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Posted by jeaneSomething did happen I have an idea but I don't know what exactly did it aND that's what's freaking me out because I can't pinpoint the issue that's causing it and it really werent arguing or bickering we were skyping he was laughing and taking so was I but when I was being bitchy it was passive-aggressive but I was smiling like it was a joke and when I said goodnight and ended skype abruptly I think that just started it and maybe my emotional apology did the restPosted by Leoladylickingwoundsarguing? bickering? certainly something seems to have happened as he is now giving you shade and you are freaking out.
What is harem squared and we weren't fighting about it I was being bratty when he said he missed me I playfully but with some serious said no you don't miss you don't miss me and made a statement about meeting his mom cause he's met mine aND truthfully it was never about me meeting his mom I just got insecure from something my ex did with hiding our relationship in the beginning and it triggered my inner bitchclick to expand
Posted by wickedLol you're right you guys are right and I really appreciate this honest and tough love I'm that type of person that needs it raw...thank. you guys so much! I'm hoping that is the reason he is holding on because he can't let go and wants it to work when we skyped he did look happy to see me and smiled and we laughed and joked but when I started talking about my feelings it's like I saw this wall come down over his eyes I could still see the affection but it was like he was trying to hide and it and be stone faced
@jeane : Men who have venus in aries like women who chase them. .. I didnt say it coz the op has already went ballistic on the guy.
Its not the guy who is messing it up.
Op is bringing way too much drama into the pic. Its been just one day.. let him relax. He is still putting up with it. I wonder why. Maybe he really likes u 😉
@op u need to calm down. U know it. We know it. He knows it. But it's not helping your case.
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Posted by jeaneI will take your advice and calm it down when we did skype he said he had a long week so he couldve had a bad week at work I guess I didn't know enough about taurus I just figured he was reacting solely to me and my actions he couldve been in a bad space already and my nagging just pushed him over....smh I miss him so much it's crazy I just. Wonder if he's thinking of me....like I said he did respond when I texted albeit not as quick some times and on some text not at all but when I called twice he didn't pick up but we did skype and for a moment it was regular until I started telling him how I feel then that wall shot up smh I'll br patient but just know with this being the only day with no communication especially after my revelation understand why I'm freaking lolPosted by Leoladylickingwoundsregardless of what happens you have to learn to be patient with a bull. they disappear. work on their mind? gone. feeling under the weather? gone. family issues? see ya. you need to be self sufficient and have the confidence in you and their feeling.
In my logical leo mind jeane you are right it's only been a day but In my emotional lion cub mind I'm mewing and crying because he didn't even reach out not even a good morning and this is the first day we haven't spoke at all since last tusday night when it happened...we still had communication....it's only coming up on a week and it feels like it's been soooo long
it's not for everyone and it's hard to deal with at times but the strong survive with this bunch. i speak with my bull everyday but there are times perhaps where he disappears on me for a few days, even now after 2.5 years of knowing each other. it's not personal, he is just focusing on other things and he always comes back. i've learnt not to panic in those moments and not let it slow me down.click to expand
Posted by wickedLol I have been just trying to keep myself busy I got so used to taking and seeing him everyday its like losing a job wtf do I do all day now lolol
I think it was a double post. So she deleted the first post.
Relax. Go out with yr gal friends.. dont corner a bull. It gets bad. It doesnt look as bad as it looks.
Posted by wickedNo worries. There are so many things to consider astrologically.Posted by MsTeeq1974Spot on MsTeeq :-))Posted by wickedFour planets in your 4th house would calm down the tendency to flit from lover to lover. You're looking for a nurturing home in whoever you seek out a relationship. With moon in Leo and Venus in Aries that home would be someone who either allows you to shine or facilitates your feeling optimistic. They would also probably have to have and demonstrate a high energy level.
@Jeane
No offense but I'm a Gemini with Venus in Aries. I have had long term relationships.Only.With my first guy 5 years and now Im happily married to a sexy Aries since 2009. I did have another bf in btwn(bf of just five months) but we had to separate due to differences of opinion.And I have never had flings nor short term affairs. But I do have loads and loads of guy friends...
I feel its unfair to blame it all on a single natal aspect. Why in their synastry a couple could have Nodes on angles, nodes on luminaries, vertex on descendant, or saturn on nodes, saturn to luminaries, ... These could lead to long term relationships. Atleast give it a good possibility. Now I have Saturn on my IC, four planets in my fourth house, moon in Leo (2nd house), Cancer Rising and I could never have a one night stand. Its just impossible for me. Even with my Venus in Aries, Uranus opposite Sun in Gemini..
I thought Venus is what appeals to us.... and how express our affections.
Yup I always wanted a loving home.. my guy should be emotionally attached to me. Without hearing the L word, I never got physical with any one of them. Clingy me 😢(
With my tenth house venus on MC and moon in Leo, uranus in fifth house scorpio- I need to shine and need excitement in a relationship. Lucky i married an Aries with venus in taurus and mars in leo. Plus his moon is sitting on my sun. We have a lovely synastry.
