I detest nosy people... Especially the kind that lurk around.

Those are the worst. They are in the shadows, quiet but always around waiting on gossip and information. When she gets it the bitch walks around SMUG as if she got some information that proves she's better than you and she's won. Sigh. I want to be raging mad but I'm bothered. I rather she just disappear from my life. Go look down, compete, " exert your made up superiority towards someone else" This game is getting old and tired.

I'm going to read my Bible tonight, Proverbs.

Posted by UmiSays
oh my i just had this situation present itself. boss keeps snooping on my goals.
who is this person you're talking about? friend? school? work?

sibling. With her it's annoying. With a boss, that's stressful. Is your boss snooping on your personal or work goals?

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Posted by VenusStar

Posted by UmiSays
oh my i just had this situation present itself. boss keeps snooping on my goals.
who is this person you're talking about? friend? school? work?

sibling. With her it's annoying. With a boss, that's stressful. Is your boss snooping on your personal or work goals?

oh no do you two live together? im sorry to hear you're going through that. any way to solve it?
and for me its personal goals. want's to see what im doing so he could beat me to it, higher level. but im not too worried his work doesn't really encompass quality. i feel like mine does a bit more.

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work circles around him. He probably feels like you make him look bad because he's the boss. I'm going to say that's not an ideal situation to be in because he is your boss and people like that (competitive) will try anything to make you look bad or make themselves look better than what they are.

Posted by CruellaWhite
Why would a sibling snoop? What don't they already know?

shit I keep to myself because of the kind of person they are.

Posted by Cricket808
I've never understood why some people are like this.

I don't understand either. In regular it annoys me. At work it infuriates me. You'll know who those people are. If I do overtime 30 minutes one day, that coworker will do 35 the next. Or that coworker who likes inflate their knowledge and worth.

Posted by SDNA
nosy people that talk shit. most people are like this. better get used to it.

I shouldn't get used to it . that just just means I'll let it slide. I want to verbally punish these people. You're right many do it but I don't have to accept it. I'm at a low point in life now so I'm shocked to see who people really are but that has nothing to do with my sibling she's always been that way.

@venusstar - some people are so pathetic that they have to drama and stress about what everyone else is doing - if you are noticing what they do and attaching their behavior to what you are doing - maybe, just maybe that could be contributing to your problem ... well, what I am trying to say is that if you mind your own beeswax and stop noticing and getting bothered by what they are doing perhaps you can have more peace. Ok so that doesn't always work cause I have a sort of a same problem in my office at work and it does make me sick but I can't focus on it or I will truly flip out.

@Tiziani's tactic of telling them a bunch of superfluous bull and then sitting back sounds like a plan of action to me. But I would tell them something totally off the chart and see if they spread it around and then lay into them when they do and tell them if they don't stop getting into your business they will be dead before the end of the day. With a very straight face of course.

it sucks and I hate drama vamps - the woman in my office has over the past 2 years started dressing and talking like me and now listens to the same music I do - I could just barf on her ...