. BTW, whenever it feels like 'work' then your not into it in any case, rather leave it then.
But, if you would like to get him involved again then I would say a good place to start is give him some of your time again. It is so easy to just turn your back on someone showing interest when they are taking the time for YOU, no effort, no 'work' but honest sincerity for YOU. Very easy to just ignore them etc...
The thing is, you need to now take the time for him. You don't even have to do much. A simple call, or text to get his attention at first would be great, and if you don't get an immediate response, remember you didn't respond to him immediately either did you?
If you give them your time after they have given you theirs, then you can have almost anyone worth having in any case. Not just taureans, anyone else. So take it slow, let him know you are still there and from time to time involve him, send a text or make a 10min call, and once he knows you are taking the time, not effort, not 'work' to be around he will respond in kind.
I will say this, there is a quote that says;
'Don't make a girl fall for you, if you have no intention of catching her'
It is not just for girls though. If you are going to do this you can't keep turning your back on him and then call him back when you feel like it. We are stubborn, but also stupid in love, but after a second strike we are out. Shame on you for the first time, shame on me for allowing a second...
+10000
Brilliantly stated!
Eye contact and lots of touch whom tells more than any word could do.
But second chance is the last...
But second chance is the last...
@ Taurus bull 1977. I love the poem. It explains what I need in a partner very very well. It's written beautifully. Affection is very very very important for us Taurean. It's as important as communication for airy signs.
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Sorry back...I was just agreeing w/Oma...for some reason my posts were showing up twice on my end.
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Sorry back...I was just agreeing w/Oma...for some reason my posts were showing up twice on my end.
To get your Taurus man back.... don't contact him. They will contact you. lol
or He will contact you..
Posted by M143
To get your Taurus man back.... don't contact him. They will contact you. lol
What do you mean?
That's a question above how to get ur Taurus man back?
The answer: Don't contact him via sms or email , etc.
I did the NO CONTACT thing. He contacted me after 4 days not hearing anything from me. lol. He initiated
the "NC" and was just listening and take the challenge..
Hi Everyone! I am in need of some advice regarding my taurus male who has just called it quits!
After my taurus man telling me he wasn't excited to see me when he was coming home after being away with work for the last couple of months! I got upset and sent him a message telling him how I felt about a couple of things. I was really hurt! I just wanted him to know how I felt. The next day he text me that he was sorry for upsetting me and that he would leave things there and let me move on so I could be happy! How do I repair this situation? He is only home for a week? Please help
After my taurus man telling me he wasn't excited to see me when he was coming home after being away with work for the last couple of months! I got upset and sent him a message telling him how I felt about a couple of things. I was really hurt! I just wanted him to know how I felt. The next day he text me that he was sorry for upsetting me and that he would leave things there and let me move on so I could be happy! How do I repair this situation? He is only home for a week? Please help
This happened to me not too long ago, just say what you need to say. If you need to explain yourself,do that..then leave him alone. The rest is on him from there. It took this Taurus 5 months to contact me again.
Hi, I'm a Virgo woman whose bf who just got dumped by a Taurus. He told me that it was because he was about to b very busy at work and wouldn't have time for me and not to think that he didn't like me anymore because he still does. So my question is: Is he just bullbutterting me or is he serious? I'm asking because it's hard for me to know when somebody is messing with my feelings.
From my last post it was meant to be.bullshitting*
Thanx @Shashkay
You are cold @Enoch.
I would find a way to tell him he interests you. You can flatter him, but be sincere. Think of things you have in common and share those things. Talk to him. Use social media. Be available but never desperate or trashy. Make HIM want you again so he'll make the first move. Good luck.
Posted by EnochtheWiseI'm joking too....Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428nooooo...Just playin' around. Folks are sensitive. Not sure which have less of an ability to laugh at themselves, the bulls or the goats. I guess life is pretty serious on the farm.
You are cold @Enoch.
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This is 3 year old thread doubt @Op is going to answer.
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