Thanks MsTeeq for not shooting me down as a flirty type. Im fed up of hearing how gemini women cant be faithful blah blah blah.click to expand
Posted by MsTeeq1974I know this also may not mean much but we were also so I'm sync it was scary...we would call at the same time and our phones would go to vm then text that we were trying to call at the same time we finish each other's sentence we've even sent pictures at the same time...woke up at the same time have even not slept good the same night and even was feeling sick at the same time....I would text him I'm thinking of him and he would be calling at the same time and my message didn't go through yet IPosted by wickedNo worries. There are so many things to consider astrologically.Posted by MsTeeq1974Spot on MsTeeq :-))Posted by wickedFour planets in your 4th house would calm down the tendency to flit from lover to lover. You're looking for a nurturing home in whoever you seek out a relationship. With moon in Leo and Venus in Aries that home would be someone who either allows you to shine or facilitates your feeling optimistic. They would also probably have to have and demonstrate a high energy level.
@Jeane
No offense but I'm a Gemini with Venus in Aries. I have had long term relationships.Only.With my first guy 5 years and now Im happily married to a sexy Aries since 2009. I did have another bf in btwn(bf of just five months) but we had to separate due to differences of opinion.And I have never had flings nor short term affairs. But I do have loads and loads of guy friends...
I feel its unfair to blame it all on a single natal aspect. Why in their synastry a couple could have Nodes on angles, nodes on luminaries, vertex on descendant, or saturn on nodes, saturn to luminaries, ... These could lead to long term relationships. Atleast give it a good possibility. Now I have Saturn on my IC, four planets in my fourth house, moon in Leo (2nd house), Cancer Rising and I could never have a one night stand. Its just impossible for me. Even with my Venus in Aries, Uranus opposite Sun in Gemini..
I thought Venus is what appeals to us.... and how express our affections.
Yup I always wanted a loving home.. my guy should be emotionally attached to me. Without hearing the L word, I never got physical with any one of them. Clingy me 😢(
With my tenth house venus on MC and moon in Leo, uranus in fifth house scorpio- I need to shine and need excitement in a relationship. Lucky i married an Aries with venus in taurus and mars in leo. Plus his moon is sitting on my sun. We have a lovely synastry.
Thanks MsTeeq for not shooting me down as a flirty type. Im fed up of hearing how gemini women cant be faithful blah blah blah.click to expand
Dxp cuts you off if the posts get too long. If you're going to stick around...get used to it.
Posted by MsTeeq1974Lol I have noticed and this was the end of it ......yet I have had him enter my mind and then grab my phone and he would be texting or calling smh lol it was funny so now I wonder if he's thinking of me and having a hard time sleeping like me
Dxp cuts you off if the posts get too long. If you're going to stick around...get used to it.
But I want to stick around I really feel like he is it for me and that's saying something because I'm a natural flirt and love male company and I haven't even thought of another man
It sounds like things really could work out for you guys. No doubt. Patience is definitely necessary.
Posted by MsTeeq1974Thank you so much for your words of encouragement I hope so cause I would be extremely heart broken if it didn't even though I would move on it would break my heart completely
It sounds like things really could work out for you guys. No doubt. Patience is definitely necessary.
Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsI think you've apologised enough. Stop calling or texting. Wait it out. If you continue, you'll become of less value or smth. Taurus ppl like equality in everything. Stop SAYING sorry. Act in the way that shows you've understood and learned from something. Act in a MATURE way and you can always find ways to give clear indication that you care for him without saying anything. If he wants to fogive, he will. If not, no amount of trying is gonna change that.Posted by TaurusMarineI definitely understand on not reading lol sorry for all of that part of my leo nature...how would you suggest I constantly prove to him I've apologized admitted I was in love with him took full responsibility and said it would never happen again and that I wasn't playing games I've initiated most of the communication after we skyped and I told him again how sorry I was and that I fell in love with him he hasn't called or texted yet should I lay low today or call or text....I really don't want to lose him
I'm sorry for not reading everything, but if you hurt Taurus, beware. It takes ages to heal and centuries to forgive. But the shit is that Tauruses dont forget.
