Insecure with this bull

Insecure with my Taurus Man .. help! So i seriously have this huge confusion about my boyfriend ... its long and i dont vare because i really need advice .... ok so me and my taurus bull met back in sept '13 as co workers ... we became friends but i didnt know he was into me until he decided to become sexual with me in nov '13 .. NO SEX .. just foreplay i guess u would call it... ever since we have been talking and became official in jan '15 .. still NO SEX and its because its his choice... we always foreplay and cuddle naked and juices floating around our bodies ... but yet no actual sex... he gets hard and stays hard and no sex... would not allow me to do oral either ... we recently was in a break for a mth and now we r together again ... but yet no sex... close this time.. but no sex... hes 30 about to b 31 .. highly educated but cant hold a job. Hes an alcoholic and porn addict... we smoke together and have the best time ... we argue like lions since im a sagittarius and he literally ignites my fire ... he has some family issues and his car broke down... so i brought another car for myself to help him out... never caught him cheating... hacked through all his emails and facebook ... still not able to hack into his broken phone... all he uses to communicate though is his obama phone... i havent met his friends ... he hardly sees them either .. i never met or seen pictures of his family... but he hardly talks to them... hes with me all the time but lives on his own ..... i caught him lying to me about small shit ... but i just let it go ... its now 2016 and idk what to do with this relationship... during our break i felt like i was literally dying without him... now im with him and all my fucking insecurities came back on the table... my ex of 8yrs was a gemini and was very open and honest with me even when he went with another chick he will tell me until towards the end of our relationship he did cheat on me .. so idk if im still scarred... but this bull doesnt show me any security i guess... he says be patient with me i will have sex with u ... excuses like u will have my baby and i dont want to get caught up in that ... i recently found a girls number in his phone last week and called her supposedly they r just friends ... and for some reason my heart trust that but my mind doesnt ... this all just doesnt make sense... but me and him have such a strong connection its hard to stop being with him... it makes it seem as if we will b together forever. . But when he leaves... i come to reality and ask myself wtf is going on ... help me please

Did I read this correctly... you purchased a car for him?!?

Both cars r under my name... I was driving 95 toyota .. and brought 2005 .. to help him out ...

I heard alcoholic and porn addict. Oh hun no. Just no.

I've been with him for almost 3yrs now... he's not a bad guy... just has a lot of internal issues... @Gennie

Why did you say Obama phone lol....

He's an alcoholic and porn addict.

Tell him to pick a battle. Can't be both.

He doesn't want to have sex with you - so with this much knowledge...you say

let me buy him a car.

You found another woman's number in his phone....someone who he probably will have sex with.

This isn't real

What are you smoking for real?

Sagittarius
... it's more than just sex ... we really have gotten close... we see eachother all the time ... we have such a strong connection I can't explain it... sober or high we have shared how much we care for one another... cuddles me at night to tell me how much he loves me... becomes insecure with other men involved ... 😢

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Posted by Latinaluv514
Insecure with my Taurus Man .. help! So i seriously have this huge confusion about my boyfriend ... its long and i dont vare because i really need advice .... ok so me and my taurus bull met back in sept '13 as co workers ... we became friends but i didnt know he was into me until he decided to become sexual with me in nov '13 .. NO SEX .. just foreplay i guess u would call it... ever since we have been talking and became official in jan '15 .. still NO SEX and its because its his choice... we always foreplay and cuddle naked and juices floating around our bodies ... but yet no actual sex... he gets hard and stays hard and no sex... would not allow me to do oral either ... we recently was in a break for a mth and now we r together again ... but yet no sex... close this time.. but no sex... hes 30 about to b 31 .. highly educated but cant hold a job. Hes an alcoholic and porn addict... we smoke together and have the best time ... we argue like lions since im a sagittarius and he literally ignites my fire ... he has some family issues and his car broke down... so i brought another car for myself to help him out... never caught him cheating... hacked through all his emails and facebook ... still not able to hack into his broken phone... all he uses to communicate though is his obama phone... i havent met his friends ... he hardly sees them either .. i never met or seen pictures of his family... but he hardly talks to them... hes with me all the time but lives on his own ..... i caught him lying to me about small shit ... but i just let it go ... its now 2016 and idk what to do with this relationship... during our break i felt like i was literally dying without him... now im with him and all my fucking insecurities came back on the table... my ex of 8yrs was a gemini and was very open and honest with me even when he went with another chick he will tell me until towards the end of our relationship he did cheat on me .. so idk if im still scarred... but this bull doesnt show me any security i guess... he says be patient with me i will have sex with u ... excuses like u will have my baby and i dont want to get caught up in that ... i recently found a girls number in his phone last week and called her supposedly they r just friends ... and for some reason my heart trust that but my mind doesnt ... this all just doesnt make sense... but me and him have such a strong connection its hard to stop being with him... it makes it seem as if we will b together forever. . But when he leaves... i come to reality and ask myself wtf is going on ... help me please

