I'm a Aries Taurus cusp dating the same sign

I am more on taurus and he is more on Aries, we connect on all levels. The one snag is that I have kids. He thinks I'm still in love with the kids father...ultimately this could be our demise but I'm searching for solutions. Any "cuspers" dated the same or just been in this situation period with the cusp?

Do we not talk to new people here? Our am I doing this wrong?

Posted by sensualbullram
I am more on taurus and he is more on Aries, we connect on all levels. The one snag is that I have kids. He thinks I'm still in love with the kids father...ultimately this could be our demise but I'm searching for solutions. Any "cuspers" dated the same or just been in this situation period with the cusp?

Well, I am neither and Aries or a Taurus so take from this what you will.

The first thing that caught my eye was you did not deny the accusation in your original post. You did not say he thinks I am still in love with the kids father...but I am not.

So perhaps he sees something that you are not aware of. Or maybe he is laying grounds for his escape plan now. Or maybe he is insecure and needs reassurance from you.

I really do not think him being a cusper or an Aries for that matter has anything to do with anything.

Posted by sensualbullram
Do we not talk to new people here? Our am I doing this wrong?

Aahahahahha....Listen, if you are not a Scorpio, you need to have a pic in your profile or something.

lol

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Posted by sensualbullram
Do we not talk to new people here? Our am I doing this wrong?

Aahahahahha....Listen, if you are not a Scorpio, you need to have a pic in your profile or something.

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Lol! I'm dying!

Posted by sensualbullram
Do we not talk to new people here? Our am I doing this wrong?

I typically don't reply if I have no input. This is one of those "it's beyond me" situations. However, so this reply isn't entirely a waste... I would prefer not to get involved with someone who has kids already, it's potential mine field which will surely be my demise. I'm also not a Cusp, but more of a middle ground kind of guy (May 10). I've also been told on here that I have a tendency to come off as a Dick, so don't take my opinion too seriously, it's not a reflection of you as a person.

Of course if you disagree, by all means feel free to spam my inbox with hate mail. LOL.

Posted by AnomalousBull

Posted by sensualbullram
Do we not talk to new people here? Our am I doing this wrong?

I typically don't reply if I have no input. This is one of those "it's beyond me" situations. However, so this reply isn't entirely a waste... I would prefer not to get involved with someone who has kids already, it's potential mine field which will surely be my demise. I'm also not a Cusp, but more of a middle ground kind of guy (May 10). I've also been told on here that I have a tendency to come off as a Dick, so don't take my opinion too seriously, it's not a reflection of you as a person.

Of course if you disagree, by all means feel free to spam my inbox with hate mail. LOL.

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This whole post doesn't sound dickish to me. You sound very kind and considerate. I don't know you, though.