Posted by wickedAwww man I def don't want it to be that way I feel like I lost my best friend and him stating he hasn't had much to smile about since last week either says one or two things either he is missing me like I'm missing him or he lost whatever feeling he had for me and it bummed him out but I'm going for the former rather than the latter...he told he has never felt for someone this quickly or this deeply enough for him to say when he first saw me he said he knew I would be the one he marries he's said it from the beginning....but the stubbornness is something we will have to find common ground on so we can work through things rather than have these standoffs
The biggg problem I have seen with taureans is : The still love that one person... deeply. But they are too darn stubborn! Doesnt let go of that one love. They think they made a mistake and waste few years trying to move on.
Same old story of how Ego killed Love. Sometimes we love silently those we dont have around us.
Posted by champrangerLol indeed we do...I will update you and say me and my taurus have talked and he told me what his issue was and he thought I didn't want him anymore he felt I switched on him and when I was being a bitch on Skype he felt it was my way of telling him I don't want him....he's been just as miserable as me said he hasn't slept hasn't smiled and his body even feels out of whack said he was hurt said I sounded serious so he took it seriously....Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsI think us Leo Moons do well in staying optimistic and thankful, but never really well to aloofness. 😉Posted by champrangerI'm so used to being in control of my emotions and my surroundings so this is so throwing me off because I feel vulnerable. I'm sitting up here thinking now about how today when he said he hasn't been smiling much and when I asked why which was me saying tell me what the fuck is wrong with you so we can fix it he says he hasn't had much to smile about so I say how he's breathing walking talking and has so much to smile about cliche I know but I did then I said I thought I used to do a good job making you smile aND he replied that I do but I think he wanted me to keep fishing and say well what has you feeling like this but I'm one of those lay your cards on the table people and he's keeping his close to his chestPosted by LeoladylickingwoundsI think maybe it just overwhelmed him in those moments ... not the actual sentiment ...Posted by wickedI actually regret not saying it sooner so I can understand why he might see it as a ploy but even before then I would express my feelings and he world always express his and show them too and I really do mean it I say it proudly I love him I'm in love with him
I agree with Twodrinks.
The L word shouldnt be thrown around carelessly. When u say it, u must mean it. Understand its depth. And the other person shouldn't doubt it. Shouldnt be used to get an emotional connection when u dont feel enough. Or to make the other person attached to u. That is manipulation. And attention seeking.click to expand
Posted by idkLol I probably did need to cut the emotional bull lol but I really do care about him and actually we are talking through it now he told me what his issue was and it really was a misunderstanding and I think we are on a right track...but I appreciate you even lurking and taking the time to read and lend your opinion love I need all of you guys input
i've been lurking this thread for a while and everytime i read it, i want to just say "cut the emotional bullshit and just ... whatever"
but something kept me from doing that multiple times.
it seems like you actually care about the person, which is probably not a bad thing.
i think if you just be yourself, and things don't work out... well hey, maybe they just don't like you. i think there's also the possibility that the situation might not be convenient. i don't really know, it might be a lot more complicated than how i am making it seem.