What's your sign?

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Sagittarius

Have you asked him why he doesn't give up the D? If so, what was his reasoning?

Posted by AriesLady8
This all sounds crazy. Do you know your placements? Like moon, Venus etc. and his?

Either his sex and liquor addiction scare cause I'm sure they go hand in hand. Once you do one you do the other or he has an std lol I don't know

I know it's super crazy... IDK what I got myself into that I can't get out... when we broke up for a month ... I even tried to move on... but since he hasn't had sex with me it was hard for me to jump on a new guy ... it's as if he trained my mind and body to only want him ... he would do the kid stuff like fingering and making sure I cum .. he would play with boobs and rub against my bottom ... we hold hands all the time etc... idk what my moon stuff is...I wish I knew how to read all that ... I'm dec 12 and he's may 14 can u figure it out?

Posted by LadyNeptune
Have you asked him why he doesn't give up the D? If so, what was his reasoning?

Yes as explained... he would say because I'm supposedly crazy and would have his child ... no std... I checked myself recently -clean, and no signs of pills or sickness.... he sees me taking birth control and says I'm lying ... I asked him if his ex had an abortion or something.. he said no ... I explained to him I never had a pregnancy scare ... he almost had sex with me when we got back together... but he backed down ... I cook for him and did the whole lingerie thing... even danced for him ... we can go hours fore playing but nothing ever happens....

Buy some condoms. If he still won't fuck you I'd confront him in a big way.

Make it clear that having sex in a relationship is important to you.

you have a strong connection with a guy who has problems with alcohol, porn, doesn't trust you and has such a low opinion of you that he considers you crazy? he's 31, he can't keep a job but can keep secrets from you, won't let you meet his family and you feel the need to go through his phone? you get along when you are high but argue fiercely when sober. oh yeah and he won't fuck you.

he sounds like a catch.

Posted by jeane
you have a strong connection with a guy who has problems with alcohol, porn, doesn't trust you and has such a low opinion of you that he considers you crazy? he's 31, he can't keep a job but can keep secrets from you, won't let you meet his family and you feel the need to go through his phone? you get along when you are high but argue fiercely when sober. oh yeah and he won't fuck you.

he sounds like a catch.

I got to know him sober ... both of us sober... we don't fight much when we r high or drinking... he takes me out here and there and I'm the only main person he talks to ... he is sweet but can become a monster instantly... from a guy's perspective I just wanted to know why not have sex with me ...

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Posted by jeane
you have a strong connection with a guy who has problems with alcohol, porn, doesn't trust you and has such a low opinion of you that he considers you crazy? he's 31, he can't keep a job but can keep secrets from you, won't let you meet his family and you feel the need to go through his phone? you get along when you are high but argue fiercely when sober. oh yeah and he won't fuck you.

he sounds like a catch.

I got to know him sober ... both of us sober... we don't fight much when we r high or drinking... he takes me out here and there and I'm the only main person he talks to ... he is sweet but can become a monster instantly... from a guy's perspective I just wanted to know why not have sex with me ...

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so you are just gonna be high and drunk all the time 🙂
about sex... ask him 🙂

and why did you post this again under a different title?

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Posted by Latinaluv514

Posted by jeane
you have a strong connection with a guy who has problems with alcohol, porn, doesn't trust you and has such a low opinion of you that he considers you crazy? he's 31, he can't keep a job but can keep secrets from you, won't let you meet his family and you feel the need to go through his phone? you get along when you are high but argue fiercely when sober. oh yeah and he won't fuck you.

he sounds like a catch.