Your only choice is to constantly prove you're a better version than your previous self, and you'll do everything to make amends.click to expand
Posted by TaurusMarineI understand I just wish I actually asked what the issue is via skype....guess I'll never know....part of me just wants to let it go because it hurts so much and if he really cared like he said he would put me through this it's been a week today and while we have had some communication ever since I told him how I felt Sunday it's been silence I didn't call or text yesterday and today I just texted have a good day but I won't contact anymore after this at allPosted by LeoladylickingwoundsI think you've apologised enough. Stop calling or texting. Wait it out. If you continue, you'll become of less value or smth. Taurus ppl like equality in everything. Stop SAYING sorry. Act in the way that shows you've understood and learned from something. Act in a MATURE way and you can always find ways to give clear indication that you care for him without saying anything. If he wants to fogive, he will. If not, no amount of trying is gonna change that.Posted by TaurusMarineI definitely understand on not reading lol sorry for all of that part of my leo nature...how would you suggest I constantly prove to him I've apologized admitted I was in love with him took full responsibility and said it would never happen again and that I wasn't playing games I've initiated most of the communication after we skyped and I told him again how sorry I was and that I fell in love with him he hasn't called or texted yet should I lay low today or call or text....I really don't want to lose him
I'm sorry for not reading everything, but if you hurt Taurus, beware. It takes ages to heal and centuries to forgive. But the shit is that Tauruses dont forget.
Your only choice is to constantly prove you're a better version than your previous self, and you'll do everything to make amends.click to expand
Posted by champrangerHis birthday is may 19th 1985Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsI think it is the emotional apology ... but then Taurus Moon generally have a really good poker face. With Sun, Moon, Merc in Taurus, it would be hard to tell.Posted by jeaneSomething did happen I have an idea but I don't know what exactly did it aND that's what's freaking me out because I can't pinpoint the issue that's causing it and it really werent arguing or bickering we were skyping he was laughing and taking so was I but when I was being bitchy it was passive-aggressive but I was smiling like it was a joke and when I said goodnight and ended skype abruptly I think that just started it and maybe my emotional apology did the restPosted by Leoladylickingwoundsarguing? bickering? certainly something seems to have happened as he is now giving you shade and you are freaking out.
What is harem squared and we weren't fighting about it I was being bratty when he said he missed me I playfully but with some serious said no you don't miss you don't miss me and made a statement about meeting his mom cause he's met mine aND truthfully it was never about me meeting his mom I just got insecure from something my ex did with hiding our relationship in the beginning and it triggered my inner bitch
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Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsThis whole thing is about him seeing you at your weakest moment to date.Posted by champrangerHis birthday is may 19th 1985Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsI think it is the emotional apology ... but then Taurus Moon generally have a really good poker face. With Sun, Moon, Merc in Taurus, it would be hard to tell.Posted by jeaneSomething did happen I have an idea but I don't know what exactly did it aND that's what's freaking me out because I can't pinpoint the issue that's causing it and it really werent arguing or bickering we were skyping he was laughing and taking so was I but when I was being bitchy it was passive-aggressive but I was smiling like it was a joke and when I said goodnight and ended skype abruptly I think that just started it and maybe my emotional apology did the restPosted by Leoladylickingwoundsarguing? bickering? certainly something seems to have happened as he is now giving you shade and you are freaking out.
What is harem squared and we weren't fighting about it I was being bratty when he said he missed me I playfully but with some serious said no you don't miss you don't miss me and made a statement about meeting his mom cause he's met mine aND truthfully it was never about me meeting his mom I just got insecure from something my ex did with hiding our relationship in the beginning and it triggered my inner bitch
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He's figuring out if he's going to deal with you or not.
When you show your hands that fast to someone like "the love" card to try to keep them after a month and a half...they will second guess your integrity about love.
Did she say it because she meant it ? Is she saying it to keep me near ? Would she have said it this soon if this situation didn't occur ?
Men get emotional too about women and you never took one second to think about why he may have wanted to wait for you to meet his mom.
Maybe she's not easy going or a Lil cray cray...or maybe she's over protective and he just wasn't ready.
Everybody does not move at the same speed relationship wise in ways you do.
Patience is the key but not if they tell you they just want you as friends. Then you may be wasting your time. So move on. Or take the time to get to know them along time by being friends. And always have a life outside because once we are together we become possessive and trust starts in the beginning of it all.
As a Leo with Taurus ex...just run. They will make you bend over backwards and invert. Had a good 2 years and the last year was SO bad that I can say he is the only relationship I regret and only ex who will never be a friend. We brought out the worst in each other. People of course tried to tell me this and I didn't listen 🙂
We had a soul vibe that you mentioned to (joint calling/texting/etc)
Grab your damn pride and value yourself. What do you want with a guy that cant even bother to respond? That cant assert himself to talk to you? These guys thing they hung the damn moon and everyone should shuffle around him. Get your leo self together and move forward.
Grab your damn pride and value yourself. What do you want with a guy that cant even bother to respond? That cant assert himself to talk to you? These guys thing they hung the damn moon and everyone should shuffle around him. Get your leo self together and move forward.
Posted by Twodrinks....and u think this is normal?
It's been 6 months and i said I love you ONCE to the Aqua on accident because he bought me a knife. It was like "omg a weapon!!!! I love you" 🤔
But a passionate assertive leo knowing she loves someone after two weeks is not?
....ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Posted by happyface1Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsPosted by champrangerPosted by LeoladylickingwoundsPosted by jeaneAs an earth rising sign, venus, and mars...I have to agree with Jeane. I had major suspicions about my Scorp, because he told me that he loved me in the 3rd week. That was rather quick and instead of "going with it"....I had suspicions about his love for MONTHS. I wish he hadn't gone there so quickly, because then I might have known sooner than later that it was genuine. Now that we're still going on and he's managed to keep showing me love...I finally FEEL like he loves me. That part I don't doubt anymore. But yea...that love thing with earth energy...you do have to be careful. I've let that ish slip out before with a Pisces on the cusp of Aries guy and I really did feel that way and we hadn't even had sex. I don't know what came over me...but I honestly felt like I loved him and when he broke things off suddenly (after 2 months of seeing each other consistently...I was sooooooo hurt. But then I went no contact, ghosted his ass, and it made me feel so much better to have the strength to do that. It certainly helped that I met the sexy ass Taurus (the one still chasinPosted by LeoladylickingwoundsThis whole thing is about him seeing you at your weakest moment to date.
What is harem squared and we weren't fighting about it I was being bratty when he said he missed me I playfully but with some serious said no you don't miss you don't miss me and made a statement about meeting his mom cause he's met mine aND truthfully it was never about me meeting his mom I just got insecure from something my ex did with hiding our relationship in the beginning and it triggered my inner bitch
He's figuring out if he's going to deal with you or not.
When you show your hands that fast to someone like "the love" card to try to keep them after a month and a half...they will second guess your integrity about love.
Did she say it because she meant it ? Is she saying it to keep me near ? Would she have said it this soon if this situation didn't occur ?
Men get emotional too about women and you never took one second to think about why he may have wanted to wait for you to meet his mom.
Maybe she's not easy going or a Lil cray cray...or maybe she's over protective and he just wasn't ready.
Everybody does not move at the same speed relationship wise in ways you do.click to expand
Whoops...sorry...I think it was Happyface that said something about earth energy and falling in love too soon.
Posted by champrangerHere it is...sorry guys...effin brain is on some weird shit tonight. lol ha ha ha ha
...and no earth signs will believe that it's love after two weeks, imo ...
Posted by wickedOk...let's talk about this...if you don't mind. lol I agree that a person can seem to have marriage potential from the start. However, does that equal love which is an emotional bonding? I mean...really love. You love a person despite their faults. You love a person because you've seen their ugliness and you've decided that they're still beautiful. You love a person and you NEVER want to let go. You don't want them to go away and the thought of them going away hurts...just the thought of it. I've met people and yes, I thought that the partnership had great potential to flourish which can give your heart the permission/all clear/it's safe to love that person. However...just because you think it's safe to love them doesn't mean you actually DO.Posted by champrangerSurprisinly I disagree.
...and no earth signs will believe that it's love after two weeks, imo ...
Few of my earth sign ex flames have told me they started to love me from the very first. Its something like they decided I have long term potential/marriage material lol! In the end I did reject them 😢click to expand
My response to my Scorp was..."Do I have your permission to fall in love with you?" I wanted to know if it was something that he actually wanted before I began letting my guard down enough to consider that he might stick around through the bad times TO continued to be loved.
Posted by TwodrinksExcellent advice!!Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsYou appear to be a sun moon and venus leo. Little loverPosted by TwodrinksLol okay wait so what moon am I in I'm July 28th birth year 84
And a Mars in gem to boot. With a moon in taurus!! Wowsers. All kinds of fun
Just chill out a little bit. Be your sweet little self but no more spilling your guts all over the place to him. So what you acted like a brat. One sorry was enough. Move on like nothing ever happened.click to expand
Please Op, sit back and be patient. Let things progress naturally. 6 weeks is not that much time and as you are in other states it's REALLY not that much time as your not able to see each other in person as often.
Remind yourself that his lovely words, calling you wifey, your mother his mother-in-law, etc. are just words after all. Wait and see if he backs up all his talk.
Posted by champrangerI have fallen in love in both less and more time....I have never been wrong about falling in love. Never went back on that feeling.
...and no earth signs will believe that it's love after two weeks, imo ...
There are no rules for love. That's what earth signs don't get 😉
Passion unbridled. That's what fire signs get !
Team fire sign for life
Posted by happyface1He technically showed his hand first he confessed his love for me many times and early on and would continuously say it like he wasn't afraid and he was actually the one who insisted I should mePosted by LeoladylickingwoundsThis whole thing is about him seeing you at your weakest moment to date.Posted by champrangerHis birthday is may 19th 1985Posted by LeoladylickingwoundsI think it is the emotional apology ... but then Taurus Moon generally have a really good poker face. With Sun, Moon, Merc in Taurus, it would be hard to tell.Posted by jeaneSomething did happen I have an idea but I don't know what exactly did it aND that's what's freaking me out because I can't pinpoint the issue that's causing it and it really werent arguing or bickering we were skyping he was laughing and taking so was I but when I was being bitchy it was passive-aggressive but I was smiling like it was a joke and when I said goodnight and ended skype abruptly I think that just started it and maybe my emotional apology did the restPosted by Leoladylickingwoundsarguing? bickering? certainly something seems to have happened as he is now giving you shade and you are freaking out.