Posted by wickedLololol I needed that laugh and thank you it seems like everything is working itself out today
:-)
I still dont get why this thread was created lol
Teasing ya
Goodluck fellow leo moon
Posted by champrangerI think so!!! We are talking he is coming back around and everything he said he thought I didn't want him anyPosted by LeoladylickingwoundsSo the misunderstanding is cleared up? 😄Posted by champrangerLol indeed we do...I will update you and say me and my taurus have talked and he told me what his issue was and he thought I didn't want him anymore he felt I switched on him and when I was being a bitch on Skype he felt it was my way of telling him I don't want him....he's been just as miserable as me said he hasn't slept hasn't smiled and his body even feels out of whack said he was hurt said I sounded serious so he took it seriously....Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsI think us Leo Moons do well in staying optimistic and thankful, but never really well to aloofness. 😉Posted by champrangerI'm so used to being in control of my emotions and my surroundings so this is so throwing me off because I feel vulnerable. I'm sitting up here thinking now about how today when he said he hasn't been smiling much and when I asked why which was me saying tell me what the fuck is wrong with you so we can fix it he says he hasn't had much to smile about so I say how he's breathing walking talking and has so much to smile about cliche I know but I did then I said I thought I used to do a good job making you smile aND he replied that I do but I think he wanted me to keep fishing and say well what has you feeling like this but I'm one of those lay your cards on the table people and he's keeping his close to his chestPosted by LeoladylickingwoundsI think maybe it just overwhelmed him in those moments ... not the actual sentiment ...Posted by wickedI actually regret not saying it sooner so I can understand why he might see it as a ploy but even before then I would express my feelings and he world always express his and show them too and I really do mean it I say it proudly I love him I'm in love with him
I agree with Twodrinks.
The L word shouldnt be thrown around carelessly. When u say it, u must mean it. Understand its depth. And the other person shouldn't doubt it. Shouldnt be used to get an emotional connection when u dont feel enough. Or to make the other person attached to u. That is manipulation. And attention seeking.click to expand
Posted by champrangerNot sure yet he just told me today because he had just found out...I didn't push him about it just had a good conversation all day and before he went to sleep like I'm getting ready to...lol...but he said he wanted to sit down with me and explain everything about it...so hurt about it but I'm happy to have him back and this just draws me closer to him....Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsSo sorry to hear that. 😢 Can he get treatments right away?
Soooo....turn of events right after we spoke he contacted me and talked throughout the day and even called this morning....we actually talked he told me the issue that he felt when I acted that way that I didn't want him and he took it serious and felt heartbroken and backed off...he said he's been just as miserable as me hasn't slept or smiled...but what's worse is...he told me today he has cancer....non hodgkin's lymphoma 😢 I was so hurt it made everything last week seem obsolete and pointless....when I asked if he still felt the same for me he said yes and I asked was I still his future he said he hopes so then said he had something to tell me and said I might not want him as my future when he tells me and then he said cancer...my heart stopped...I told him I'm not going anywhere and I would never look at him different because of it...we talked and he's pretty much almost back to normal but he just found out and I can tell he's stressed...pray for him...click to expand
Posted by champrangerMe either....but thank you!Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsCan't imagine what that's like. 😢 Good luck! 🙂Posted by champrangerNot sure yet he just told me today because he had just found out...I didn't push him about it just had a good conversation all day and before he went to sleep like I'm getting ready to...lol...but he said he wanted to sit down with me and explain everything about it...so hurt about it but I'm happy to have him back and this just draws me closer to him....Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsSo sorry to hear that. 😢 Can he get treatments right away?
Soooo....turn of events right after we spoke he contacted me and talked throughout the day and even called this morning....we actually talked he told me the issue that he felt when I acted that way that I didn't want him and he took it serious and felt heartbroken and backed off...he said he's been just as miserable as me hasn't slept or smiled...but what's worse is...he told me today he has cancer....non hodgkin's lymphoma 😢 I was so hurt it made everything last week seem obsolete and pointless....when I asked if he still felt the same for me he said yes and I asked was I still his future he said he hopes so then said he had something to tell me and said I might not want him as my future when he tells me and then he said cancer...my heart stopped...I told him I'm not going anywhere and I would never look at him different because of it...we talked and he's pretty much almost back to normal but he just found out and I can tell he's stressed...pray for him...click to expand
Posted by TwodrinksThank you love and I definitely plan on it I told him he's stuck with me I'm not going anywhere...I'm hoping it is fully treatable he has too much life left to live....Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsIm sorry sweetie. My brother had a type of blood Cancer when he was very young and he's been in remission for 10 years. It's treatable. Try to be his anchor in this time. I do hope everything works out for the best.