I got to know him sober ... both of us sober... we don't fight much when we r high or drinking... he takes me out here and there and I'm the only main person he talks to ... he is sweet but can become a monster instantly... from a guy's perspective I just wanted to know why not have sex with me ...

so you are just gonna be high and drunk all the time 🙂
about sex... ask him 🙂

and why did you post this again under a different title?

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she has. he's made a bullshit excuse that he think she is crazy and so doesn't want to have a child with her. he's happy to take a car though.

she should ask again...or walk away...

i would walk away...the guy is really not ... you know...in the head....

but yeah, she is making up excuses for his behavior, and thats just sad...

Posted by busyeyes88
OP, you and the Taurus are plain crazy!!

Sag and Taurus are no good for each other especially the fact that you both get high and he is an alcoholic and porn addict!!! You are crazy!

There is no way the Taurus would only do foreplay. He must be having sex with someone else or he uses porn to 'get off' either way you both need help . This 'relationship' is a joke and totally unhealthy!

Are you sure You are not just a troll?

No I'm not a troll.... and if u were to meet both of us we actually are normal people to the outside world... and both admiring looks ... especially him ... he seems like the best person to be with when ur with him ... at first his excuses were ... u mean more to me I don't want to jump into sex... now his excuse is that he doesn't want me to get prego right now but wants a kid with me ... we talk about our future consistently.... maybe it's porn addiction that drove him away from real humans... he's always solo... and I never caught him in the act .... and if he did ... I just don't know right now... I'm so torn apart about all this... I hope for the best... but if the worst happens ... I know I'm screwed because it's really up to me... but like I said I never felt this way about anyone ....

I read this thread when I woke up this morning. It's the funniest, fucked up shit I'd read since the last funniest, fucked up shit I'd read on here. Aside from my own funniest, fucked up shit of course!

Here is an update.... the girl I saw on his phone last week... I called her that same day because he was acting very aggressive towards me snooping through his shit ... he said that I invaded his privacy... what happened was that the phone alarm went off at 2am.. y would his alarm b going off at 2am first of all?! Anyways when I dismissed it I saw a text there and opened it.. saw it was a girl texting him "hey 😉" after telling me he didn't get any recent numbers... I confronted him the next morning and he said it was a long time friend... so ur long time friend out of nowhere is going to start texting u ... and mind u he only has like 10 people in his phone list.... never have seen her text before so I knew that was a lie... at lunch he called me and yelled at me for going through his shit ... I said sorry but it didn't make sense why he was intensely mad at me... I then went over his house right after-work to confront him again and he told me I'm disrespecting him because I didn't call first to come over! .. I told him I did call but u ignored it... he left me out and didn't open the door ... I went home... texted him if he doesn't call me I will do a bitch move... waited two hours and decided to call this girl... she said supposedly they r just friends... and that her bf got mad because he just found out that she had his phone number in her phone ... she told me that her and my man met at work and exchanged numbers but it was nothing more and that he spoke about me to her... but y would her man get mad for having my man number in her phone ... there is not point to cause stress on both side of the relationship ... so I felt that something was going on between them now... anyways the next day I confessed everything to my man that I called her etc... he became very angry and started yelling at me and then said he doesn't care .... and we had a great week after that.... he acted a little weird towards the end of the week but I was just letting the heat go down ... Monday morning he tells me he loves me and I spoke to him about going on the second level in our relationship ... u know fucking sex?! So I won't feel this insecure... I haven't met this man's fam, friends, or even pics of them .... so yes after 2yrs I may have gone crazy enough to call a bitch... anyways ... so yesterday he didn't call me at all ... texted me last night when he got home and text yelled at me saying I caused some serious waves to good people who have done nothing wrong... he called me a bitch and cunt etc .. and said to fuck off from him and his life..... I just want to know from other people out there... is this truly my fault for invading or his fault for lying and treating me like this to have the urge for me to snoop—?!!! I need to know whose wrong here and if this is a valid reason to break up with... as I assume that's what fuck off means

Posted by Latinaluv514
I need to know whose wrong here and if this is a valid reason to break up with... as I assume that's what fuck off means

simple. you're wrong

Posted by jeane

Posted by Latinaluv514
I need to know whose wrong here and if this is a valid reason to break up with... as I assume that's what fuck off means

simple. you're wrong

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Why was I wrong? Wrong for invading and calling her ...?