What is harem squared and we weren't fighting about it I was being bratty when he said he missed me I playfully but with some serious said no you don't miss you don't miss me and made a statement about meeting his mom cause he's met mine aND truthfully it was never about me meeting his mom I just got insecure from something my ex did with hiding our relationship in the beginning and it triggered my inner bitch
IMO
He's figuring out if he's going to deal with you or not.
When you show your hands that fast to someone like "the love" card to try to keep them after a month and a half...they will second guess your integrity about love.
Did she say it because she meant it ? Is she saying it to keep me near ? Would she have said it this soon if this situation didn't occur ?
Men get emotional too about women and you never took one second to think about why he may have wanted to wait for you to meet his mom.
Maybe she's not easy going or a Lil cray cray...or maybe she's over protective and he just wasn't ready.
Everybody does not move at the same speed relationship wise in ways you do.click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428He hasn't said anything about just friends if anything he was always saying how he wants to marry me called me his future the love of his life and future mother of his children
Patience is the key but not if they tell you they just want you as friends. Then you may be wasting your time. So move on. Or take the time to get to know them along time by being friends. And always have a life outside because once we are together we become possessive and trust starts in the beginning of it all.
Posted by underwaterthingWow well that's disheartening lolol
As a Leo with Taurus ex...just run. They will make you bend over backwards and invert. Had a good 2 years and the last year was SO bad that I can say he is the only relationship I regret and only ex who will never be a friend. We brought out the worst in each other. People of course tried to tell me this and I didn't listen 🙂
Posted by underwaterthingLolol. I've never felt like this and it took me a while to get a grasp on the feelings and yes I do love him in love with him and don't regret saying it. EitherPosted by Twodrinks....and u think this is normal?
It's been 6 months and i said I love you ONCE to the Aqua on accident because he bought me a knife. It was like "omg a weapon!!!! I love you" 🤔
But a passionate assertive leo knowing she loves someone after two weeks is not?
....ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmclick to expand
Posted by champrangerWe have been texting everyday except for monday the day after i told him my feelings and skyped once today we actually had a normal convo and he told me he hasn't smiled much or had much to smile about since last week basically letting me know he's going through it tooPosted by underwaterthingIt shouldn't be. I'm an Aries Venus with Gem Mars like this Taurus does. Aries Venus usually have no problem having conversation every day, IF it's with the person they really like. Aries Venus have problems keeping a conversation going, IF it's with a person they don't really want to talk to or have no interest in having a conversation with them.
We had a soul vibe that you mentioned to (joint calling/texting/etc)
Grab your damn pride and value yourself. What do you want with a guy that cant even bother to respond? That cant assert himself to talk to you? These guys thing they hung the damn moon and everyone should shuffle around him. Get your leo self together and move forward.
IMO 🙂
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Posted by champrangerI can understand that because Leo's are very passionate assertive peoplePosted by underwaterthingSome signs misconstrue Fire's passion, in my experience. So while we may think that we're showing passion, other signs may not see it that way.Posted by Twodrinks....and u think this is normal?
It's been 6 months and i said I love you ONCE to the Aqua on accident because he bought me a knife. It was like "omg a weapon!!!! I love you" 🤔
But a passionate assertive leo knowing she loves someone after two weeks is not?
....ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmclick to expand
Posted by wickedBut you guys have been the best lol the problem was is that we were doing good I had a bitchy moment and think I said something he misconstrued and now he's being distant we have been talking but not like before and today he told me he hasn't been smiling since last week hasn't had much to smile about since last week basically saying since we have had our differences he's been miserable like me and once again I didn't. Really ask what the issue is because I've asked before and he wouldn't say but it was early last week right when it happened he might be more open now to say the issue but I want to see him look in his face when I ask that and we talk he didn't call at all on Monday the day after I told him I fell in love but before this slight disagreement he would constantly say I'm the reason he smiles and he's the happiest he's ever been and how he's fallen for me and sees me as his everlasting his love the love of his life I mean constantly every day with everything he did that's the only reason I'm still holding on..I really do love him and feel like he is it for me and for me to have never ever felt this way I know it's real but I wish I knew what exactly was the issue I think he wanted me to ask today when he said he hasn't had much to smile about but I guess I'm waiting for him to tell me the issue as well I really feel he took something I said out of context which will back up some of you saying it s only been 6 weeks but time is not a marker for how close you can become with someone I've become better friends with people I've known in less time than ones I've had for over a decade or 2
I have been pn this thread for a while now Leolady but I still have no clue what the real problem is lol! 😉
He loves you, you love him and then what? Give him some time.. things will get peachy and dreamy again.