I truly hope it lasts the test of time because time is actually not on his side like that scroll up aND read the update we are back talking but he told me he has cancer 😢click to expand
Posted by wickedThank you love and I'm giving him time to process don't want to push him to talk about it I want to sit down and be able to be close to him when we talk about it right now I just want to be there for him and just love him....I swear I fell in love more when he told me...like it was an affirmation in my head I said to myself this is really it I want to be with him forever through good and bad and I hope to have a steady and loving relationship as well like you and to find a love like this is rare and I'm holding on
@ Leolady: I'm sorry to hear about this. Stay strong. And yes you should sit down and discuss this with him. It would make a huge difference to know you have some loving support.
Anytime you wanna talk.. we are here. I'm sure it's treatable. Time for you both to stay positive.
(((Hugs)))
@Twodrinks: it is working for me. Im in a steady stable loving relationship since 2008. Isnt that something? And yeah this is not the place to discuss it. What works for one person wont work for another. Lets hope we all are lucky enough to find the type of love we need. Im saying this in a good way : )
Posted by busyeyes88Awww thank you so so much I appreciate it and I will hang in there like I just said on another comment...it made me love him more just confirm more in my mind that this is kismet (destiny) and we are supposed to be together I will never leave him now I love him and want to be there for him...I will def keep you guys updatedPosted by LeoladylickingwoundsI am so sorry... This seriously made me weep!! I promise I will pray... Sorry ... Please be Strog and hang in there.. We are hear any time you need us.. Sorry...
Soooo....turn of events right after we spoke he contacted me and talked throughout the day and even called this morning....we actually talked he told me the issue that he felt when I acted that way that I didn't want him and he took it serious and felt heartbroken and backed off...he said he's been just as miserable as me hasn't slept or smiled...but what's worse is...he told me today he has cancer....non hodgkin's lymphoma 😢 I was so hurt it made everything last week seem obsolete and pointless....when I asked if he still felt the same for me he said yes and I asked was I still his future he said he hopes so then said he had something to tell me and said I might not want him as my future when he tells me and then he said cancer...my heart stopped...I told him I'm not going anywhere and I would never look at him different because of it...we talked and he's pretty much almost back to normal but he just found out and I can tell he's stressed...pray for him...click to expand
Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsThat's right girl! Let those haters roll right off. I am direct, unlike some of the other passive aggressive people on here.Posted by champrangerI can understand that because Leo's are very passionate assertive peoplePosted by underwaterthingSome signs misconstrue Fire's passion, in my experience. So while we may think that we're showing passion, other signs may not see it that way.Posted by Twodrinks....and u think this is normal?
It's been 6 months and i said I love you ONCE to the Aqua on accident because he bought me a knife. It was like "omg a weapon!!!! I love you" 🤔
But a passionate assertive leo knowing she loves someone after two weeks is not?
....ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmclick to expand
Posted by wickedLearned it awhile ago....thought it sounded beautiful even when just spoken
Kismet? A hindi word...
Posted by underwaterthingLolol I'm direct as well that's why I was having issues with the silent treatment cause I'm used to someone just saying hey this is what pissed me off either we talk about it it say fuck it lol and trust me I can see that being true already about taurus but the thing is Leo's are used to people bending over backwards for us as well so this should be interesting!Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsThat's right girl! Let those haters roll right off. I am direct, unlike some of the other passive aggressive people on here.Posted by champrangerI can understand that because Leo's are very passionate assertive peoplePosted by underwaterthingSome signs misconstrue Fire's passion, in my experience. So while we may think that we're showing passion, other signs may not see it that way.Posted by Twodrinks....and u think this is normal?
It's been 6 months and i said I love you ONCE to the Aqua on accident because he bought me a knife. It was like "omg a weapon!!!! I love you" 🤔
But a passionate assertive leo knowing she loves someone after two weeks is not?
....ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Anywayyyyyyys, I do wish you well, but urge you to be careful. Taurus is one of the only signs that can get us to bend over backwards. Remember yourself and don't let anyone put your fire out.click to expand
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