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Posted by jeane

Posted by Latinaluv514
I need to know whose wrong here and if this is a valid reason to break up with... as I assume that's what fuck off means

simple. you're wrong

Why was I wrong? Wrong for invading and calling her ...?

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I don't have any security with this man... it's right for him to break up with me over snooping?!

yes! you were wrong because you need to trust your partner. snooping through his private things. you don't respect him and that you can't trust him speaks volumes. i'm not saying his is without his faults but come on, you're 26. surely you realise this is not a healthy relationship.

Why—?? Why do people stay in relationships like this? I will never understand.

Posted by AgentP911
I read this thread when I woke up this morning. It's the funniest, fucked up shit I'd read since the last funniest, fucked up shit I'd read on here. Aside from my own funniest, fucked up shit of course!

you really need to get yourself over to the libra board.

You need to drop this man like a bad habit. Cold turkey. You've obsessed in in a toxic way over this guy for 2 years. What have you done for yourself in life in that time? what could you have done, but didn't because of this man's bullshit?

You need to "Bye Felicia" him so hard he never even calls.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by AgentP911
I read this thread when I woke up this morning. It's the funniest, fucked up shit I'd read since the last funniest, fucked up shit I'd read on here. Aside from my own funniest, fucked up shit of course!

you really need to get yourself over to the libra board.

Cool! I could do with a few laughs (sad! I know!!) €

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Oooooh the Libra board!! I've never been in there before... My dad and sister are Libra ŠðŸ‘🼠I shall pay it a visit ˆ

If he really cared about your relationship, gave any kind of shit for you than he would have disclosed that he met a female at work and exchanged numbers so that you would feel secure.

Are you wrong for snooping? Absolutely.

But when confronted he got defensive. Only guilty people who are hiding things act this way. Also who texts a platonic friend at 2am? No one.

He's been looking for an excuse to drop you and this was his golden opportunity.

Take back your car. Take back your keys. Take back your self respect and never look back.

It's stupid shit and you ruined anything ever

I would not change once I am fixed on a certain mind set especially disrespect, bad attitudes, and people who tell me to think outside the ducking box no, if I have to use my energy for my Mercury in Taurus it is not going to be something you like, it's irritates me to always have to repeat how someone should respect other people regardless. Cut you off completely bye there are other people who like drama.

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Posted by AgentP911
I read this thread when I woke up this morning. It's the funniest, fucked up shit I'd read since the last funniest, fucked up shit I'd read on here. Aside from my own funniest, fucked up shit of course!

you really need to get yourself over to the libra board.

MMMM you're looking fine tonight. can we throw breadcrumbs at the pidgeons together?

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only if you pay for the breadcrumbs.

Having sex is all in the mind, and his mind is on porn , your given him everything on a plate,hes in a comfort zone, but does not compare to the fancies he experiences on porn site, maybe hes is addicted to cam girls. to be honest the trust is gone. you need to experience the reason you became an item, why he was attracted to you. become kids again..., lose the car,phone,computer-- go camping... or something out of the loop

Posted by 2putITmildly
Having sex is all in the mind, and his mind is on porn , your given him everything on a plate,hes in a comfort zone, but does not compare to the fancies he experiences on porn site, maybe hes is addicted to cam girls. to be honest the trust is gone. you need to experience the reason you became an item, why he was attracted to you. become kids again..., lose the car,phone,computer-- go camping... or something out of the loop

Thanks boo

Posted by 2putITmildly
Having sex is all in the mind, and his mind is on porn , your given him everything on a plate,hes in a comfort zone, but does not compare to the fancies he experiences on porn site, maybe hes is addicted to cam girls. to be honest the trust is gone. you need to experience the reason you became an item, why he was attracted to you. become kids again..., lose the car,phone,computer-- go camping... or something out of the loop

Thanks boo

I get defensive but doesn't mean I am hiding something. I just don't fight well. So I react and defend quickly myself.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I get defensive but doesn't mean I am hiding something. I just don't fight well. So I react and defend quickly myself.

Oic.... thanks! I just wish I can read his mind...

What do you want with this guy? Do communicate it to him