Just dont ask him to meet his mom and all that. That will happen on its own. When the bull is ready.
Be yourself. Enjoy. Relax.
Posted by wickedOnly fell in love once...this time
I have fallen in love only twice 😢
Once with a Taurus guy... and then fell in love with my husband. Im talking about romantic love.
Posted by TwodrinksWell I was always a level headed teenager and understood the dynamics of love which is why I saved my falling in love moment for a real feeling like this one and even tho he's been distant I still feel the samePosted by MsTeeq1974🙂 this goes more along my line of thinking when it comes to love. I need to know how you like your eggs cooked in the morning. How you handle life when you're at your worst. How you treat your mom! And your friends. Are you gonna clean your hair out of the bath tub? Lol...I need to know things before I fall in love with someone. Saying I love you after a few weeks is something I did when I was a teenager. When I was selfish and I loved the way the person made me feel. Not because I actually got to know them and loved THEM and all that they are, in every form.Posted by wickedOk...let's talk about this...if you don't mind. lol I agree that a person can seem to have marriage potential from the start. However, does that equal love which is an emotional bonding? I mean...really love. You love a person despite their faults. You love a person because you've seen their ugliness and you've decided that they're still beautiful. You love a person and you NEVER want to let go. You don't want them to go away and the thought of them going away hurts...just the thought of it. I've met people and yes, I thought that the partnership had great potential to flourish which can give your heart the permission/all clear/it's safe to love that person. However...just because you think it's safe to love them doesn't mean you actually DO.Posted by champrangerSurprisinly I disagree.
...and no earth signs will believe that it's love after two weeks, imo ...
Few of my earth sign ex flames have told me they started to love me from the very first. Its something like they decided I have long term potential/marriage material lol! In the end I did reject them 😢
My response to my Scorp was..."Do I have your permission to fall in love with you?" I wanted to know if it was something that he actually wanted before I began letting my guard down enough to consider that he might stick around through the bad times TO continued to be loved.click to expand
Posted by champrangerMe too I would hate for it to be damaged because of a misunderstandingPosted by LeoladylickingwoundsGood luck! Hopefully it changes for the better. 🙂Posted by champrangerWe have been texting everyday except for monday the day after i told him my feelings and skyped once today we actually had a normal convo and he told me he hasn't smiled much or had much to smile about since last week basically letting me know he's going through it tooPosted by underwaterthingIt shouldn't be. I'm an Aries Venus with Gem Mars like this Taurus does. Aries Venus usually have no problem having conversation every day, IF it's with the person they really like. Aries Venus have problems keeping a conversation going, IF it's with a person they don't really want to talk to or have no interest in having a conversation with them.
We had a soul vibe that you mentioned to (joint calling/texting/etc)
Grab your damn pride and value yourself. What do you want with a guy that cant even bother to respond? That cant assert himself to talk to you? These guys thing they hung the damn moon and everyone should shuffle around him. Get your leo self together and move forward.
IMO 🙂
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Posted by wickedI actually regret not saying it sooner so I can understand why he might see it as a ploy but even before then I would express my feelings and he world always express his and show them too and I really do mean it I say it proudly I love him I'm in love with him
I agree with Twodrinks.
The L word shouldnt be thrown around carelessly. When u say it, u must mean it. Understand its depth. And the other person shouldn't doubt it. Shouldnt be used to get an emotional connection when u dont feel enough. Or to make the other person attached to u. That is manipulation. And attention seeking.
Posted by TwodrinksPosted by LeoladylickingwoundsYou know yourself better than I do. You've talked about ending it right here in this thread. Paraphrasing but something alongPosted by TwodrinksWell I was always a level headed teenager and understood the dynamics of love which is why I saved my falling in love moment for a real feeling like this one and even tho he's been distant I still feel the samePosted by MsTeeq1974🙂 this goes more along my line of thinking when it comes to love. I need to know how you like your eggs cooked in the morning. How you handle life when you're at your worst. How you treat your mom! And your friends. Are you gonna clean your hair out of the bath tub? Lol...I need to know things before I fall in love with someone. Saying I love you after a few weeks is something I did when I was a teenager. When I was selfish and I loved the way the person made me feel. Not because I actually got to know them and loved THEM and all that they are, in every form.Posted by wickedOk...let's talk about this...if you don't mind. lol I agree that a person can seem to have marriage potential from the start. However, does that equal love which is an emotional bonding? I mean...really love. You love a person despite their faults. You love a person because you've seen their ugliness and you've decided that they're still beautiful. You love a person and you NEVER want to let go. You don't want them to go away and the thought of them going away hurts...just the thought of it. I've met people and yes, I thought that the partnership had great potential to flourish which can give your heart the permission/all clear/it's safe to love that person. However...just because you think it's safe to love them doesn't mean you actually DO.Posted by champrangerSurprisinly I disagree.
...and no earth signs will believe that it's love after two weeks, imo ...
Few of my earth sign ex flames have told me they started to love me from the very first. Its something like they decided I have long term potential/marriage material lol! In the end I did reject them 😢
My response to my Scorp was..."Do I have your permission to fall in love with you?" I wanted to know if it was something that he actually wanted before I began letting my guard down enough to consider that he might stick around through the bad times TO continued to be loved.click to expand
Posted by champrangerI'm so used to being in control of my emotions and my surroundings so this is so throwing me off because I feel vulnerable. I'm sitting up here thinking now about how today when he said he hasn't been smiling much and when I asked why which was me saying tell me what the fuck is wrong with you so we can fix it he says he hasn't had much to smile about so I say how he's breathing walking talking and has so much to smile about cliche I know but I did then I said I thought I used to do a good job making you smile aND he replied that I do but I think he wanted me to keep fishing and say well what has you feeling like this but I'm one of those lay your cards on the table people and he's keeping his close to his chestPosted by LeoladylickingwoundsI think maybe it just overwhelmed him in those moments ... not the actual sentiment ...Posted by wickedI actually regret not saying it sooner so I can understand why he might see it as a ploy but even before then I would express my feelings and he world always express his and show them too and I really do mean it I say it proudly I love him I'm in love with him
I agree with Twodrinks.
The L word shouldnt be thrown around carelessly. When u say it, u must mean it. Understand its depth. And the other person shouldn't doubt it. Shouldnt be used to get an emotional connection when u dont feel enough. Or to make the other person attached to u. That is manipulation. And attention seeking.click to expand
Posted by wickedI really appreciate your words love and yes you were lucky and blessed to feel it immediately and still have it that's what I want I felt like this was my fairytale and hopes it still is like a love at first sight thing I really miss him and just want it to get back there...I just want him have no desire for anyone but him haven't even thought of giving anyone else the time of day no attraction to anyone else he's it I want to marry him and have his babies and I have NEVER said that so willingly
Like I said in another thread, give the guy some time to take it in. Taureans take time.
U just need to smile and relax.
All the best to u both :-)
Posted by wickedNot luck you were meant to be you're soul tied soulmates
@ champranger
Awww... I get what you are saying.
But few things are not meant to be.
With my husband we have our differences now and then. .. but we agree on the most important things like bringing up our baby/ religious and spiritual values/ education/ ethics/ food habits... and these are major stuff. This happened on its own. And we are very forgiving with each other.
So maybe we were plain lucky? Especially when I knew right away I wanna spend my life with him?
Luck I guess.
Posted by wickedI really would and if it didn't then I would take it like the universe showing me I can actually love deeply like this but I hope it does....cause I love that man
I think she said something like even if it doesnt work she will continue to love him.
Posted by TwodrinksAgreed. Because if your eggs being cooked a certain way is a big deal to you and I just can't seem to get it right...then I've failed to love you in a way that matters to you. Also vice versa. Lol...I totally get it though the eggs example is rather tedious...but still. Ya know?Posted by MsTeeq1974🙂 this goes more along my line of thinking when it comes to love. I need to know how you like your eggs cooked in the morning. How you handle life when you're at your worst. How you treat your mom! And your friends. Are you gonna clean your hair out of the bath tub? Lol...I need to know things before I fall in love with someone. Saying I love you after a few weeks is something I did when I was a teenager. When I was selfish and I loved the way the person made me feel. Not because I actually got to know them and loved THEM and all that they are, in every form.Posted by wickedOk...let's talk about this...if you don't mind. lol I agree that a person can seem to have marriage potential from the start. However, does that equal love which is an emotional bonding? I mean...really love. You love a person despite their faults. You love a person because you've seen their ugliness and you've decided that they're still beautiful. You love a person and you NEVER want to let go. You don't want them to go away and the thought of them going away hurts...just the thought of it. I've met people and yes, I thought that the partnership had great potential to flourish which can give your heart the permission/all clear/it's safe to love that person. However...just because you think it's safe to love them doesn't mean you actually DO.Posted by champrangerSurprisinly I disagree.
...and no earth signs will believe that it's love after two weeks, imo ...
Few of my earth sign ex flames have told me they started to love me from the very first. Its something like they decided I have long term potential/marriage material lol! In the end I did reject them 😢
My response to my Scorp was..."Do I have your permission to fall in love with you?" I wanted to know if it was something that he actually wanted before I began letting my guard down enough to consider that he might stick around through the bad times TO continued to be loved.click to expand
Posted by TwodrinksI'm laying here literally yelling at my phone. Yessssss!!!!! I've loved people through some hideous circumstances and it's the kind of love I've always wanted in return. Things overall don't need to remain the same, we just still need to love one another beyond the circumstances...going back to your other statement. If I can show you love by cooking what you like to eat...that can happen as long as there is food and fire in our lives. You know? If I can rub your back in the heat, I can rub it in the cold. Not many people can consistently love like that.Posted by MsTeeq1974I want to cosign this too. The strongest love Ive ever felt and still receive no matter our relationship status is from an earth sign. It was actually a couple years before he said it but we weren't in a romantic relationship either. Im not even his girlfriend but if I ever needed him, he's there. If I need to talk, he's never too busy. I value his type of love above anything and it's what I strive to give other people. If it's love, it doesn't disappear. The circumstances may change but the love stays.Posted by champrangerHere it is...sorry guys...effin brain is on some weird shit tonight. lol ha ha ha ha
...and no earth signs will believe that it's love after two weeks, imo ...click to expand
Posted by MsTeeq1974Omg. Y'all are making me miss him more lolol but I definitely feel you on that because if this would've happened in any other situation and I didn't feel like this....this thread would have never been created...as a leo I'm naturally self centered I hate to say it but it's true and we're extremely prideful and don't like to be embarrassed or have our love thrown back in our face and the fact that my love for him is growing and not shrinking let's me know it's real...he's on my mind constantly even now even when I don't want to or try to push him out his words his actions his touch his kiss his feelings are still there...and if you would've told me I would feel like this 2 months ago I would've looked at you like you grew an extra head even when I used to see or hear people falling in love quick I'm like but you barely know them...weird thing is I feel like I've known him for a lifetime like I loved him in another lifetime and we are meeting back up I have never felt something like this beforePosted by TwodrinksI'm laying here literally yelling at my phone. Yessssss!!!!! I've loved people through some hideous circumstances and it's the kind of love I've always wanted in return. Things overall don't need to remain the same, we just still need to love one another beyond the circumstances...going back to your other statement. If I can show you love by cooking what you like to eat...that can happen as long as there is food and fire in our lives. You know? If I can rub your back in the heat, I can rub it in the cold. Not many people can consistently love like that.Posted by MsTeeq1974I want to cosign this too. The strongest love Ive ever felt and still receive no matter our relationship status is from an earth sign. It was actually a couple years before he said it but we weren't in a romantic relationship either. Im not even his girlfriend but if I ever needed him, he's there. If I need to talk, he's never too busy. I value his type of love above anything and it's what I strive to give other people. If it's love, it doesn't disappear. The circumstances may change but the love stays.Posted by champrangerHere it is...sorry guys...effin brain is on some weird shit tonight. lol ha ha ha ha
...and no earth signs will believe that it's love after two weeks, imo ...click to expand
Now that...I can totally relate to. @ leolady.
Sorry for making you miss him more. Eventually he'll come back or you'll move on. Been there, did that as well.
Sorry for making you miss him more. Eventually he'll come back or you'll move on. Been there, did that as well.
Posted by MsTeeq1974No you're fine I would be missing him regardless lol but for some reason I think it's going to work out and be fine I'm just used to being in control of my situation but if it doesn't I'll be truly heartbroken but I will move on but probably will always love him
Now that...I can totally relate to. @ leolady.
Sorry for making you miss him more. Eventually he'll come back or you'll move on. Been there, did that as well.
Posted by wickedAgreed...I hate to borrow a saying from a movie but like hazel grace said in the fault among our stars....
Im a bit confused here. Knowing how you handle your personal crisis, how you like your eggs cooked, etc,.. doesnt mean I will definitely fall in love.
What you guys are talking abt is choosing a partner, a boyfriend maybe a husband. Not falling in love.
"I fell in love with him the way you fall asleep...slowly...and then all at once...it was just the feeling the way he looked at me how I looked at him...how he touched my heart and soothed the rough places in my soul without trying...how he makes me genuinely smile without regard for what's going on around me...he made me feel beautiful and undamaged...new...full of life and love and anticipation of what tomorrow with him would bring...when he holds me close kisses me on my forehead and watched me sleep even though I wasn't but felt him touching my face studying the pieces of me telling me when he thought I was sleep that he never wants to let me go and how blessed and lucky he is to have me...whispered I was his dream come true heard him say I hope this isn't inception and I'm dreaming when he watched me when he thought i was sleep...how he just loved me from the start...I could care less how he cooks eggs or cleans hair out the sink after he shaves or if he leaves is clothes in the middle of the floor or farts in his sleep...I fell in love with every part of him without even experiencing them all....I just love him plain and simple...no preservatives no fillers
sounds like infatuation to me.
Posted by wickedI hope so because it wasn't expected it just happened I wasn't even looking for him or love it just found me
Awww!
Didnt get to watch that movie... lovely stuff :-)
I believe our soul reaches out for pure love despite the differences....
Sometimes we pick a partner while discarding love.
Im sure things will be good btwn u and your taurus.
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